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Lajja = Modesty = Women ?? (Page 35)

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Posted: 11 November 2012 at 9:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by cruiser51


Had Niketan did bad-tameezi of Sapna kind, Sidhu might have said SANSKAAR hi Purush ki asli viraasat hain, Foohadta aur ashleelta Mardangi pe dhabba lagaate hain!Smile



The day a man is lectured for lack of "sanskaar" and told that "asheelta" is a "dhabba" on "mardangi". I'll print this post and eat it.

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Posted: 11 November 2012 at 11:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Originally posted by cruiser51


Had Niketan did bad-tameezi of Sapna kind, Sidhu might have said SANSKAAR hi Purush ki asli viraasat hain, Foohadta aur ashleelta Mardangi pe dhabba lagaate hain!Smile



The day a man is lectured for lack of "sanskaar" and told that "asheelta" is a "dhabba" on "mardangi". I'll print this post and eat it.
Okay here i might disagree to a little extent. I completely agree in this male dominated society that seldom happens but to say its unheard of would be untrue. 
I have seen it in many families and been lectured on it by my grandparents. See a family with all the ethics would inculcalate those values in their children regardless of gender.

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Posted: 11 November 2012 at 11:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Chandramukhi-

Originally posted by scofield

No worries my friend. And i agree it might be thought process. But that vent  from an MP on national tv beats that too.All of his hard work went down the drain that moment. You dont need to dwell into sidhu. As is I'm pro-nobody and anti-nobody..They all the same to me.

On another note its funny how we all viewers[incl. me] are somewhat hypocrite in a way. Sometimes we like a contestant coz he's calm and cool but later on he becomes boring or spineless. And the ones who give us masala, what we really want, we call them psychos , deranged and all kinda names..LOL


@bold: Not everyone thinks the same. Some were actually proud of him and I am sure after using such aurat ka gahena comment, many ladies and men must have applauded him especially those who do not like the way Sapna is seen in the house. And just cuz someone makes a mistake of using wrong words or for having such thought process doesn't negate any positive or good qualities of a contestant, at least for people like me.

As for the rest, let's not generalize. Not everyone does that. Few people go overboard with name calling. Personally, I will call someone bully or arrogant or cry baby or boring or spineless if he or she is acting like one for my standards and I am sure the same applies to many others. Few names are for fun like mine Sadhu baba or Fevicol aunty or like Cruiser's constipated Niketan. But there are few who loves using messed up and insulting tags. So I wouldn't go that far. I am sure people have their own reasons for liking or disliking a contestant. As for BB most don't like boring contestants, everyone is always in the mood of masala. And I am giving you a serious answer here since we are having a serious discussion Wink
Sorry i could not reply earlier as im limited to 10 posts.
Well if someone wants to see things a certain way its their  prerogative. Let them applaud coz they wanted to hear that. The mindset, you see.
That being said I hope people just dont turn pro-sapna just because of this vent. Coz sidhu's wrong doesnt make sapna right. Urvashi thing i dont care because she comes off as aggressive and mean; but her maa ki gaaali to niketan[poor guy dint even call for it ] and aap mere liye marr gye and then having the audacity to go ahead with the gulal thing is something that should not applauded.

I wonder if we all support her actions just coz she defies the societal norms; why do we shriek when the likes of sambhavna seth swear. Her western ways?
Somehow our generation has grown up with the media feeding us  that everything western liberalism is great and everything indian conservative is something uncool and Neanderthal. 
While the western world is waking upto eastern cultures and traditions..growth rate zero, high divorce rates and more than half of the mothers are single. No wonder where in society these children end up.
Renewed interest in yoga and ayurveda[ which actually has been scientifically proven] while we in india have all forgotten about these..
Oh yes masala curry some of my fellows indians are ashamed of, has been proven to give you physical and mostly mental benefits.
the bold part is not directed against sapna its just a thought in general that something that I question myself at times too 



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Posted: 11 November 2012 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
I fail to see so much hue and cry over the word Lajja. I think this word has been overanalysed, dissected, overdiagnosed or I would rather say misdiagnosed and overstretched on this thread.
Lajja taken the word literally to dress modestly is applied on both genders at least from the place I come from. Both men and women are expected to dress conservatively in work place. Here a CEO irrespective of gender can be fired from job if he/she comes in shorts and flip-flops and tatoos to work. However it's no big deal for someone to wear the same on beaches or night clubs.
I feel there are bigger stereotypes that need to be addressed than lajja that affects us daily.Women "Take Care," Men "Take Charge:" stereotypes affects women being alloted any leadership roles, the bias that women are not commited to work as much as men, cannot spend long hours in work,women are reluctant to relocate for career, woman lack quantitative skills( finance) etc are bigger stereotypes that affect us daily in our career. What say?
 

As for Sadhu baba's quote which has often come untimely and inappropriately on number of occasions before. I hardly pay attention to them.Again about tatooed middle age woman Sapna and her immature behavior..I simply can't relate to her. And once again I do apologize for bringing these two contestants.

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If nonviolence is the law of our being, the future is with woman. Who can make a more effective appeal to the heart than woman?- gandhi

Woman are known to be (or atleast used to)  more self sacrificing and polite, that does mean they have to be. Guys with potty mouth are sick and usually suffer by their actions so I dont see why the woman also have to be like that?  You wouldnt feel like vomiting if a guy vomits right. Its not that why you shouldnt be like that but why u wanna be like that in the first place?









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