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Who do you think insulted Sugni the most?
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I do not agree that Vikram took advantage of S's bedini status. Also, I don't agree he made S to fall for him. Because from the day she met Vikram, she was shown having attracted to him and impressed by his don't care whosoever ways of handling situations.
I admit he is not saint but a simple human being and a possessive lover. When he fell in love, he didn't know Reva is alive. When he came to know, it was all over for him between him and Reva. He didn't share it with Suguni and I admit this also as his gravest mistake. He didn't trust his love as he very well know S only goes by principles not by analysing the consequences. He didn't wanted to lose her and by then it was too late for them to get parted as the whole society is against their marriage and Suguni's life would become more miserable if they were not wedded and S goes out of Vikram's protection. Which made him commit the mistake of going for wedding with her by hook or crook.
G didn't understand his this logic and she misunderstood that V is only lusting over S.
Same with Adi, until Adi saw the property documents in Sugni's name and the pain Vikram was going thru after breaking the wedding with Sugni, he didn't realize that his mama truely loved S.
Up until Sardhakai, I was with Sugni, I didn't like TVS taking S for granted till this point in the story. I like him for the way he loved/supported S but taking her to wedding without letting her know the actual fact was not digested enough by me.
Getting her Sardhakai as an impulsive decision to get back at TVS and wanting some random Thakur to do it was pathetic. Accepting Sardhakai from Adi and forcing herself on him knowing he is Amrutha's fiancee was not right but, I still credited her as it was her one more impulsive decision under circumstances.
After Sardhakai, she had chances to go away from TVS home but she didn't. Accepted that she is indebted to Adi but can't she pay back to him by staying out of Adi-Amu relationship? No, she didn't do it.
People may say Vikram did not let her go. Yes, he will not let her go as he very well wanted to make Sugni understand his POV and make her forgive him. She didn't go because she was already bonded to Vikram's love and was unable to break out of that bond. But, wanted to put the blame on someone and she had Vikram available to blame (as he was already trialled as the culprit and can be readily blamed for everything). She was on her zid to fulfill her dream and to stick to her principle and because of this zid she played with Adi-Amu future. Never even realizing she is playing the other woman in their relationship.
I don't buy the argument that Adi-Ammu were not married. They were already engaged and it was a love relationship. Whether the wedding happened or not, Adi was committed to Amu. She don't have any right to ask Adi to marry her. This irked Vikram and made him to more aggressively pursuit her.
Of all the 4 Sugvi & Adi-Amu, Vi and Amu are more matured people who understand the true meaning of love. You can't force love on someone. It happens and it happened between Sugvi. But S is in constant denial mode until Vikram left her to move on with her life as she wanted. When the vaccum is created then she realized she can't live without him so can't marry Adi (she didn't stick to Adi here again). She confused Adi, MT and TVS again with her actions contradicting her statements. This whole thing led TVS to confront S and call her names I felt this is an impulsive act on TVS part (but it happened after he went near death situation) so, had to give him the credit of being frustrated with S's ways of misleading Adi. S could have proved him wrong by telling the truth to MT in private. But, no it didn't happen and she again ended up with another impulsive decision to get married to Adi by means of emotional blackmail. I couldn't digest this impulsive decision as it was the first time her TM made a serious allegation on her inspite of the bond they share (both S and V know how much they love eachother). Under such circumstance one would first try to clear the allegation rather not prove it to be true.
I can go on and on but the post already went long so rest my case here.
Sorry if I hurt anybody's feelings. Only presenting my POV.
Edited to refine some points. My laptop keyboard is a bit cranky one.
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