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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by dixie123

Originally posted by VerboseG


Nivi, did you read my OS? page 2 pe hai 
 
I read it now and commented.
 
Bye now everyone.

Thank you Nivi! Love ya...Hug

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

@Myraa - the dialogue means Anandi has a limited definition of love set by her relationship with Jagya.  Also, her definition of "marriage" and her expectations of what it consists of is F*up due to J.  She is a frog in Singhs ka well.  It shows her lack of reflection on what she feels for shiv
cumulatively...she has not added it all together (the attraction, the respect, the care, the trust).  She see's the trees but, not the forest.  



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.
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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by VerboseG


Thank you Nivi! Love ya...Hug
 
Love you too Ginu.. Hug
 
Now your dialogue, final wala Buh Buh !!! LOL

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:16pm | IP Logged
People forget that she is young too.She is only 26 and never ventured out into the world.

Her definitions and understanding about love, life and marriage should be interpreted from this context.

Then every thing falls into place.

Two my understanding two things that bothered her - her inability to forget her so called  first love -Her worry regarding this is  she thinks it will hinder her relationship with S.This fear will go away only when she realises it is just a journey that started with J will end with S.

Her fears about the unstated expectations of Shiv who loves her so much whther she will be able to  measure upto his expectations - This is just because of her own sense of inadequacy.

She didn't disappoint me.



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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:17pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5

Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

@Myraa - the dialogue means Anandi has a limited definition of love set by her relationship with Jagya.  Also, her definition of "marriage" and her expectations of what it consists of is F*up due to J.  She is a frog in Singhs ka well.  It shows her lack of reflection on what she feels for shiv
cumulatively...she has not added it all together (the attraction, the respect, the care, the trust).  She see's the trees but, not the forest.  



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.
 
Anshu bcos she thinks she cant love him like she loved J. Not to forget,he's loving her with an unbruised heart while she has to love him with all the past within her. Though she has forgotton and moved on but she cant throw the past 15 years out of her system. She is content for herself but not for him.She thinks he deserves much more.More than just care,respect and friendship.She thinks she cant love him like he loves her and cant fell the emotion of 'love' again like she did for J.Thats what S needs to resolve.And he will do it  BEAUTIFULLY! Embarrassed


Edited by Malika - 11 December 2012 at 10:18pm

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5

Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

@Myraa - the dialogue means Anandi has a limited definition of love set by her relationship with Jagya.  Also, her definition of "marriage" and her expectations of what it consists of is F*up due to J.  She is a frog in Singhs ka well.  It shows her lack of reflection on what she feels for shiv
cumulatively...she has not added it all together (the attraction, the respect, the care, the trust).  She see's the trees but, not the forest.  



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.

The fear of rejection is crowding her...the failure of not keeping someone happy in her life...I can acquaint to that!
Also the fear of not being able to reciprocate his love...
She will overcome them once she starts living with him...
But what bugs me the most is CVs trying hard to hide her feelings!!!

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Anyhu...
Gotta sleep now...
Ansh nite all

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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:20pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by QuagMyred

Originally posted by anshurg5


anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.

The fear of rejection is crowding her...the failure of not keeping someone happy in her life...I can acquaint to that!
Also the fear of not being able to reciprocate his love...
She will overcome them once she starts living with him...
But what bugs me the most is CVs trying hard to hide her feelings!!!

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Anyhu...
Gotta sleep now...
Ansh nite all
Good night M!
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Posted: 11 December 2012 at 10:20pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Malika

Originally posted by anshurg5

Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

@Myraa - the dialogue means Anandi has a limited definition of love set by her relationship with Jagya.  Also, her definition of "marriage" and her expectations of what it consists of is F*up due to J.  She is a frog in Singhs ka well.  It shows her lack of reflection on what she feels for shiv
cumulatively...she has not added it all together (the attraction, the respect, the care, the trust).  She see's the trees but, not the forest.  



anji  i have not read the previous posts ,
but depending upon your answer only,
i want to ask one question,
if a person is in love,does not he/she feel a constant happiness,
a wish to see and meet her/his beloved one,
even she/he does not realize that this is exactly love.
why she is still reluctant to live with him.
the prospect of marrying him should has given her pleasure not fear.
 
Anshu bcos she thinks she cant love him like she loved J. Not to forget,he's loving her with an unbruised heart while she has to love him with all the past within her. Though she has forgotton and moved on but she cant throw the past 15 years out of her system. She is content for herself but not for him.She thinks he deserves much more.More than just care,respect and friendship.She thinks she cant love him like he loves her and cant fell the emotion of 'love' again like she did for J.Thats what S needs to resolve.And he will do it  BEAUTIFULLY! Embarrassed

That will happen for sure...
but when!!! Anyhu...
buh buh

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