We are all product of our heredity and environment.
As we go through life and go through situations both positive and negative do we not all change to varying degrees with each experience?
for example if someone breaks our heart - do we not protect ourself from being hurt like that again by not giving our heart soo freely or become more cautious about trusting our emotions?
If TVS becomes harder, less tolerant of people, does not trust anyone, less forgiving is that turning grey or is that normal human reaction to being forced to watch woman you love marry your own nephew and on a daily basis have a relationship with him ?
Adi and Sugni are also likely to develop grey shades -
Adi is going to have to deal with the whole family hating him for bringing a Bedni into the family and protect Sugni from the family. Also he will now have no one to talks to and ask advice from. That will in itself bring about changes in his personality. he is going to become harder possibly angrier (he is hardly going to go around grinning from ear to ear).
Sugni has only seen love and respect from this family (until now she has only exerienced ill feeling from Jiji but even that was restrained because TVS acted as shield and proetcted/defended her). Now she is going to get full force of their hate X 5 (jiji, MA, Suman, Reva, Kuhu and TVS). That will enevitably bring about changes in her personality so that she is more closed, not showing her emotions (again she is hardly going to be happily enjoying being newly married).
To my mind, that is not turning grey but evolving as individuals as we go through life.
What do you guys think?
Edited by payal7 - 07 November 2012 at 6:10am