Spoiled Brats !! (Page 3)

soreya20

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 1:42pm | IP Logged

This is a very interesting topic. I'm glad you came up with it to share and discuss.
In my opinion, I think its more both sides and not just only one side. Mohit and Chavi both should learn from their older brother Suraj since they are the youngest and as its always expected in every generation, that youngers ones must follow the older ones. Not only that, they should understand Suraj as much as he understands them. But as for the mother, she needs to not only pay attention to her oldest son but to her other children as well. Its common to love and spend time with your oldest son/daughter because you would expected a lot from them in return. That is understandable in nature. Sharing the love and careness from a parent towards other children is perhaps better because then all children will not feel left out. So in the end, I say its more of both sides that need to work together

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 2:23pm | IP Logged

Firstly thanks for this thread Seelaks (is your name Lakshmi?)

Largely the blame falls on Bhabho because she never corrects her younger ones as it suits her purpose when they support her in her decisions.

Bhabho never lets her dil talk out of turn or even so much as suggest something and Sooraj has to always be a Yes man to her.

But with the younger 2 brats they back answer and talk rudely to elders in the house and yet Bhabho never corrects them.

Sooraj has grown up being docile and timid so his personality is such that he would never raise his voice against anyone. But now with a new found Confidence I want him to be more assertive in the house after all he is the main bread winner in the house. But his fear of Bhabho is too much.

His respect comes more out of fear than love although I do not deny that he loves his mother dearly.

But at moments like in today's epi - Do u really think he would feel respect out of love...

Chavi is worst than Mohit I would say- because she is always irresponsible and then like Meena she will make more stupid mistakes and become more irresponsible to hide her original mistake.

The worst part is that she never feels guilty about it or repents later.

She does not have feelings of gratitude (example - Sandhya's help), feelings of compassion and overall no thoughtfulness at all.

Mohit is equally irresponsible but atleast he has been shown to be helpful in getting Suraj his atm card

But I would largely put the blame on Bhabho and to some extent Bhabasa as they are the parents in an authoritative family where Bhabho is the head.

Edited by Juna04 - 08 November 2012 at 3:33pm

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 5:54pm | IP Logged

Juna, I agree. Chavi is worse. Being the only daughter and the youngest, she has been coddled.,She is rude, disrespectful, self centered and irresponsible. Feel sorry for the decent family she is marrying into.

Thanks for the thread Seelaks. We will prob need this even more tmw!

Edited by Deebz - 08 November 2012 at 5:55pm

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 6:54pm | IP Logged

Urghhh Chavi and Mohit. I have no words for them. They make me feel so...

Off to the Rathi house... anyone want to join me?

Unke saath toh main...

Darr ke maare they will go run off and hide

But I shall not return until I have set them straight!

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cooldudette

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 11:49pm | IP Logged

Actually I find chavvi and mohit extremely selfish

when suraj is doing well they go and stick on him and otherwise they criticise him

he does so much for them but they dont hesitate to sacrifice him or any other person for thier mistakes

even vikram would rather put all the blame on his wife rather than admitting his mistakes

how come suraj has such selfish siblings...maybe suraj is adopted LOL

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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 12:16am | IP Logged

Mohit and Chavvi r two ungrateful bunch in the Rathi household.They r always self centered and don't care a damn abt family.All they wanted is money 4 their needs.I don't blame Bhabo completely though she also has got a part in it.A child either becomes timid or rebellious when one or either of the parents r strict.Bhabo loves her eldest son a lot and always compare them with him and that has lead 2 a sort of dislike towards Sooraj 4 Mohit and Chavvi.She has that soft corner 4 him and unknowingly she displays that bias in front of them.Apart from these what baffles me is that they both sometimes lack that humane nature bound by gratitude and acceptance.

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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 12:44am | IP Logged

I completely agree with Akkuji. I don't understand how can we blame Bhabho for selfish,greedy behavior of chhavi n mohit? Confused

Does it means I should also blame my mother whatever negative qualities inherited in me? I was very arrogant, selfish n egoistic in my childhood so my mom's approach was strict towards me -- it's because she wanted to instill discipline in me. Osama Bin laden became a terrorist -- so for that we should blame her mother???? Silly

There are many factors affect to develop character of the person. I think Mohit n Chavi are young enough to interpret between what's right n wrong. After certain age we're responsible for our actions. We shouldn't blame anyone.

Edited by ami_dabh - 09 November 2012 at 12:44am

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Posted: 09 November 2012 at 12:59am | IP Logged

Originally posted by ami_dabh

I completely agree with Akkuji. I don't understand how can we blame Bhabho for selfish,greedy behavior of chhavi n mohit? Confused

Does it means I should also blame my mother whatever negative qualities inherited in me? I was very arrogant, selfish n egoistic in my childhood so my mom's approach was strict towards me -- it's because she wanted to instill discipline in me. Osama Bin laden became a terrorist -- so for that we should blame her mother???? Silly

There are many factors affect to develop character of the person. I think Mohit n Chavi are young enough to interpret between what's right n wrong. After certain age we're responsible for our actions. We shouldn't blame anyone.

@bold: I totally agree with you Ami...so true, after certain age, we are responsible for our action...well said!

also I don't think bhabo is being biased by showing more affection towards Suraj...I don't see anything wrong in it, Suraj has done so much for his family, had a difficult childhood, sacrificed his education, the only bread winner, etc...he certainly deserves more love

Edited by niruba - 09 November 2012 at 1:12am

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