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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 4:24pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

Hi there!

I have to agree with what you said. I am no fan of any of the characters that writers give us in the beginning and then just make them so unreal, it is hard to bother liking them anymore. But as much as I have loved Manav from the beginning, he has been a tad bit disappointing since the leap, especially when it comes to the treatment of his mother, and then his daughter Ovi. He should have been the support she needed long back when she came to India and found out about Arjun and Purvi. I expected him to be the shoulder, that he was, but then move on to being a more authoratitve figure and a wise father who along with giving her emotional support, also gives her some lessons on growing up, on understanding the difference between love and obsession, who shows her right from wrong. I had high expectations from him post the wedding, where he let me down once again. Archana rightfully went home slapped Purvi and reprimanded her for what she had done. It was highly emotional and made sense for a mother to feel that way. Manav did nothing, besides waking up in the morning, being temporarily upset and just telling Ovi, that what she did was wrong because Arjun-Purvi love each other. Much more was needed from Manav at that point than just lamely telling her and accepting her apology. He should have been livid at her for being so self centred and obsessed that she bartered his marriage with Archana ( with no thought for either of her parents) simply to get hold of a man who does not love her. Manav simply resigned to this chosen fate by his child and did not so much as give her an insight into the consequences of this as well as punish her for the arrogance and desperation that she had acted on. One hug, it was all over. 

Same way, after the wedding, he should have spoken to his damaad too about what has happened and how to go from here. Arjun, has grown up looking up to Manav, which means they share a close relationship, close enough for Manav to have slapped him for loving Purvi. He should have spoken to him as an older, father in law figure and discussed this debacle. Archana was relatively new to Ovi to open up, but she gave her the advice to work on her marriage with patience, but Manav did not rise to that occassion either. Today, when Ovi was inappropriately misbehaving, he simply left standing there like a putla without putting her in her place for once. Archana came forward to protect Purvi, which makes sense, and I do not expect Manav to sound off Ovi for Purvi;s sake. But yes, as a father, he should have been angry at Ovi for misbehaving with a guest and being so childish and immature in her approach. There is a tactful way to handle children and I think Manav has simply failed as a father in Ovi's case at the least. 

I must say though that DK has proved to be quite amusing to me. He simply does not care about "trivial" issues like who his son ends up marrying. At one point, I used to love the relationship that he shared with Arjun, but clearly DK seems more engrossed in his own self or maybe praising Archana and Sulochana all day, that he has no interest in his son's life anymore. He should have really been the supposedly " cool" father, having an open-hearted discussion with his son about his marriage, what he needs to do, what he should do, how he is feeling, how he needs to work about this. He simply stayed put, observed the tamasha and decided to stand back and let things move on. Parents, have been quite the wrong examples for the kids in this show. Sad that DK was reduced to this. I used to like his cool headed character who was such a stark difference from Manav who is not so passive. But have simply become wall flowers in their children's lives it seems.



I agree very well written post. PR has never been good parenting or normal couple leading happy lives.It was during the first 6 months of the show where there was normalcy in the show,then everything went to the toss.
PR is more about evil plots/scheming,senseless sacrifices,spineless men,dumb goats like Vandu,Damo and relationships put on price for the happiness of others senselessly.
CV's/Ekta pride on these factors to be shown to the viewers.

AS far as Manav goes ,the moment Sushant quit ,they decided to change the characterization of Manav.Manav had become more out-spoken.There was time before leap when Archu was the dominating partner and Manav would give in to pacify her but after the leap Manav has yelled the living day lights of Archu due to the senseless MU and now a days its more of fear in Archu over Manav's anger than anything else.CV's wanted to change the characterization as well with the actor getting changed.
Manav had become a universal character for many around who adored him.He was the best son,best husband anyone could have till leap happened.
I feel for the actors of the show who are giving their best with such senseless story tracks.


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Hi .I'm here..just after watching it..didn't have enough time to read your posts..I will not write a lot ok.just few words..

AS I said..I'm fed up wtih ARJUN/OVI/PURVI ..really big headache to see them..Angry

I'll just say..Arjun...Angry is just a coward..why he don't confront Ovi...for at least Farouk Bhai..
Farouk  did a lot for him...Treat him like a son...and today he let his so call wife treat him like a dog..disrespect that poor guy..

