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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 3:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Originally posted by Tanyaz

Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .
You are very right.. Reading about all he did to Archana almost brought tears to my eyes... I will never forgive manav for his little pphysical act... 
Manav's failure as a parent was that he never wanted to Ovi because she was a barabie doll, but look what that lead to .. this tamasha...
Ovi never learned the value of things. If any child did that whether it was dinner they did not want or methai would have gotten punished.. Ovi simply nothing no one told her what she did was wrong..
I havent watched the Epi but from what I read Manav didnt saw a word making Archana look bad to Ovi.. 
Yes if Manav was really Purvi's dad then he would have definetly set Ovi straight, the only reason that he is her Baba is because Archu is her Aai and he is Archu's hubby...
If manav truly wanted to be Purvi's baba in the true light he would have let her stay without her family after the Ovi and Arjun marriage.. When Ovi's heart was broken he was always by her side..
Why would Manav not support Ovi over Purvi. Just like Archu always supports Purvi like today,Manav supports Ovi. 
Manav does not have any obligation to take Purvi as his daughter.Just coz Archu adopted Purvi in his absence it does not mean he has to accept her.But he has accepted her and naturally it would be coz of Archu.Manav never knew about Purvi and all of a sudden your wife introduces her as her adopted grown up daughter.The chemistry is built over a period of time and I thought it will naturally miss here but still Manav - Purvi scenes are always nice to watch.They have this good chemistry between them but alas CV's dont want to show much of them unfortunately.
I agree to the point that Manav should have reproached Ovi but for Manav Ovi will always come first its quite natural and as far as I seen for Archu Purvi comes first which is also natural.I dont blame Manav or Archu here.They both are protective for their children but this does not have to do anything with Manav's reactions today and his acceptance of Purvi.
He put his own life at risk to save Purvi.To go that far for a girl who knew just few months at that time ,introduced by your soon to be ex wife is something special.He did what he felt he had to do.And I am not saying here at all that Manav loves Purvi and this shows his love.Nope.
According to me Manav cares for Purvi a lot but CV's have not yet shown that fatherly conversation which was expected. Manav has accepted Purvi as his daughter and always be there for her when she needs him or if she is in trouble he will do his best but somewhere down the line CV's have yet to show that full -fledged conversation between. Both Manav and Purvi have not opened up to each other. I have also not seen Purvi reaching out to Manav and open her heart.The only time I think she did was calling him for her kanya dhaan where she talked from her heart.Rest of the times she has been also restrictive.Today yes he should have ideally reproached Ovi for behaving badly and being so immature ,two reasons come up in my mind for this

1)HE is too afraid that she might do something to herself knowing how obsessive she is over Arjun and even Manav, and can do anything to herself.
2)CV's plan to show Manav - Ovi confrontation some other time or its not even planned.

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 3:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by arjunaluis

Originally posted by Tanyaz

Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .


The bolded part very well said Tanya...i have given up hoping some scenes of Purvi with her Manav baba. She should just leave the D clan and K clan for good...everyone says that Arjun has had the worse for the stupid deal wedding which i agree completely...but now i feel Purvi also is in a bad place, by giving up Arjun she has lost everything...

1) Arjun-Her love, she could have been so happy with him-both of them would have been.
2) Her job - She could be running the office Dk gave for Arjun with Arjun, now she jobless
3) Her family - She could have at least had the D clan as her family when she lost Arjun, but today it has come plain and simple, she is not welcomed in the D clan. She should never go to the D clan house again. Nobody stood up for her except Archana. Going there would only give her more humilation.
4) A great father - If she married Arjun, at least she would have gotten a great father in Dk. She would have received all the love she has been waiting for Manav to give her.
5) Manju - When she finds out Purvi has lost her job, she is going to torture Purvi with words. She won't be able to live in her own house.

Conclusion :- Purvi don't take Manav's Pune project job also...leave for good, go to kolkata and find a new job away from all these. You have done enough, now the time has come to live for yourself. Archana aai can live without you- it will be hard for both of you but she has 4 other children. Go Purvi, leave and start you own life. How much more can you take? because i had enough watching it.

