i think you are wrong, in now way did aditya dishonor his family. before maa thakur found out that sugni was from the bedni family she was quite happy to have sugni as a bahu. and she was also the one to see Aditya's love for sugni in his eyes. now she is ruled by prejudice. do you think that if vikram had married sugni she would have gotten acceptance, but you would have praised him for standing by the woman he loves right. you 'er prejudice. your prejudice towards Aditya and sugni Relationship.
maa thakur would have hated shgni more if she had married vikram, becauese she would then have broken a marriage for her own benifit. but in your eyes that would be acceptabel because reva is a bitch, and vikram and sugni love each other.
i salute Aditya for what he did, sugni may not know that Aditya is in love with her. but he is and now she is his wife and he knows that with everyone in the family against her he is her only support and strength and he stood by his wife. and every man should do.
he may have gone against his family, but only because they are against sugni and his relationship with her. he has accepted the sancity of his marriage, that is the first step to understanding relationship and honoring them.
you honor and accept the relationship you are born with, becaues they are blood relations and you are not give any other choice. but all other relationships you chose, like your friends and your life partner and it is up to you how well you honor then and are loyal to them.
you may say that Adi did not honor his relationship with Amrita, but the truth is that Aditya was neve really in love with Amrita. he liked her, was close to her, could share his problems with her she was his friend, but he always hesitated to take the relationship to the level of marriage always putting it of for some reason or another.
but he could not do that with sugni. he could have told maa takhur the truth that he and sugni were not getting married. but he couldent, he knew he was about to loose sugni but he coudl not say it out loud to his family. nor could he say it to sugni all he wanted to do was tell her he loved her. but could not becauese she was still in love with vikram. but that did not matter he loved her and the love did not become any less. he would honor that love in their frindship.
Aditya did the honorable thing by standing by his wife. it does not matter what happened in the past. it is the present and furture that counts. the present is that Sugni is Aditya's wife. and the furture will play out according to that.