Nayi Umr Nayi Chunauti - Parvarrish - Agla Padav

India-Forums

   
Nayi Umr Nayi Chunauti - Parvarrish - Agla Padav
Nayi Umr Nayi Chunauti - Parvarrish - Agla Padav

Mandira the "cool" mom. is it??

nb.neha IF-Rockerz
nb.neha
nb.neha

Joined: 03 June 2010
Posts: 6351

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 12:37am | IP Logged
As Rocky Singh Alhuwalia puts it - Mandira aunty kitni cool hai.  Yes, she is cool, smart, outgoing, stylish, gives space to her kids, is not a nagging mom and has all the traits a kid would want to have in his/her mother. 

However is she really that "cool"? I am just introspecting the conversation between mandira and sweety and mandira's responses.

is it wise to send a gorup children of 16-17 yrs all alone on an adventure trip that too at "night" and when they are driving alone?? is it safe? is it not being too positive and too sure that no mishappening can take place? My pt is not against "letting them go". its more about  letting them go alone at "night" and when they "driving on their own". had it been some other mode of transport like a bus it would have been better. 

secondly how casually she had an answer for if at all his son doesn't fears good in exam. so what? his dad will set him a business to handle. does that means a business man doesn't need to study or study well? Shocked

initially mandira came across a modern, cool, open minded mother who doesn't make a hue n cry of every small issue (eg: teenage love, having fatty food etc) but yesterday she really annoyed me with her baseless answers to sweety's questions!!


Edited by nb.neha - 09 November 2012 at 12:40am

The following 10 member(s) liked the above post:

Sonnijoohi5ifyy100prabhpreetipclizzie1765_Invincible_ABdaKriticizerprerna4rishavFaraan92MaaNeeTLuV

joohi5ifyy Senior Member
joohi5ifyy
joohi5ifyy

Joined: 29 April 2012
Posts: 732

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 1:35am | IP Logged
Mandira is a cool mother but I think she is too liberal...sometimes strictness is demanded for the sake of children, irrespective of the likings of the children

The following 5 member(s) liked the above post:

nb.nehalizzie1765preetipcABdaKriticizerprerna4rishav

ABdaKriticizer IF-Sizzlerz
ABdaKriticizer
ABdaKriticizer

Joined: 13 June 2012
Posts: 14205

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 2:59am | IP Logged
I really appreciate your post. And agreed with your each point...

Apart from being modern, parents should be possessing each and every demand of parenting...
Which both Sweety and Mandira didn't have...
Sweety being too strict, and Mandira being too Cool...
But, in between both. Sweety is winning the battle, as you said Mandira answered all Sweety questions like, nothing... I mean how can a Mother said this that... No Problem if my son dont gets good marks his father will put him a buisness. Everybody knows they are rich, and Lucky also has quiet a well income... But, Rocky's parents wants him to study not just study, but, study well... Which is good...

Mandira, she might be cool and modern but, she is giving too much space to her son... Which is really dangerous in real life... As kids can pick up wrong path... But, lets see, what these Cv's have for us... In which direction it goes...

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

phloxylizzie1765prerna4rishav

lizzie1765 IF-Rockerz
lizzie1765
lizzie1765

Joined: 23 May 2011
Posts: 5502

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 3:44am | IP Logged
totally agree with you WinkThumbs Up
mandira is making everything so easy for her boy Shocked,  how will he(udi) learn to survive in the big bad world Shocked
i was dicussing this topic wid my mom(  she is nice and quite understanding ) . she also did nt like the fact that 16yr old boy having a bike or a car and plus these late night trips too its quite dangerous

 Embarrassed

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

nb.nehaABdaKriticizer

nb.neha IF-Rockerz
nb.neha
nb.neha

Joined: 03 June 2010
Posts: 6351

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 9:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by joohi5ifyy

Mandira is a cool mother but I think she is too liberal...sometimes strictness is demanded for the sake of children, irrespective of the likings of the children

we may criticize sweety for being too over bearing and strict however even mandira's parenting method can't be considered totally apt. Shocked she's way too cool and carefree. 
nb.neha IF-Rockerz
nb.neha
nb.neha

Joined: 03 June 2010
Posts: 6351

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 9:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by AhsaanBaig94

I really appreciate your post. And agreed with your each point...

Apart from being modern, parents should be possessing each and every demand of parenting...
Which both Sweety and Mandira didn't have...
Sweety being too strict, and Mandira being too Cool...
But, in between both. Sweety is winning the battle, as you said Mandira answered all Sweety questions like, nothing... I mean how can a Mother said this that... No Problem if my son dont gets good marks his father will put him a buisness. Everybody knows they are rich, and Lucky also has quiet a well income... But, Rocky's parents wants him to study not just study, but, study well... Which is good...

Mandira, she might be cool and modern but, she is giving too much space to her son... Which is really dangerous in real life... As kids can pick up wrong path... But, lets see, what these Cv's have for us... In which direction it goes...

thank you for appreciating Smile you are right. none of them (mandira or sweety) have a balanced approach. one is too strict and the other one too liberal. both can be dangerous in one way. often kids of strict parents get spoilt as they find new ways of doing what they are generally refrained from doing and kids of too liberal parents may get out of hands. 

however mandira is just not only liberal but also carefree and casual. her approach towards her son's studies/marks just showed her "rich" mentality. she was just showing off her status and money. 

even lucky is rich enough but still he and sweety have given their kids a down to earth upbringing keeping them grounded. 
nb.neha IF-Rockerz
nb.neha
nb.neha

Joined: 03 June 2010
Posts: 6351

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 9:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by lizzie1765

totally agree with you WinkThumbs Up
mandira is making everything so easy for her boy Shocked,  how will he(udi) learn to survive in the big bad world Shocked
i was dicussing this topic wid my mom(  she is nice and quite understanding ) . she also did nt like the fact that 16yr old boy having a bike or a car and plus these late night trips too its quite dangerous

 Embarrassed


that's my point. her attitude is like a "visa" ; a "green signal" that no matter what ever i do i l have a great future; i wont have to struggle in life!! Shocked

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

lizzie1765

amarjeet73 Groupbie
amarjeet73
amarjeet73

Joined: 10 January 2008
Posts: 165

Posted: 09 November 2012 at 10:43am | IP Logged
See I agree with this post that she is cool mom. today generation is different genration. they donot listen to parents they do what they want to do
 
in this case atleast mandira knows where my son is heading o Agra
 
 sweety doesnot konw where his son is?
 
is not this better atleast you know where your kids are. to much strictness will cause rocky type kid, i am not blaming rocky but usally these kids donot tell their parents or tell lie if their parents are too strict to them they are showing correct thing here.
 
I know some parents want too strict as their parents were strict to them too. but reality in today world is different.
 
be friends to your kids and dont be too strict to them. just tell them politely that this is good this is not but donot say No to them at all
 
i bet 90% of kids doesnot want to here No word to their demands even if parents say no they manage to do from outside things or people if possible
 
so rather they go some where else for help better help them. and talk to them
 
I know it is not safe to go outside during night time, any thing would be happen to them
iin this case Mndira atleat know where my kid id and she knows if something happen she would be there for her son
but sweety case she doesnot know even where  his son is if something happen to him they will come to know from some outsider that your son was here or he was doing this.
 
same sweety came to know from pari where his son went.
 
I am not against anybody but fact is today generation is much smater then old generation. they know, how to fool their parents.
 
 
 
 

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

Faraan92DelightedHeart

Go to top

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

  • Please login to check your Last 10 Topics posted

Check these Celebrity also

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index