In bold you must be joking Abhi ,Dk is the first person who accepted Arjun-Ovi marriage and he has already moved on.He has not once talked to Arjun or anyone.
Arman are caught up with Soham case but what about DK.
Manav put his life at risk to save Purvi when she needed him.What has DK done so far for Purvi except just talk.
According to me DK was once a cool dude when Ashna was around ,his coolness went for a toss when Ashna (Mansi) left him after the leap to a new show in star plus where she is rocking LOL
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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 3:54pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Originally posted by Tanyaz

Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .
You are very right.. Reading about all he did to Archana almost brought tears to my eyes... I will never forgive manav for his little pphysical act... 
Manav's failure as a parent was that he never wanted to Ovi because she was a barabie doll, but look what that lead to .. this tamasha...
Ovi never learned the value of things. If any child did that whether it was dinner they did not want or methai would have gotten punished.. Ovi simply nothing no one told her what she did was wrong..
I havent watched the Epi but from what I read Manav didnt saw a word making Archana look bad to Ovi.. 
Yes if Manav was really Purvi's dad then he would have definetly set Ovi straight, the only reason that he is her Baba is because Archu is her Aai and he is Archu's hubby...
If manav truly wanted to be Purvi's baba in the true light he would have let her stay without her family after the Ovi and Arjun marriage.. When Ovi's heart was broken he was always by her side..
Why would Manav not support Ovi over Purvi. Just like Archu always supports Purvi like today,Manav supports Ovi. 
Manav does not have any obligation to take Purvi as his daughter.Just coz Archu adopted Purvi in his absence it does not mean he has to accept her.But he has accepted her and naturally it would be coz of Archu.Manav never knew about Purvi and all of a sudden your wife introduces her as her adopted grown up daughter.The chemistry is built over a period of time and I thought it will naturally miss here but still Manav - Purvi scenes are always nice to watch.They have this good chemistry between them but alas CV's dont want to show much of them unfortunately.
I agree to the point that Manav should have reproached Ovi but for Manav Ovi will always come first its quite natural and as far as I seen for Archu Purvi comes first which is also natural.I dont blame Manav or Archu here.They both are protective for their children but this does not have to do anything with Manav's reactions today and his acceptance of Purvi.
He put his own life at risk to save Purvi.To go that far for a girl who knew just few months at that time ,introduced by your soon to be ex wife is something special.He did what he felt he had to do.And I am not saying here at all that Manav loves Purvi and this shows his love.Nope.
According to me Manav cares for Purvi a lot but CV's have not yet shown that fatherly conversation which was expected. Manav has accepted Purvi as his daughter and always be there for her when she needs him or if she is in trouble he will do his best but somewhere down the line CV's have yet to show that full -fledged conversation between. Both Manav and Purvi have not opened up to each other. I have also not seen Purvi reaching out to Manav and open her heart.The only time I think she did was calling him for her kanya dhaan where she talked from her heart.Rest of the times she has been also restrictive.Today yes he should have ideally reproached Ovi for behaving badly and being so immature ,two reasons come up in my mind for this

1)HE is too afraid that she might do something to herself knowing how obsessive she is over Arjun and even Manav, and can do anything to herself.
2)CV's plan to show Manav - Ovi confrontation some other time or its not even planned.
Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 3:56pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jaishankar

Originally posted by arjunaluis

Originally posted by Tanyaz

Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .


The bolded part very well said Tanya...i have given up hoping some scenes of Purvi with her Manav baba. She should just leave the D clan and K clan for good...everyone says that Arjun has had the worse for the stupid deal wedding which i agree completely...but now i feel Purvi also is in a bad place, by giving up Arjun she has lost everything...

1) Arjun-Her love, she could have been so happy with him-both of them would have been.
2) Her job - She could be running the office Dk gave for Arjun with Arjun, now she jobless
3) Her family - She could have at least had the D clan as her family when she lost Arjun, but today it has come plain and simple, she is not welcomed in the D clan. She should never go to the D clan house again. Nobody stood up for her except Archana. Going there would only give her more humilation.
4) A great father - If she married Arjun, at least she would have gotten a great father in Dk. She would have received all the love she has been waiting for Manav to give her.
5) Manju - When she finds out Purvi has lost her job, she is going to torture Purvi with words. She won't be able to live in her own house.

Conclusion :- Purvi don't take Manav's Pune project job also...leave for good, go to kolkata and find a new job away from all these. You have done enough, now the time has come to live for yourself. Archana aai can live without you- it will be hard for both of you but she has 4 other children. Go Purvi, leave and start you own life. How much more can you take? because i had enough watching it.