Not fair Arjun..Its shame...Angry and the cherry on the cake..he hug Ovi...My foot..Angry as if  he told her"" what you did is good..Thumbs Down just get lost Arjun..Purvi ask you to keep her happy.(which I'm not agree with).but she never say "" hug her when she treat Mehmaan like dogs."".Angry she has no manners..and will never have I think..she is stubborn..what to say like Varsha ..yes we can put them in same basket...Angry

and Ovi throw the Mithai box..in PR many time they show..food throwing away.Hate to see food throwing away like this...
I can't beleive what I see today..even Manv has his mouth shut..why??
Purvi better she go away...to much tamasha.
Hope she will take a good decision about her life now...Angry
Really now what will happen to them I don"t care..everybody had been spoil..If I continue talking on them I'll hate them later..better stop here..

If I come now..Just for Tej..its a very beautiful scene ..for a first contact..Sunny look nice and handsome too..He looks funny ..really I think they'll both match...Tej..is a  girl who take life as it come..and I hope that guy..will have a bit like Tej..in him..Smile So He is one son for his mother..and the other guy..is his cousin..his aunt's son..now ist clear..Smile

Ok leave you now..its late here ...I'm tired..really waitng for more scene on Tej..and I really realy hope..Ekta don't spoil them too...

On Varsha no comments..Angry LIke Soham and balan scene..especially soham..Cry
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Ha thanee di yet to watch episode but I think Tej's love story will bring freshness to the serial!

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Originally posted by xoxoarvi

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Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

Hi there!

I have to agree with what you said. I am no fan of any of the characters that writers give us in the beginning and then just make them so unreal, it is hard to bother liking them anymore. But as much as I have loved Manav from the beginning, he has been a tad bit disappointing since the leap, especially when it comes to the treatment of his mother, and then his daughter Ovi. He should have been the support she needed long back when she came to India and found out about Arjun and Purvi. I expected him to be the shoulder, that he was, but then move on to being a more authoratitve figure and a wise father who along with giving her emotional support, also gives her some lessons on growing up, on understanding the difference between love and obsession, who shows her right from wrong. I had high expectations from him post the wedding, where he let me down once again. Archana rightfully went home slapped Purvi and reprimanded her for what she had done. It was highly emotional and made sense for a mother to feel that way. Manav did nothing, besides waking up in the morning, being temporarily upset and just telling Ovi, that what she did was wrong because Arjun-Purvi love each other. Much more was needed from Manav at that point than just lamely telling her and accepting her apology. He should have been livid at her for being so self centred and obsessed that she bartered his marriage with Archana ( with no thought for either of her parents) simply to get hold of a man who does not love her. Manav simply resigned to this chosen fate by his child and did not so much as give her an insight into the consequences of this as well as punish her for the arrogance and desperation that she had acted on. One hug, it was all over. 

Same way, after the wedding, he should have spoken to his damaad too about what has happened and how to go from here. Arjun, has grown up looking up to Manav, which means they share a close relationship, close enough for Manav to have slapped him for loving Purvi. He should have spoken to him as an older, father in law figure and discussed this debacle. Archana was relatively new to Ovi to open up, but she gave her the advice to work on her marriage with patience, but Manav did not rise to that occassion either. Today, when Ovi was inappropriately misbehaving, he simply left standing there like a putla without putting her in her place for once. Archana came forward to protect Purvi, which makes sense, and I do not expect Manav to sound off Ovi for Purvi;s sake. But yes, as a father, he should have been angry at Ovi for misbehaving with a guest and being so childish and immature in her approach. There is a tactful way to handle children and I think Manav has simply failed as a father in Ovi's case at the least. 

I must say though that DK has proved to be quite amusing to me. He simply does not care about "trivial" issues like who his son ends up marrying. At one point, I used to love the relationship that he shared with Arjun, but clearly DK seems more engrossed in his own self or maybe praising Archana and Sulochana all day, that he has no interest in his son's life anymore. He should have really been the supposedly " cool" father, having an open-hearted discussion with his son about his marriage, what he needs to do, what he should do, how he is feeling, how he needs to work about this. He simply stayed put, observed the tamasha and decided to stand back and let things move on. Parents, have been quite the wrong examples for the kids in this show. Sad that DK was reduced to this. I used to like his cool headed character who was such a stark difference from Manav who is not so passive. But have simply become wall flowers in their children's lives it seems.


