Originally posted by -Chandramukhi-
Originally posted by guess_wh0
First I think its pretty well established that she has mental issues. I don't really pay attention to your posts(sorry) but I know Chandramukhi and Dex have admitted to that much.
Maybe our definition of redeeming qualities is different. I don't consider loving animals a quality. We all do, except some heartless douche's. What has she done for these animals, is what I'm interested in. Tweeting doesn't count.
Can a pyschopath have great qualities. Sure! But I don't see any in Sapna, not yet. All that innocence and genuinity that you guys see, I don't. I was fooled once, when she stood up against Salman. Not gonna get fooled again.
Since you have used my name to back up your argument, you shall not be spared without few words from my end
Yes I did mention that she portrays herself having some emotional disturbances. I read a post where someone mentioned Siddhu ji talking to her or someone of how Sapna has come outta depression (someone can confirm). People who are prone to depression, they easily get affected by negative environment and emotions. I mean she breaks down very easily and she gets sad or disappointed if
her support system seems to be getting lost. Thus after Aseem's
elimination she was emotionally exhausted. But she found warmth and
comfort in Siddhu ji. I am not an expert to diagnose her condition, simply my observations and I or Dexy or anyone could be all wrong about her.
We might even be exaggerating her emotional condition just the way we exaggerate many negative side of these housemates when they don't fit within our perception or expectation. I mean think about it, living in the house surrounded by strangers who do not hesitate to judge you from the way you look or talk, anyone is bound to be feel insecure and vulnerable. And on top of that if you are an emotional being, one would feel more stressed. Once someone reaches the threshold of negativity, it might come out as the outburst as we have seen with her. Also, we do not know how Sapna is treated 24/7 by these housemates, friendliness is something which one can be detected through one's body language and same applies to animosity. So I wouldn't be surprised if she feels left out amongst the so called TV gang. Also I am not saying that others are at fault, it could be even her.
Anyways, so the gist is that the term Psychopath which you use seems exaggerated to me with the underline negative connotation. I mean she hasn't shown any violent streak from her end so far. She seems to have anger issues originating from her suppressed feelings and uses foul language time to time. You can't tell me that you don't use such language or shout or get angry when someone pisses you off. After all she is one of us and she will act like us. I haven't met anyone who do not display such outbursts. And by all means, I am in no way defending her actions or language. She definitely needs to tone down her negative attitude and aggression. I am simply pointing out that the term "Psychopath" doesn't seem to be the correct usage especially when it is used so casually.
Also, you seem to be confusing our defense for her as our desperate effort to make her seem like the best person with golden heart who has to be put on a pedestal. Not at all, most of us here are evaluating her as a normal individual with her set of flaws and good qualities. And one of your posts also included Salman as your argument. So let me tell you that even with him many of us have only good words when it comes to his being human foundation or the charity he does. Having flaws and not so great personality doesn't take away anyone's good deeds or qualities.
Simply my take on your post/s. End of the day, it is up to you how you
want to evaluate her with any sorta words from your dictionary.