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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

People forget that she is young too.She is only 26 and never ventured out into the world.

Her definitions and understanding about love, life and marriage should be interpreted from this context.

Then every thing falls into place.

Two my understanding two things that bothered her - her inability to forget her so called  first love -Her worry regarding this is  she thinks it will hinder her relationship with S.This fear will go away only when she realises it is just a journey that started with J will end with S.

Her fears about the unstated expectations of Shiv who loves her so much whther she will be able to  measure upto his expectations - This is just because of her own sense of inadequacy.

She didn't disappoint me.




That can mean - SHIV'S LOVE WILL TAKE HER PLACES!!!Embarrassed

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:23pm | IP Logged
Anshu - just because you are in "love" or "like" or "respect" does not mean you cannot be apprehensive of change.  And marriage is a HUGE one.  Anandi is used to life with the "Singhs"...its what she knows...what if Shekhars don't like her post-marriage?  what if she does not life upto whatever shiv expects of his wife?  She is scared of change at the core.  Which is extremely normal.  Compound that with a relationship where she was accepted then mistreated or found wanting.  


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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.

She has already told him that she doesn't express her feelings openly and she told him that she is happy and content to be with him.

Love is not a drug which gives you a constant happiness.Love is about putting other person's interests above yours.Which she already does.

Her reluctance to live with him result frome her own feeling of inadequacy and a feeling that she might disappoint him.





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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:29pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

Originally posted by anshurg5



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.

She has already told him that she doesn't express her feelings openly and she told him that she is happy and content to be with him.

Love is not a drug which gives you a constant happiness.Love is about putting other person's interests above yours.Which she already does.

Her reluctance to live with him result frome her own feeling of inadequacy and a feeling that she might disappoint him.

Only thing I have to add to Appy's list is: Fear of change and unknown

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Malika

Originally posted by anshurg5

Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

@Myraa - the dialogue means Anandi has a limited definition of love set by her relationship with Jagya.  Also, her definition of "marriage" and her expectations of what it consists of is F*up due to J.  She is a frog in Singhs ka well.  It shows her lack of reflection on what she feels for shiv
cumulatively...she has not added it all together (the attraction, the respect, the care, the trust).  She see's the trees but, not the forest.  



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.
 
Anshu bcos she thinks she cant love him like she loved J. Not to forget,he's loving her with an unbruised heart while she has to love him with all the past within her. Though she has forgotton and moved on but she cant throw the past 15 years out of her system. She is content for herself but not for him.She thinks he deserves much more.More than just care,respect and friendship.She thinks she cant love him like he loves her and cant fell the emotion of 'love' again like she did for J.Thats what S needs to resolve.And he will do it  BEAUTIFULLY! Embarrassed

malika  i understand what you want to say but still her lines while talking with sumitra was litlle confusing and not required at this point of their relationship. we saw her happiness during diya lighting and diwali scene.and i thought she has started reciprocating his feelings that why little bit disapponted. i am too  waiting for the day when she realizes the difference between her two relationships.

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:35pm | IP Logged
Don't know why peeps associated love with euphoria ya happiness...that's juss hormonesROFLROFLROFL or maybe pheremonesWinkTongue

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 11 December 2012 at 10:35pm

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:36pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5


malika  i understand what you want to say but still her lines while talking with sumitra was litlle confusing and not required at this point of their relationship. we saw her happiness during diya lighting and diwali scene.and i thought she has started reciprocating his feelings that why little bit disapponted. i am too  waiting for the day when she realizes the difference between her two relationships.

May I put in my tuppence??

That line was just to keep the JaAn fans hooked this week...


Edited by VerboseG - 11 December 2012 at 10:35pm

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:37pm | IP Logged
I agree the fear of unknown which we try to hide by citing a lot of reasons for backing out of something LOL

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