Hey welcome to the forum!!
Ha since leap Manav has been really disappointing for me, as he was supposed to be the male lead.
I know he wasnt going to yell about what she said to Purvi, but acting is such a way with a guest shuld not be tolerated. I bet farukh bhai walked out thinking oh god who has Arjun got himseld into, God protect him..
After the marriage Manav was so passive... If I was the parent I would have told her to get a divorce as soon as she could... or knock some sense into her saying how she was never was going to be happy..
DK I had expectations from him to do something since he knows that Arjun is madly in love with Purvi, but he didnt do anyhting...
Manav is a changed man after leap.The moment Sushant quit ,they decided to change the characterization of Manav.Manav had become more out-spoken.There was time before leap when Archu was the dominating partner and Manav would give in to pacify her but after the leap Manav has yelled the living day lights of Archu due to the senseless MU and now a days its more of fear in Archu over Manav's anger than anything else.CV's wanted to change the characterization as well with the actor getting changed.
Manav had become a universal character for many around who adored him.He was the best son,best husband anyone could have till leap happened.
I feel for the actors of the show who are giving their best with such senseless story tracks.

DK is a changed man too (except the actor did not change) after leap.He has not been doing much after leap except accept things as it comes and play the spectator role and just sit and watch the tamasha.

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 4:35pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Originally posted by anayamehra

Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

Hi there!

I have to agree with what you said. I am no fan of any of the characters that writers give us in the beginning and then just make them so unreal, it is hard to bother liking them anymore. But as much as I have loved Manav from the beginning, he has been a tad bit disappointing since the leap, especially when it comes to the treatment of his mother, and then his daughter Ovi. He should have been the support she needed long back when she came to India and found out about Arjun and Purvi. I expected him to be the shoulder, that he was, but then move on to being a more authoratitve figure and a wise father who along with giving her emotional support, also gives her some lessons on growing up, on understanding the difference between love and obsession, who shows her right from wrong. I had high expectations from him post the wedding, where he let me down once again. Archana rightfully went home slapped Purvi and reprimanded her for what she had done. It was highly emotional and made sense for a mother to feel that way. Manav did nothing, besides waking up in the morning, being temporarily upset and just telling Ovi, that what she did was wrong because Arjun-Purvi love each other. Much more was needed from Manav at that point than just lamely telling her and accepting her apology. He should have been livid at her for being so self centred and obsessed that she bartered his marriage with Archana ( with no thought for either of her parents) simply to get hold of a man who does not love her. Manav simply resigned to this chosen fate by his child and did not so much as give her an insight into the consequences of this as well as punish her for the arrogance and desperation that she had acted on. One hug, it was all over. 

Same way, after the wedding, he should have spoken to his damaad too about what has happened and how to go from here. Arjun, has grown up looking up to Manav, which means they share a close relationship, close enough for Manav to have slapped him for loving Purvi. He should have spoken to him as an older, father in law figure and discussed this debacle. Archana was relatively new to Ovi to open up, but she gave her the advice to work on her marriage with patience, but Manav did not rise to that occassion either. Today, when Ovi was inappropriately misbehaving, he simply left standing there like a putla without putting her in her place for once. Archana came forward to protect Purvi, which makes sense, and I do not expect Manav to sound off Ovi for Purvi;s sake. But yes, as a father, he should have been angry at Ovi for misbehaving with a guest and being so childish and immature in her approach. There is a tactful way to handle children and I think Manav has simply failed as a father in Ovi's case at the least. 

I must say though that DK has proved to be quite amusing to me. He simply does not care about "trivial" issues like who his son ends up marrying. At one point, I used to love the relationship that he shared with Arjun, but clearly DK seems more engrossed in his own self or maybe praising Archana and Sulochana all day, that he has no interest in his son's life anymore. He should have really been the supposedly " cool" father, having an open-hearted discussion with his son about his marriage, what he needs to do, what he should do, how he is feeling, how he needs to work about this. He simply stayed put, observed the tamasha and decided to stand back and let things move on. Parents, have been quite the wrong examples for the kids in this show. Sad that DK was reduced to this. I used to like his cool headed character who was such a stark difference from Manav who is not so passive. But have simply become wall flowers in their children's lives it seems.


