Firstly thanks for this thread Seelaks (is your name Lakshmi?)
Largely the blame falls on Bhabho because she never corrects her younger ones as it suits her purpose when they support her in her decisions.
Bhabho never lets her dil talk out of turn or even so much as suggest something and Sooraj has to always be a Yes man to her.
But with the younger 2 brats they back answer and talk rudely to elders in the house and yet Bhabho never corrects them.
Sooraj has grown up being docile and timid so his personality is such that he would never raise his voice against anyone. But now with a new found Confidence I want him to be more assertive in the house after all he is the main bread winner in the house. But his fear of Bhabho is too much.
His respect comes more out of fear than love although I do not deny that he loves his mother dearly.
But at moments like in today's epi - Do u really think he would feel respect out of love...
Chavi is worst than Mohit I would say- because she is always irresponsible and then like Meena she will make more stupid mistakes and become more irresponsible to hide her original mistake.
The worst part is that she never feels guilty about it or repents later.
She does not have feelings of gratitude (example - Sandhya's help), feelings of compassion and overall no thoughtfulness at all.
Mohit is equally irresponsible but atleast he has been shown to be helpful in getting Suraj his atm card
But I would largely put the blame on Bhabho and to some extent Bhabasa as they are the parents in an authoritative family where Bhabho is the head.
Edited by Juna04 - 08 November 2012 at 3:33pm