In bold you must be joking Abhi ,Dk is the first person who accepted Arjun-Ovi marriage and he has already moved on.He has not once talked to Arjun or anyone.
Arman are caught up with Soham case but what about DK.
Manav put his life at risk to save Purvi when she needed him.What has DK done so far for Purvi except just talk.
According to me DK was once a cool dude when Ashna was around ,his coolness went for a toss when Ashna (Mansi) left him after the leap to a new show in star plus where she is rocking LOL
In my eyes DK is just on the side of what ever girl is with Arjun. Before it was Ovi then Purvi now back to Ovi.. 

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 4:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by arjunaluis

Originally posted by Tanyaz

Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .


The bolded part very well said Tanya...i have given up hoping some scenes of Purvi with her Manav baba. She should just leave the D clan and K clan for good...everyone says that Arjun has had the worse for the stupid deal wedding which i agree completely...but now i feel Purvi also is in a bad place, by giving up Arjun she has lost everything...

1) Arjun-Her love, she could have been so happy with him-both of them would have been.
2) Her job - She could be running the office Dk gave for Arjun with Arjun, now she jobless
3) Her family - She could have at least had the D clan as her family when she lost Arjun, but today it has come plain and simple, she is not welcomed in the D clan. She should never go to the D clan house again. Nobody stood up for her except Archana. Going there would only give her more humilation.
4) A great father - If she married Arjun, at least she would have gotten a great father in Dk. She would have received all the love she has been waiting for Manav to give her.
5) Manju - When she finds out Purvi has lost her job, she is going to torture Purvi with words. She won't be able to live in her own house.

Conclusion :- Purvi don't take Manav's Pune project job also...leave for good, go to kolkata and find a new job away from all these. You have done enough, now the time has come to live for yourself. Archana aai can live without you- it will be hard for both of you but she has 4 other children. Go Purvi, leave and start you own life. How much more can you take? because i had enough watching it.
Hey Abhi havent talked to you in a while!
Purvi lost alot with what she did. She seperated herself from the man who loved her more than himself, who would have always been by her side and always made sure she was happy. The man who could understand her every emotion..
I really want Purvi to move for a bit.. She needs some time to herself... she needs to reflect on her life. That is the only way her realization will fully occur.
Manju is going to make Purvi's life real bad when she finds out, and its going to sting Purvi more than it usually would, as she is already emotionally vulnerable.
Purvi should quit trying to solve all of the deshmukh problems and try to move on in her own life. Make a name for herself so she can live independently. But yes keep in touch with Archu, she loves you very much.
I have quit having any expactations form Cv'sBig smile I also was hoping for some Purvi-Manav scenes
Maybe first Purvi moves to Kolkata then Armaan unknowingly also go there...?

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 4:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Originally posted by Jaishankar

Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Originally posted by Tanyaz

Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .
You are very right.. Reading about all he did to Archana almost brought tears to my eyes... I will never forgive manav for his little pphysical act... 
Manav's failure as a parent was that he never wanted to Ovi because she was a barabie doll, but look what that lead to .. this tamasha...
Ovi never learned the value of things. If any child did that whether it was dinner they did not want or methai would have gotten punished.. Ovi simply nothing no one told her what she did was wrong..
I havent watched the Epi but from what I read Manav didnt saw a word making Archana look bad to Ovi.. 
Yes if Manav was really Purvi's dad then he would have definetly set Ovi straight, the only reason that he is her Baba is because Archu is her Aai and he is Archu's hubby...
If manav truly wanted to be Purvi's baba in the true light he would have let her stay without her family after the Ovi and Arjun marriage.. When Ovi's heart was broken he was always by her side..
Why would Manav not support Ovi over Purvi. Just like Archu always supports Purvi like today,Manav supports Ovi. 
Manav does not have any obligation to take Purvi as his daughter.Just coz Archu adopted Purvi in his absence it does not mean he has to accept her.But he has accepted her and naturally it would be coz of Archu.Manav never knew about Purvi and all of a sudden your wife introduces her as her adopted grown up daughter.The chemistry is built over a period of time and I thought it will naturally miss here but still Manav - Purvi scenes are always nice to watch.They have this good chemistry between them but alas CV's dont want to show much of them unfortunately.
I agree to the point that Manav should have reproached Ovi but for Manav Ovi will always come first its quite natural and as far as I seen for Archu Purvi comes first which is also natural.I dont blame Manav or Archu here.They both are protective for their children but this does not have to do anything with Manav's reactions today and his acceptance of Purvi.
He put his own life at risk to save Purvi.To go that far for a girl who knew just few months at that time ,introduced by your soon to be ex wife is something special.He did what he felt he had to do.And I am not saying here at all that Manav loves Purvi and this shows his love.Nope.
According to me Manav cares for Purvi a lot but CV's have not yet shown that fatherly conversation which was expected. Manav has accepted Purvi as his daughter and always be there for her when she needs him or if she is in trouble he will do his best but somewhere down the line CV's have yet to show that full -fledged conversation between. Both Manav and Purvi have not opened up to each other. I have also not seen Purvi reaching out to Manav and open her heart.The only time I think she did was calling him for her kanya dhaan where she talked from her heart.Rest of the times she has been also restrictive.Today yes he should have ideally reproached Ovi for behaving badly and being so immature ,two reasons come up in my mind for this