Hey welcome to the forum!!
Ha since leap Manav has been really disappointing for me, as he was supposed to be the male lead.
I know he wasnt going to yell about what she said to Purvi, but acting is such a way with a guest shuld not be tolerated. I bet farukh bhai walked out thinking oh god who has Arjun got himseld into, God protect him..
After the marriage Manav was so passive... If I was the parent I would have told her to get a divorce as soon as she could... or knock some sense into her saying how she was never was going to be happy..
DK I had expectations from him to do something since he knows that Arjun is madly in love with Purvi, but he didnt do anyhting...
Manav is a changed man after leap.The moment Sushant quit ,they decided to change the characterization of Manav.Manav had become more out-spoken.There was time before leap when Archu was the dominating partner and Manav would give in to pacify her but after the leap Manav has yelled the living day lights of Archu due to the senseless MU and now a days its more of fear in Archu over Manav's anger than anything else.CV's wanted to change the characterization as well with the actor getting changed.
Manav had become a universal character for many around who adored him.He was the best son,best husband anyone could have till leap happened.
I feel for the actors of the show who are giving their best with such senseless story tracks.

DK is a changed man too (except the actor did not change) after leap.He has not been doing much after leap except accept things as it comes and play the spectator role and just sit and watch the tamasha.
You are right Jai.. Sometimes I miss Sush so much just because when he Manav, Manav was such a sweetheart then. Ever girl wanted a man like Manav in their life who loved his wife so much. Now they make it seem as though Manav is a man who gets so angry very easily.. 

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Hey welcome to the forum!!
Ha since leap Manav has been really disappointing for me, as he was supposed to be the male lead.
I know he wasnt going to yell about what she said to Purvi, but acting is such a way with a guest shuld not be tolerated. I bet farukh bhai walked out thinking oh god who has Arjun got himseld into, God protect him..
After the marriage Manav was so passive... If I was the parent I would have told her to get a divorce as soon as she could... or knock some sense into her saying how she was never was going to be happy..
DK I had expectations from him to do something since he knows that Arjun is madly in love with Purvi, but he didnt do anyhting...
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Thank you for the welcome! I am amazed this forum is so active and so many people, so many posts, I am just catching up right now :) 

@bold - too funny! I agree, poor Faruukh bhai looked like he was running for his life and praying for Arjun's in his head too! 

I agree with your point that Manav should have told Ovi to get out of the marriage simply because Manav, for one, should have known how it is nearly impossible to forget the one you love since he has been through that with Shravani. Also, being wiser, he should have foreseen the dormant volcano that this relationship was going to be with Purvi present around at all times. How could he not put himself in the shoes of himself, Archana and Shravani and see that this triangle was doomed and more so for Ovi who would gain nothing out of it? If he did not want the marriage to annull without giving it a try, he should have sat with both Arjun and Ovi and had a discussion on this along with DK. But they showed such a senseless bit that right after this wedding, Archana- Manav got together and got so wrapped in their milan they forgot the disastrous futures their children were treading on. I don't agree that a couple met after 18 years and hence needed some time to be with each other. When you give birth to a child, you become a parent first and then a wife/husband. Once they got back together, they had their whole life to catch up on with each other, but their children's moment of desperate need was then, which they ignored and then Soham came up. 

I wish the elders realize moving on isn't going to be so simple for any of them with Purvi being around Arjun all the time, Either Arjun-Ovi move to Canada and someone talks to Arjun about working on this marriage from his own heart ( and not Purvi's promise), or someone sends Purvi away to another city to gain control of her life which is in shambles right now trying to please the Deshmukh family. I have a feeling, she is never going to be part of it. The adopted vs biological distinction is ever present in the episodes and her closeness to Archana vs the rest of the kids wil lalso always hamper her closeness to any of the other family members. 

either this solution or I guess Ovi will have to die during child birth for Purvi to reclaim her love in the most respectable way. IF any other way, she is always going to be the "other woman" for everyone in society at the least, 

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Posted: 08 November 2012 at 4:39pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by Jaishankar

Originally posted by arjunaluis

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Manav is such a hypocrite when it comes to Ovi ..
When he was angry at Archana he physically assualted her , would call her in the middle of the night at lonely places to blast her badly , I have seen him screaming at her at the top of his voice in front of the whole family ...
 
When he was angry at teju, he slapped her , slapped Sachin and slapped Arjun many many times when Arjun said that he loved Purvi ...so what happens to manav when Ovi makes kachra of a guests izzat , throws food down on the floor and tells manav's other daughter to leave the house ...
 
