Posted: 09 November 2012 at 11:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by amarjeet73
See I agree with this post that she is cool mom. today generation is different genration. they donot listen to parents they do what they want to do
in this case atleast mandira knows where my son is heading o Agra
sweety doesnot konw where his son is?
is not this better atleast you know where your kids are. to much strictness will cause rocky type kid, i am not blaming rocky but usally these kids donot tell their parents or tell lie if their parents are too strict to them they are showing correct thing here.
I know some parents want too strict as their parents were strict to them too. but reality in today world is different.
be friends to your kids and dont be too strict to them. just tell them politely that this is good this is not but donot say No to them at all
i bet 90% of kids doesnot want to here No word to their demands even if parents say no they manage to do from outside things or people if possible
so rather they go some where else for help better help them. and talk to them
I know it is not safe to go outside during night time, any thing would be happen to them
iin this case Mndira atleat know where my kid id and she knows if something happen she would be there for her son
but sweety case she doesnot know even where his son is if something happen to him they will come to know from some outsider that your son was here or he was doing this.
same sweety came to know from pari where his son went.
I am not against anybody but fact is today generation is much smater then old generation. they know, how to fool their parents.
Kids today are different, they cannot take NO as an answer easily - Agreed!! that's why i mentioned in my previous comment that none of the 2 mothers - sweety n mandira - are balanced. they are extremes.
if ur too strict kids hide stuff from u; if ur too liberal kids get spoilt. unfortunately there is actually no prescribed method or flowchart of parenting that would be called perfect.
but one can always try to be balanced like Jeet - i simply admire him from his balanced approach.
@bold: knowing where ur kid is doesn't gaurantee that he or she will be safe. after all they were out all night. any parent would be worried but mandira had no traces of worry on her face.
she was so confident that Udi would be fine. if sweety knew where rocky was she would have at least called him time to time to enquire about his safety.