Posted: 12 November 2012 at 2:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by cruiser51
Laxmi ji, thanks for commenting...you post very rarely and thats sad really!
Originally posted by -allizwell-
I was all positive about paaji before he came to BB... though now the opinion is otherwise... i agree with dexy... .
I am not here to criticise paaji so apologies to Paaji fans...
I can now see his tremendous efforts to present a very positive image thru BB... presenting a diff image is EASY... being yourself is DIFFICULT...
Preaching is easy... to stand by what u preach is difficult... how many times has he changed his stand on the show... his first nomination was vrijesh and niketan... then niketan became 24 carat gold and vraj became someone who will destroy the peace of the house... Just bcoz they went against him???
Again he was seen praising Vraj in person with him.... Again got to read that he felt Dellu and Aashka were the best in the BB house and the ones whom he showed , he cared were none in his list...... so when he showed a BROTHERLY affection to Saps when Sallu was against her was all ainvayi???
Again he chose urvi to sapna for his major task as he knew urvi is strong-willed when it comes to a task ... saps is emotional and gets carried away...
He wud have defn. earned respect if he had been a member like anyone else in the house , with full co-operation in all the tasks, involving himself in it... so what if u hold a broom?? is doing work a humiliation in public eyes? i don't think so... I wud have applauded him for setting an example in the house ... that yes, there r good,genuine politicians too in our country... now all i can see, is he is a true politician... and thru his experience of politics, he played in the house too... trying to win all hearts with his preaching...!
Coming to Raageshwari, how can she win other's hearts, she dint PREACH...Not once she mentioned or cried on screen about the pain she has been thru in her life... She was HERSELF... never attempted to show her GOODNESS...her silence spoke volumes... she is a good person , who truly cared for others and that showed on screen... but we need proof for even believing the goodness... SAD... I believe goodness is something experienced not proved...!
Cruiser bhai... i am a fan of your writing skills, but sorry bhai, i disagree here...
once again apologies to all paaji fans...
Disagreement is perfectly fine and we don;t have to say sorry for that!
Just one observation. If in your class, you felt X, Y,Z was a very good person, did that impression hold good for ever or did you change your opinion based on conduct of that person subsequently?
I think this is life. Today I have written a post praising Sidhu's conduct PURELY based on how he conducted himself in BB House. Tomorrow if he says or does something ridiculous or wrong, I might blast him. It doesn't mean I am being inconsistent!
In BB House, your perceptions change fast and Sidhu's would change too.
Just an example...last week I wrote a piece praising Sapna and it generated tremendous response and so many agreed with me.
Had I posted this same piece today, no more then 10 members would reluctantly agree with me! Thats the dynamics of that house!
kya kare bhai... BB arrives in the season of festivals... and hmmm... hum busy ho jaate hain......the apologies i truly mean as sometimes we start off admiring a BB contestant and we end up being a hardcore fan of that person , so much to the extent that showing our loyalty to that person, we often end up hurting others.... i just wanted to be transparent...
Agree dear, our perceptions do change fast, but i have never voiced my opinion about paaji till now... and here i voiced for the 1st first time as i thot it to be otherwise...
i know , it is difficult to present another image 24/7, i do agree...but if a person is smart enuf that his very challenge is to retain a clean image and to come out successfully, then, his thought-process, his conduct will all be a planned move... my opinion here is based on what i perceived him to be before and what i could make out him to be in the house ... and what he presented himself to be as soon as he was out of the house... Of what i have seen in life, he seemed to be playing on the safer side always...!