Sorry , today I don't think  Manav is really Purvi's daddy or else  he would have shouted at Ovi ' how dare you say this to my other daughter' .Only and only Archana is Purvi's mother ...
 
The rest are only nice to Purvi because they know that if they say anything to her then they will have to deal with Purvi's  mother ...
 
Manav only puts up with Purvi because of Archana  .


The bolded part very well said Tanya...i have given up hoping some scenes of Purvi with her Manav baba. She should just leave the D clan and K clan for good...everyone says that Arjun has had the worse for the stupid deal wedding which i agree completely...but now i feel Purvi also is in a bad place, by giving up Arjun she has lost everything...

1) Arjun-Her love, she could have been so happy with him-both of them would have been.
2) Her job - She could be running the office Dk gave for Arjun with Arjun, now she jobless
3) Her family - She could have at least had the D clan as her family when she lost Arjun, but today it has come plain and simple, she is not welcomed in the D clan. She should never go to the D clan house again. Nobody stood up for her except Archana. Going there would only give her more humilation.
4) A great father - If she married Arjun, at least she would have gotten a great father in Dk. She would have received all the love she has been waiting for Manav to give her.
5) Manju - When she finds out Purvi has lost her job, she is going to torture Purvi with words. She won't be able to live in her own house.

Conclusion :- Purvi don't take Manav's Pune project job also...leave for good, go to kolkata and find a new job away from all these. You have done enough, now the time has come to live for yourself. Archana aai can live without you- it will be hard for both of you but she has 4 other children. Go Purvi, leave and start you own life. How much more can you take? because i had enough watching it.

In bold you must be joking Abhi ,Dk is the first person who accepted Arjun-Ovi marriage and he has already moved on.He has not once talked to Arjun or anyone.
Arman are caught up with Soham case but what about DK.
Manav put his life at risk to save Purvi when she needed him.What has DK done so far for Purvi except just talk.
According to me DK was once a cool dude when Ashna was around ,his coolness went for a toss when Ashna (Mansi) left him after the leap to a new show in star plus where she is rocking LOL
In my eyes DK is just on the side of what ever girl is with Arjun. Before it was Ovi then Purvi now back to Ovi.. 


Hei Jai and Avni...first Jai...if you remember when Purvi was kidnapped DK happily brought the money to release Purvi at this time Arjun was just in love with Purvi...they were not even engaged, but DK was willingly gave the money to Manav...the reason Manav gave the money and went to save Purvi was first and foremost only because he couldn't see Archana in that state...yes he said it was because he promised Purvi but we all know that it was because of Archana...and he also went because he felt guilty because they wanted to kidnap him and not Purvi...but DK gave the money without any connection to Purvi hence i said he would have been a great dad...and i with Avni DK is a one side girl so if Purvi is married to Arjun he would have loved her double then what he loves Ovi, to me he is being sensible by welcoming and taking care of Ovi...he realizes that Arjun made a mistake by marrying Ovi but Ovi should be welcomed because Ovi was being given the cold shoulder by Arjun at that time...You said Manav put his life in risk for Purvi...yes he has and if didn't DK and Arjun would have and Arjun did...they did it because they loved Purvi while Manav did it because of responsibility (my opinion of course)...


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Originally posted by xoxoarvi

Hi Jai... Not saying Manav should not Support Ovi, but today he just didnt do anything. When a parent just lets their childs actions go just like that then you are just telling the child do whatever you want no one is going to stop you. That really made me angry. One should not let the love for one's child blind them from telling them right for wrong. Maybe Cv's do not want to show that as of yet, but in my pov it is long overdue.
Manav cares for Purvi but today I was disappointed in him bigtime, Im not expecting him to stand up for Purvi but I was expecting him to tell her off for acting in such a way with a guest.
All I can say is Im never going to have any expectations from Cv's because then they will always disappoint meBig smile

Hi there!

