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Ok...I think I better shut my mouth and first see the epi...bbye for now...

agreed@ Malika and Anjana..

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Originally posted by: adi2512

 

Supriya.,

 

Its not that., she still has soft corner for J...

She only feels that LOVE happens only once., and she has given that share already to some one else., so., she has a doubt., if she will be able to love Shiv ., with same intensity...

J is not the object here...Love is..

But once she gets to feel., that intensity towards Shiv., her doubts will be automatically quashed., & for that she needs to LIVE with him.

Uma I am absolutely fine with her fears. But if she closes her mind that love happens once and she will not be able to love then, it will be difficult for her to be free as a person as well.See her mind needs to be open. Even when we are going for a new job, we will always have our fears, but we still keep our mind open. For that matter for a relationship, believe it or not at one point my mind was also closed to think about any attachment, so I will not even allow myself to have the crush😆. My mom got pissed off and deliberately broke my barriers. So finally I had my first crush in office. Though nothing has come of it😆😆. But am more free

Anjy - Even I am really looking forward to this track.And today she even hinted her lil fear abt adjusting into shekhar household that is so diff from the singhs.This in turn also makes  space for ashi trcak.I think she might really develop an inferiority complex and it will be truely ecstasic to see S solving that issue of hers

Originally posted by: dsupriya

Yeah Anjy but it ceased to be a arranged marriage the day shiv gave her an option to walk out and she did not. She willingly chose .him over Jagya. Her other fears are justified but still am not convinced with Pyar to ek baar hi hota hai dialogue. I am still okay if she without saying this dialouge had expressed her fear if this is the right thing and she is doing the right thing, will she be able to give her best. I understand that, even my sister who was in love marriage went over that fear. But pyar to ek baar hota hai is not convincing for me

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 11 years ago

@muku and Anjy... Disagree partially.

Its like whatever CS has done for Ajee has gone down the drain. Vahi dhaak ke teen paat. She is still struck on so called pehla pyaar ( which was actually not love at all ). Moreover she knows S loves her more than his own life. After he has done so many things just to please her she'd have started feeling that ''something'' for him. A little attraction, attatchement, liking...not saying love. I know its really hard but a little starting from her side that hints that something IS going on with her. Thoda sa hi sahi. But her condition is same which was on the sagai day ( except she has started smiling and im really indebted for that ). No change at all ! Its like we were being fooled from past so many days. Okay i didnt expected SR even when so many ppl said that it will happen. But i expected a little infatuation from A side to S...a little little. Not much. Honestly im disappoined big time. Feeling so stupid.

I had no problems with fbs ( Although I know you will justify them even if they happens after marriage/ during SR. )
Today also i was fine with them. It was natural. BUT that pehla pyaar pissed me off. She'd have said that she LIKES S but dont know about love. Atleast we'd have been relieved. But CS mehnat gayi tel lene. Now i think he had to take the bullet.

A cares for S - not love, but parvah Edited by VerboseG - 11 years ago

Till now., whatver the challenge Shiv took upon himself., and succeeded.,am' sure he will need to step up...in the near future...this is going to be a totally different challenge altogether for him., and he will sure succeed...and this will be the actual catalyst for A's realisation.

She is just expressing her fears and she is only wondering whether she will be able to accept S just like she accepted J. And I don't find anything wrong in it.

Originally posted by: Malika

Anjy - Even I am really looking forward to this track.And today she even hinted her lil fear abt adjusting into shekhar household that is so diff from the singhs.This in turn also makes  space for ashi trcak.I think she might really develop an inferiority complex and it will be truely ecstasic to see S solving that issue of hers