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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:20am | IP Logged
@muku and Anjy... Disagree partially.

Its like whatever CS has done for Ajee has gone down the drain. Vahi dhaak ke teen paat. She is still struck on so called pehla pyaar ( which was actually not love at all ). Moreover she knows S loves her more than his own life. After he has done so many things just to please her she'd have started feeling that ''something'' for him. A little attraction, attatchement, liking...not saying love. I know its really hard but a little starting from her side that hints that something IS going on with her. Thoda sa hi sahi. But her condition is same which was on the sagai day ( except she has started smiling and im really indebted for that ). No change at all ! Its like we were being fooled from past so many days. Okay i didnt expected SR even when so many ppl said that it will happen. But i expected a little infatuation from A side to S...a little little. Not much. Honestly im disappoined big time. Feeling so stupid.

I had no problems with fbs ( Although I know you will justify them even if they happens after marriage/ during SR. )
Today also i was fine with them. It was natural. BUT that pehla pyaar pissed me off. She'd have said that she LIKES S but dont know about love. Atleast we'd have been relieved. But CS mehnat gayi tel lene. Now i think he had to take the bullet.

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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:20am | IP Logged
A cares for S - not love, but parvah

She is not sure whether this parvah will translate into love later on

She is scared of the depth of S's love 

She is concerned about how she can fulfill his and his family's desires

She is afraid she will have to get physical asap

She is not sure if she will satisfy S emotionally and physically

She is unsure of why his family has accepted her so wholeheartedly

She is scared she is a majboori for them (because of S's love for her)

She is scared that she does not have enough love to go around

She is scared of getting hurt once again

She is scared of leaving the comfort zone she has created with so much difficulty and care

She is scared of this new curve thrown at her so late in life (relatively)

She doesn't want to let go of home and hearth

I sympathize


PS: She doesn't yet understand the difference between love for a person and love for a forced-upon husband



Edited by VerboseG - 06 December 2012 at 8:22am

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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:21am | IP Logged
Till now., whatver the challenge Shiv took upon himself., and succeeded.,am' sure he will need to step up...in the near future...this is going to be a totally different challenge altogether for him., and he will sure succeed...and this will be the actual catalyst for A's realisation.
 
 

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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:23am | IP Logged
She is just expressing her fears and she is only wondering whether she will be able to accept S just like she accepted J. And I don't find anything wrong in it.

Probably before she took the plunge she is just wondering whether she is doing the right thing or not.
She is only wondering whether she will be able to do right this time..

I think It is unrealistic to expect her to have her head in the clouds and full of dreams.







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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Malika

Anjy - Even I am really looking forward to this track.And today she even hinted her lil fear abt adjusting into shekhar household that is so diff from the singhs.This in turn also makes  space for ashi trcak.I think she might really develop an inferiority complex and it will be truely ecstasic to see S solving that issue of hers Day Dreaming

I do not think she will ever feel inferior ... 

and her feeling jealous of ashi? i doubt it...

something else.. yaar.. 

Not sure what but...ashi -jealousy-inferiority complex... I doubt thats going to happen.

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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by VerboseG

A cares for S - not love, but parvah

She is not sure whether this parvah will translate into love later on

She is scared of the depth of S's love 

She is concerned about how she can fulfill his and his family's desires

She is afraid she will have to get physical asap

She is not sure if she will satisfy S emotionally and physically

She is unsure of why his family has accepted her so wholeheartedly

She is scared she is a majboori for them (because of S's love for her)

She is scared that she does not have enough love to go around

She is scared of getting hurt once again

She is scared of leaving the comfort zone she has created with so much difficulty and care

She is scared of this new curve thrown at her so late in life (relatively)

She doesn't want to let go of home and hearth

I sympathize


PS: She doesn't yet understand the difference between love for a person and love for a forced-upon husband



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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:26am | IP Logged
Piyu - She likes S tabhi to she is so scared for him.She knows just taking care of him or his family is not all he deserves.He deserves much more.What does this show?She considers him much more than a friend and dil se feels scared for him.That too much to ask seeing her past.

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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Suchi-Virmanian

Originally posted by Malika

Anjy - Even I am really looking forward to this track.And today she even hinted her lil fear abt adjusting into shekhar household that is so diff from the singhs.This in turn also makes  space for ashi trcak.I think she might really develop an inferiority complex and it will be truely ecstasic to see S solving that issue of hers Day Dreaming

I do not think she will ever feel inferior ... 

and her feeling jealous of ashi? i doubt it...

something else.. yaar.. 

Not sure what but...ashi -jealousy-inferiority complex... I doubt thats going to happen.

its not abt jealousy suchi...always shiv's full attention is on anandi...Ajee Ajee baas Ajee
but when ashi will come...it will be diverted...anandi will feel the diff...its very natural for a girl...just the way a to be married gal is scared today!!

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