Originally posted by: sashashyamDear Varsha,
Hi Shyamala dear...How r u? Meaning to respond to PM but been busy and want to write properly π Hope your wrist is getting better and so is your mom ...
I agree that the whole Farooq Bhai entry yesterday, and his long speech, both seemed strange and forced. Glad to know you thought the same π
I too could not see where Purvi came into the expansion of his business, unless he believes that her stepping into his garage with Arjun brought him all this luck! His seeking out Purvi looked totally stage-managed; if he had asked for Arjun instead of Purvi, it would have seemed natural for it is to Arjun that he should be really grateful. THat is exactly my thoughts...Why did he not go to Kirloskars first? He went to Karanjkars he would have found out Purvi-Arjun did not get married...What is the purpose for him to show up and start talking beyond at the Ds doorstep while they are having family time? For crying out loud he did not even ask for Arjun..he asked for Purvi who never worked for him, may have stopped by at the garage once or twice..So to me it was totally uncalled for..It was staged to create drama so Ovi can go off..Secondly, if he had gone first to the Karanjkars, surely he would have offered wedding congratulations to Sulochana, and the whole truth should have come out right away. It is odd that this did not happen.
As for the Deshmukhs, they must all be familiar with Ovi's tea-kettle temper - even Arjun mentions to her one evening that he did not mind her temper because he knows it from their childhood - and they have never done anything to correct it or her. Given this, at least one of them should have moved to clarify matters and stop Farooq in his tracks. Well It was Arjun and ArMan's place to stop FB and clear up the mattter nicely-shortly...But that did not happen at all..
But it all stage-managed, so he has to speak his whole spiel, followed by Ovl's tantrum - why could she not have stated the fact plainly and firmly to Faroq, instead of behaving like this? - and then Archana's spiel.As Sherma mentioned in her last post...Ovi was fine and the whole family was enjoying...Even with FB's ranting she did not say anything until he said "No one should come between the jodi" ..That was the breaking point for her...How much was she supposed to stand there and listen...Ofcourse I agree she should have talked firmly and assertively telling the fact...Should not have lost it or thrown mithai...But she has been pushed far enough and Purvi has been rubbed in her face enough by not only her husband but now random people too..No where I am or have said Ovi did right...But she is also been wronged...Arjun should have taken care of the situation or her parents should have and she would not have had a ny need to speak..
The last was completely at a tangent, and I could not make head or tail of it. Where was there any question of Purvi not being able to come there whenever she wanted? No one said that, not even Ovi.The problem is that everyone is PR wants to get on to a soapbox and make a speech, relevant or not, and when it is Archana, of course no one points that out to her, for she can, by definition, do no wrong!Archana's Jhansi ki rani roop was uncalled for and premature-out of context and ridiculous...She had no reason to take Purvi's side and give the lecture that she did abt how much right Purvi had being there...Bakwas..Even Savita looked frustrated and wanted to say something..Would have said something to FB had it been the old Savita...new reformed sudhri huvi Savita does not do anything to rock the ArMan boat...Because she is afraid of losing her son and Grand kids..Sherma you are totally right with your last post..π
Varsha
Shyamala
omg,i was suppose to post the same thing,y shld ovi be gud to a person who supprted arjun to get purviOriginally posted by: virika.kryanexcuse me !!!!!
just tell me why was arjun even jobless. only because of archana's kaands and his own foolishness to impress her. just to get his lady love he gave up on his dad's surname to impress a whimsical MIL. by the way the same MIL was lavishly enjoying the parties given by his dad when her daughter attempted suicide. such is the standard and level of that mil and arjun was living in chawl to impress her.so where the question of ovi being grateful come into picture as arjun had invited it upon himself. arjun was doing that to complete the mission of getting purvi which was going to hurt ovi only na. so why should she be grateful ehhhπlogic dear logicπ€£π€£π€£
Originally posted by: shermaomg,i was suppose to post the same thing,y shld ovi be gud to a person who supprted arjun to get purvi
i am happy ovi is not like purvi,calling a man kaka who actually tried to kill ur parents,seriously purvi is very mahaan,π
Originally posted by: amboloveHaven't posted here in a while but here goes:
Everyone's to blame. No point in pointing out one persons mistake and hiding anothers persons bigger mistakes.Sulochana- For not mentioning to farook bhai that Arjun in fact had married Ovi.Archana - For forgetting the feelings of her daughters and thinking too much about her gundha son.Manav - For Spoiling Ovi so much to the point where she can't COPE with LIFE the way it should be and not the way you force it to be.DK Sir - For not letting the media know that Arjun in fact married Ovi, should have set up another 'wedding ceremony' maybe with Second set of 'Pheres' (Sorry I don't know how this works as I am not a Hindu) with the media and family as witness and also sending out wedding cards with Ovi's name on it, and mentioning at the same time that Purvi's name was mistakenly printed which would have gotten everyone off their tails.Purvi - For interfering too much, not letting life pass as it should and butting her pretty little head into things that don't require it, making the halwa (What was that for?!) and not saying a word when farook bhai spoke about her 'marriage' to Arjun. In fact either of the sisters SHOULD have spoken up about the confusion surrounding the marriage.Arjun - For being a total bakra and following Purvi's orders word for word (What type of a man is he? Not a MAN for sure!) I surely wouldn't want my man following another woman's orders! Shouldn't have followed Purvi's orders into marrying Ovi, He is now partly responsible for Ovi's mental state, If he gives her a divorce, she won't be able to cope whereas if he had never married her she might have coped better. Oh and for following Purvi around, she is out of his reach now and he needs to make his own decisions not based on what Purvi wants. I have a stinky feeling Arjun will sleep with Ovi if Purvi says so π€’ Disgusting thought but hey anything can happen.Ovi - For not trusting her own husband and for not immediately and calmy speaking up, waiting for farook bhai to continue, bursting out in tears and throwing food on the floor, then screaming at others, no, the situation would have been deftly handled if she had immediately told farook bhai that she had in fact married Arjun and that mistakes can happen because we're all human and in fact confusion can also happen because the wedding cards had been sent out with Purvi's name on and maybe mentioned that she was happy such a nice man had helped Arjun in his time of need. She's also responsible for her own state of mind and needs to accept that things are out of her control, and rather than forcing them her way she should accept Arjun as he is and explain to him what bothers her.Varsha - For looking so smug, when she has also commited a SIN by kidnapping someone elses son regardless of whether his original biological parents were more interested in him or his brother and sisters.Soham - Fo having no manners, being melodramatic, Not handling the situation well and standing by a woman (Varsha) who has some sort of sickening attachment to him and is living with a man who she is a mistress to.Balan - For teaching the wrong values to a child and keeping a mistress in the house and then telling the kid that he and the mistress are in fact married.
Originally posted by: shermaomg,i was suppose to post the same thing,y shld ovi be gud to a person who supprted arjun to get purvi
i am happy ovi is not like purvi,calling a man kaka who actually tried to kill ur parents,seriously purvi is very mahaan,π
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