Posted: 09 November 2012 at 4:51am | IP Logged
Heyaa Frnz My today's topic is a bit off track from show,, and i'm very confused abt the topic,, so u may find it a bit boring, its also going to be a long one, thats y i thought of warning u prior to reading it Read at ur own risk..
Looking at Yuvreen n RC track,, n also observing so many real life luv stories, I was wondering abt the etiology of falling in love,,, i mean why sumone fall for sumbody??? And the bigger question how do u know for whom u fall in love,,, i mean the right one...
So starting with the craziest example,,, one of our senior in our college liked a girl named Amanpreet, but she refused him... so the guy's ego was hurt n he decided that his gf would be more beautiful than her n her name would be amanpreet only (sounds too filmy, but thats true), he proposed so many girls named amanpreet, n finally one of our batchmate said yes, n after a 2 year relationship, they are now happily married since last year..
A story started wid ego resulted in life long relationship
Now i think i won't find any such example elsewhere again and nobody else is gonna find their right one like this too
But there are other examples too,, one of my known had a bf in her school. then they broke up and later in college, she fall in another relationship n soon going to get married to him.. now her story arose another confusion that ecan love happen again n again???
Earlier I used to follow D3, i was Kriyansh fan but then they started Taarey. this made an impression that how sumone can have same feelings for two ppl i mean if u have luved the first one truely, then every romantic thing should switch ur mind to ur ex's memories, then how can u maintain same relation with another person,,,
"So that mean either first one was not love or the second one is not,, and if both of them are love,,, feelings should be different either from ur side or from ur partner's side"
(yes i'm really confused, n warned u may get bored too)
Now if we come to the show SG,,, my analysis till now suggests that the person with whom sumone maintains maximum comfort level is one for whom the one falls for.. comfort level, for me means when u can express urself as u are, without hesitation.. Like there have been so many awkward situations between yuvreen n also RC n Suvreen, that took them closer..
Obviously u like to be with the one who makes u feel easy with ur every gesture... But thats wat we find in a frnd and with all our true frnz, we feel comfy
"So only comfort level doesn't consider with whom we love..."
Then is it looks,, ya obviously this is first thing to be noticed, then another luv story came into my mind (ohke colleges are best place to study luvology,, n u can find hundreds of stories going on simultaneously ) Now coming back to the story, the girl was my room mate in hostel,, she was an ordinary girl in her school times, fat, specs on eyes, well oiled hair with two pony tails,, when she turned to our college, she had a complete turnover in her looks, hot shot babes types. A guy from her school time, by chance started to talk to her coz of sum issue. He hadn't look her after school, so had same image as she had in her school, but he gradually fall for her just by talking on phone, n when he saw her after 5 years from the day he last met her,, he was like OMG.. he didn't even recognise her... but the result of the story is sad, both broke up coz of caste issues. their parents are against them.
"So I think looks doesn't matter in all cases"
Intellectual level n compatibility,, Ok best example of same compatibility is Annie and Rathi... So that means ppl with same compatibility attract each other,, Nooo,,, look at RC,, tatally different from Suvi but still started having feelings for her,,
"So similars attract or opposite attract is not a funda"
Now as there is no particular criteria to the thing named love, I judged myself. Why i love my brother, my mumma, my family or frnz.. They care for me, help me, support me, make me feel happy, comfortable and secure... But then I thought wat if they don'y do all these things to me, even then i want all of them to be wid me.. I want my mumma, my brother, my family n frnz with me for my whole life even then also, coz i love them...
I don't know abt Ishq wala love but in other cases I don't have any reason why i love them all So I'm still confused y two ppl love each other n how they find each other right for themselves.. I think there must be sum magic... Phew,,, such a looong topic n baseless too So frnz this is the result of all my confusion after watching RC's track in Yuvreen life... Plz give ur POV
Edited by kim.rayat - 09 November 2012 at 5:00am