Posted: 09 November 2012 at 2:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Amii90
Basic Motto- Bash Jeevika no matter what she does or in this case doesn't do!
If one was to question; fingers could easily be pointed towards other Vadera members who are not supporting Manvi in this situation!!! What happened to Dada Ji- his bonding with Manvi was fine till few days ago, he listened to her over Virat regarding his singing career? Swamini Bhua's bonding with Manvu during Maya's fiasco, friendship over cup of Americano during Cancer? Inder Chachu's bonding with Manvi after winning that case which was all credited to Manvi by him and Kadambri? Vanshika's bonding with Manvi who supported Manvi since Day 1 in front of SB and Dada Ji? Even Virat who is not lending her his ear?
So, now why all the expectations from JEEVIKA only? Because, ironically those who are bashing/crticiticing Jeevika are aware of the fact that no matter what, it is ONLY Jeevika who can save Manvi from every single matter at the end of the day!
People's argument- Why doesn't Jeevika support Manvi despite her making big claims of loving Manvi, her OTT dialogues? If she can save Manvi from Cancer, why can't she support her in this small issue?
But why is this only remembered in times of need when Manvi gets in trouble because I don't recall Jeevika being applauded or appreciated otherwise for what she does or did for Manvi!?
Jeevika donating bone marrow- Act of Mahanta
Virat shaving his hair- Ultimate Sacrifice
Jeevika guiding Manvi to stay out of trouble being newly wedded in her in-laws- Interference
Manvi failing at Kheer preparation-Jeevika's negligence because she failed to teach him
What EXACTLY should she do?! Now when it comes to trivial matters like this, all of a sudden everyone remembers Jeevika's OTT dialogues and her donating bone marrow etc ONLY to use that against her when she doesn't support Manvi in issue like this?! Does that even make sense? Just when others fail to lend support to Manvi, the onus automatically shifts on Jeevika to support Manvi?!
Just because Jeevika openly claims about her love to Manvi, utters those OTT dialogues, donates bone marrow, does NOT imply or makes her liable to support Manvi in EVERY single thing! Just like our parents, though they have raised us and claim to love us, they cannot support us in every little thing (Right or wrong is a different matter altogether) One cannot weigh these two things in a same balance!
Jeevika, who is looking out for her sister to begin with and stopped Manvi from indulging in this matter is seen as Jeevika backing out from her promises BUT would it have been the same case, if a mother had said this to her newly wedded daughter and instructed her to stay out of trouble in her new in-laws? What if Beeji instructs Manvi to do the same as Jeevika? But I am sure if Manvi was to go down this path without Jeevika telling her to stop, ultimately fingers would have been pointed at Jeevika at the end of the anyways as Jeevika, being the elder one, failed to do her duty!! Just in today's episode, SB taunted Jeevika telling her she has not taught Manvi manners etc and in real lif too, mothers get the ultimate blame for her daughter's mistake regardless of how good her upbringing was! No one questions the child, its the mothers that faces the embarrassment!
I typed a response to this post twice but it got deleted so now I have just typed whatever came to my mind and it probably does't even make sense anymore but yea thats all i had to say!!! No matter what happens- Jeevika will be bashed either way!!!
I truly agree with you here. Jeevika has promised her parents on taking good care of Manvi but not promised to support her in every deed. At times, Manvi needs to know her limits. It is not trival issue that someone like Karan Shikhawat will go live on news and announce some shit relation of Swamini Bua, which needs to be stopped by Manci at once, if not Vadera's ijjath will be soiled. If Virat didn't agree with her thought, she could have waited for Viren to come and expressed her doubts to him or she could have talked to Indur. Why she did not shared her concern with dadaji, the moment she came back from Mumbai? What was the necessity for her to go all alone to an unknown place? What if something happened to her? How she would have braced her from someone?
Even after dadaji asked her to stop talking on the issue, she was adament to speak on and Bua also asked her to stay away from that matter. Despite that she jumps to Karan for explaination? What exctly she wants to prove here?
Does she wants to pin point Swamini bua had a past? If she had a cruel past (looks like it is bitter past), then how is she planning to upkeep Swmini bua's heart break?
If she feels she is Sherlock holms, why it didn'tstrike to her great mind that there could be some plan behind Karan's help in saving Beeji's house. House could she just accepted it as her fathers previous helping nature earned them the house back?