I have to agree with what you said. I am no fan of any of the characters that writers give us in the beginning and then just make them so unreal, it is hard to bother liking them anymore. But as much as I have loved Manav from the beginning, he has been a tad bit disappointing since the leap, especially when it comes to the treatment of his mother, and then his daughter Ovi. He should have been the support she needed long back when she came to India and found out about Arjun and Purvi. I expected him to be the shoulder, that he was, but then move on to being a more authoratitve figure and a wise father who along with giving her emotional support, also gives her some lessons on growing up, on understanding the difference between love and obsession, who shows her right from wrong. I had high expectations from him post the wedding, where he let me down once again. Archana rightfully went home slapped Purvi and reprimanded her for what she had done. It was highly emotional and made sense for a mother to feel that way. Manav did nothing, besides waking up in the morning, being temporarily upset and just telling Ovi, that what she did was wrong because Arjun-Purvi love each other. Much more was needed from Manav at that point than just lamely telling her and accepting her apology. He should have been livid at her for being so self centred and obsessed that she bartered his marriage with Archana ( with no thought for either of her parents) simply to get hold of a man who does not love her. Manav simply resigned to this chosen fate by his child and did not so much as give her an insight into the consequences of this as well as punish her for the arrogance and desperation that she had acted on. One hug, it was all over. 

Same way, after the wedding, he should have spoken to his damaad too about what has happened and how to go from here. Arjun, has grown up looking up to Manav, which means they share a close relationship, close enough for Manav to have slapped him for loving Purvi. He should have spoken to him as an older, father in law figure and discussed this debacle. Archana was relatively new to Ovi to open up, but she gave her the advice to work on her marriage with patience, but Manav did not rise to that occassion either. Today, when Ovi was inappropriately misbehaving, he simply left standing there like a putla without putting her in her place for once. Archana came forward to protect Purvi, which makes sense, and I do not expect Manav to sound off Ovi for Purvi;s sake. But yes, as a father, he should have been angry at Ovi for misbehaving with a guest and being so childish and immature in her approach. There is a tactful way to handle children and I think Manav has simply failed as a father in Ovi's case at the least. 

I must say though that DK has proved to be quite amusing to me. He simply does not care about "trivial" issues like who his son ends up marrying. At one point, I used to love the relationship that he shared with Arjun, but clearly DK seems more engrossed in his own self or maybe praising Archana and Sulochana all day, that he has no interest in his son's life anymore. He should have really been the supposedly " cool" father, having an open-hearted discussion with his son about his marriage, what he needs to do, what he should do, how he is feeling, how he needs to work about this. He simply stayed put, observed the tamasha and decided to stand back and let things move on. Parents, have been quite the wrong examples for the kids in this show. Sad that DK was reduced to this. I used to like his cool headed character who was such a stark difference from Manav who is not so passive. But have simply become wall flowers in their children's lives it seems.


Hey welcome to the forum!!
Ha since leap Manav has been really disappointing for me, as he was supposed to be the male lead.
I know he wasnt going to yell about what she said to Purvi, but acting is such a way with a guest shuld not be tolerated. I bet farukh bhai walked out thinking oh god who has Arjun got himseld into, God protect him..
After the marriage Manav was so passive... If I was the parent I would have told her to get a divorce as soon as she could... or knock some sense into her saying how she was never was going to be happy..
DK I had expectations from him to do something since he knows that Arjun is madly in love with Purvi, but he didnt do anyhting...
Manav is a changed man after leap.The moment Sushant quit ,they decided to change the characterization of Manav.Manav had become more out-spoken.There was time before leap when Archu was the dominating partner and Manav would give in to pacify her but after the leap Manav has yelled the living day lights of Archu due to the senseless MU and now a days its more of fear in Archu over Manav's anger than anything else.CV's wanted to change the characterization as well with the actor getting changed.
Manav had become a universal character for many around who adored him.He was the best son,best husband anyone could have till leap happened.
I feel for the actors of the show who are giving their best with such senseless story tracks.

DK is a changed man too (except the actor did not change) after leap.He has not been doing much after leap except accept things as it comes and play the spectator role and just sit and watch the tamasha.
You are right Jai.. Sometimes I miss Sush so much just because when he Manav, Manav was such a sweetheart then. Ever girl wanted a man like Manav in their life who loved his wife so much. Now they make it seem as though Manav is a man who gets so angry very easily.. 

Yup missing the man so badly..Wink,..But I am happy he made a informed choice to leave the show when it was in its peak to move to more greener pastures (BW).Smile What a start in BW for him with Abhishek Kapoor Rock on Fame director,Chetan Bhagwat's novel remake
(3 mistakes of my life) as the story,UTV ,the giant as the big Production Unit.
I am so proud of Sushant for what he has achieved and what he is going to achieve. Big smile

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