1)HE is too afraid that she might do something to herself knowing how obsessive she is over Arjun and even Manav, and can do anything to herself.
2)CV's plan to show Manav - Ovi confrontation some other time or its not even planned.
Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile
Yup I agree that Manav should have reproached Ovi which I mentioned. My whole point was just from today's epi one cannot judge Manav's love for Purvi is more or less.In fact Manav's not reacting is no way related to whether he loves Purvi more or Ovi more.
Its just that CV's either CV's decided not to show it for now/for later purpose or one can assume based on the histroy that Manav is afraid of Ovi's out-burst of harming herself which led him to keep quiet.
Since it was never shown ,we can only assume things.Hence my point is as its not shown ,I dont think Manav's not reacting has any correlation with him loving Purvi less or more which was my point.
The very next time they might show Manav doing once again something big for Purvi then everyone once again appreciate him.Tactics of daily soaps ,simple!!But my whole point was the above mentioned and hence I also agreed that Manav should have reproached Ovi .Wink
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Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

Hi there!

I have to agree with what you said. I am no fan of any of the characters that writers give us in the beginning and then just make them so unreal, it is hard to bother liking them anymore. But as much as I have loved Manav from the beginning, he has been a tad bit disappointing since the leap, especially when it comes to the treatment of his mother, and then his daughter Ovi. He should have been the support she needed long back when she came to India and found out about Arjun and Purvi. I expected him to be the shoulder, that he was, but then move on to being a more authoratitve figure and a wise father who along with giving her emotional support, also gives her some lessons on growing up, on understanding the difference between love and obsession, who shows her right from wrong. I had high expectations from him post the wedding, where he let me down once again. Archana rightfully went home slapped Purvi and reprimanded her for what she had done. It was highly emotional and made sense for a mother to feel that way. Manav did nothing, besides waking up in the morning, being temporarily upset and just telling Ovi, that what she did was wrong because Arjun-Purvi love each other. Much more was needed from Manav at that point than just lamely telling her and accepting her apology. He should have been livid at her for being so self centred and obsessed that she bartered his marriage with Archana ( with no thought for either of her parents) simply to get hold of a man who does not love her. Manav simply resigned to this chosen fate by his child and did not so much as give her an insight into the consequences of this as well as punish her for the arrogance and desperation that she had acted on. One hug, it was all over. 

Same way, after the wedding, he should have spoken to his damaad too about what has happened and how to go from here. Arjun, has grown up looking up to Manav, which means they share a close relationship, close enough for Manav to have slapped him for loving Purvi. He should have spoken to him as an older, father in law figure and discussed this debacle. Archana was relatively new to Ovi to open up, but she gave her the advice to work on her marriage with patience, but Manav did not rise to that occassion either. Today, when Ovi was inappropriately misbehaving, he simply left standing there like a putla without putting her in her place for once. Archana came forward to protect Purvi, which makes sense, and I do not expect Manav to sound off Ovi for Purvi;s sake. But yes, as a father, he should have been angry at Ovi for misbehaving with a guest and being so childish and immature in her approach. There is a tactful way to handle children and I think Manav has simply failed as a father in Ovi's case at the least. 

