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Saachi and Ashima - big difference

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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 1:08pm | IP Logged
When Ashima came to Jetser, she loved every moment of it. Although she lived in London, born and brought up and educated in London, she liked everything about Anandi and Jetser.

On the other hand, we have Saachi, born and brought up in INDIA. We see her coming to Jetser and she is hating everything about it. She even does not like Anandi though she never met her...she is expressing disgust at the way Anandi is cleaning up a boy who got KICHAD on his face...Saachi even does not like the smell of Jetser!!!!!!!!

Do you all see the difference between Saachi and Ashima?? Both are well educated, both live in the city and I can safely say Ashima lives in a better place than Saachi...but look at their attitude and personality...Ashima was a gem and Saachi is so immature...

Saachi should learn from Ashima!!!!


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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 1:13pm | IP Logged
the thing is the people who live abroad know and think about those who are poor. They understand their plight and have a soft corner for them. Thats most of the people. 

IN India... the lower class are looked down upon. Its a backward thing. So the mentality is such that people despise being backward or being poor. 

They do nothing to change the condition but just complain. 

Ashima is amongst those who understands and if told will help as well

Saanchi is just indian born confused desi...
Dumb dim wit 
wanna be westerner with wrong notions about how the people in west live.

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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 1:21pm | IP Logged
sanchi needs personality makeover n the counselor will be anandi

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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 9:08pm | IP Logged
You are right they are way too different in the way they look at life and the experiences and their attitudes.

Both are educated and are brought up in a modern urban surroundings.


When Ashima came to Jaitsar she preferred to see the beauty in the things that   experienced in Jaitsar.She couldn't relate to them nor could she connect with the life in Jaitser but she preferred to carry the beautiful experiences with her.

Sanchi also finds it unable to relate to  connect with the life in rural India. But she closes her eyes to the beauty of it and prefers to see the unpleasant side of it. 

Ashima  was impressed with A even before she met her.
Sanchi decided that A was not fit to be part of her family even before she met her.

I suppose it is not the surroundings of your upbringing that matter but it is the way that you look at life and people around you that matters.

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Posted: 13 November 2012 at 12:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

You are right they are way too different in the way they look at life and the experiences and their attitudes.

Both are educated and are brought up in a modern urban surroundings.


When Ashima came to Jaitsar she preferred to see the beauty in the things that   experienced in Jaitsar.She couldn't relate to them nor could she connect with the life in Jaitser but she preferred to carry the beautiful experiences with her.

Sanchi also finds it unable to relate to  connect with the life in rural India. But she closes her eyes to the beauty of it and prefers to see the unpleasant side of it. 

Ashima  was impressed with A even before she met her.
Sanchi decided that A was not fit to be part of her family even before she met her.

I suppose it is not the surroundings of your upbringing that matter but it is the way that you look at life and people around you that matters.
agree with your views.
The other thing is that Ashima told Shiv that Anandi is the woman of his life and here we have Saachi...who thinks Anandi is backward and not of Shiv's stature...
 
Ashima loved what Anandi had to show her in the haveli...and Saachi feels everything is outdated...GOD save those souls who might want to marry a girl like Saachi because if they do then all life and everyday will be filled with complains and complains...unless the soul happens to be son of TATA or BIRLA.
 

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Posted: 13 November 2012 at 12:27pm | IP Logged
actually sanchi has come to jaitsar only with negative thoughts...its in her mind that the village, its people, the girl chosen by shiv will be bad...hence she cannot see beauty in everything...

to see beauty in others, you have to be beautiful from inside...a person like sanchi with only anger and negative thoughts cannot see anything good around her..


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May be the negative feeling is because she knows that this village and the girl are going to be part of her family and life.

wheras Ashima was just a tourist vising her friend and a new place.

If Sanchi was on a college trip to Jaitser, she would have clicked photos too. call it hypocracy.. but most city people have it.

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