I must say though that DK has proved to be quite amusing to me. He simply does not care about "trivial" issues like who his son ends up marrying. At one point, I used to love the relationship that he shared with Arjun, but clearly DK seems more engrossed in his own self or maybe praising Archana and Sulochana all day, that he has no interest in his son's life anymore. He should have really been the supposedly " cool" father, having an open-hearted discussion with his son about his marriage, what he needs to do, what he should do, how he is feeling, how he needs to work about this. He simply stayed put, observed the tamasha and decided to stand back and let things move on. Parents, have been quite the wrong examples for the kids in this show. Sad that DK was reduced to this. I used to like his cool headed character who was such a stark difference from Manav who is not so passive. But have simply become wall flowers in their children's lives it seems.




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Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

Hi there!

I have to agree with what you said. I am no fan of any of the characters that writers give us in the beginning and then just make them so unreal, it is hard to bother liking them anymore. But as much as I have loved Manav from the beginning, he has been a tad bit disappointing since the leap, especially when it comes to the treatment of his mother, and then his daughter Ovi. He should have been the support she needed long back when she came to India and found out about Arjun and Purvi. I expected him to be the shoulder, that he was, but then move on to being a more authoratitve figure and a wise father who along with giving her emotional support, also gives her some lessons on growing up, on understanding the difference between love and obsession, who shows her right from wrong. I had high expectations from him post the wedding, where he let me down once again. Archana rightfully went home slapped Purvi and reprimanded her for what she had done. It was highly emotional and made sense for a mother to feel that way. Manav did nothing, besides waking up in the morning, being temporarily upset and just telling Ovi, that what she did was wrong because Arjun-Purvi love each other. Much more was needed from Manav at that point than just lamely telling her and accepting her apology. He should have been livid at her for being so self centred and obsessed that she bartered his marriage with Archana ( with no thought for either of her parents) simply to get hold of a man who does not love her. Manav simply resigned to this chosen fate by his child and did not so much as give her an insight into the consequences of this as well as punish her for the arrogance and desperation that she had acted on. One hug, it was all over. 

Same way, after the wedding, he should have spoken to his damaad too about what has happened and how to go from here. Arjun, has grown up looking up to Manav, which means they share a close relationship, close enough for Manav to have slapped him for loving Purvi. He should have spoken to him as an older, father in law figure and discussed this debacle. Archana was relatively new to Ovi to open up, but she gave her the advice to work on her marriage with patience, but Manav did not rise to that occassion either. Today, when Ovi was inappropriately misbehaving, he simply left standing there like a putla without putting her in her place for once. Archana came forward to protect Purvi, which makes sense, and I do not expect Manav to sound off Ovi for Purvi;s sake. But yes, as a father, he should have been angry at Ovi for misbehaving with a guest and being so childish and immature in her approach. There is a tactful way to handle children and I think Manav has simply failed as a father in Ovi's case at the least. 

I must say though that DK has proved to be quite amusing to me. He simply does not care about "trivial" issues like who his son ends up marrying. At one point, I used to love the relationship that he shared with Arjun, but clearly DK seems more engrossed in his own self or maybe praising Archana and Sulochana all day, that he has no interest in his son's life anymore. He should have really been the supposedly " cool" father, having an open-hearted discussion with his son about his marriage, what he needs to do, what he should do, how he is feeling, how he needs to work about this. He simply stayed put, observed the tamasha and decided to stand back and let things move on. Parents, have been quite the wrong examples for the kids in this show. Sad that DK was reduced to this. I used to like his cool headed character who was such a stark difference from Manav who is not so passive. But have simply become wall flowers in their children's lives it seems.


Hey welcome to the forum!!
Ha since leap Manav has been really disappointing for me, as he was supposed to be the male lead.
I know he wasnt going to yell about what she said to Purvi, but acting is such a way with a guest shuld not be tolerated. I bet farukh bhai walked out thinking oh god who has Arjun got himseld into, God protect him..
After the marriage Manav was so passive... If I was the parent I would have told her to get a divorce as soon as she could... or knock some sense into her saying how she was never was going to be happy..
DK I had expectations from him to do something since he knows that Arjun is madly in love with Purvi, but he didnt do anyhting...

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