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Sapne Suhane Ladakpan ke, is one of the most regressive serial i have ever seen. i watch this serial to so that i can give examples to my students of how stupid to look and behave when they have crushes on their teachers,
a morden gril like Gunjan wants to marry into the most regressive family. that thinks the only use of women is in the kitchen. how can she even want to marry into a family where their false respect and dignity and family name is more important then their childrens happiness and future. And i say children because Mayank, Gunjan and Rachna are only kids, age between 17 and 22.
what is wrong with the Garh family. the kids have not even finished schooling the elders want them married. mayank mother wants him to marry a rich girl so that she can have expensive things that she can lord over. no matter the girl is a lazy, spoilt, selfish brat, who thinks touching up her makeup is the most important job in the world.
the father talks about sanskar and values. do the children even understand them. Rachana whose rishta has been finalized has fall in love with her coach. she knows her family is strict and holds the family name above all else.
Shail masi who i thought to be wise and open minded is really selfish, she should have discouraged Gunjan and Mayanks relationship, making them understand about the pro and cons of life. how does she expect Gunjan to cover her head with a pullu, and stand by like a meek little mouse while the family makes all the decisions of her life. Bowing her head and agreeing to whatever the elders tell her right or wrong. is Gunjan willing to give up her freedom. all shail wants in Gunjan with her so that she can feel close to her dead sister. she is not at all thinking of Gunjans future.
and the two women seema and the other one. i thought the women from small towns were down to earth and hospitable to others. but they are the most pretentious, petty, and shallow women ever. who only want to put others down. and feed their greed. shame on them i hope real women are not like them.
i dont know what kind of message this serial i trying to give. but i definitely tell my students that this is what you should not do.
dont marry at the age of 18 because you think your in love. there is nothing known as undying love. and true love only come with wisdom and understanding of relationship along with the hardships and responsibility they come with.
dont crush on you teachers, or if you do dont tell them "i love your sir/ ma'am" they are in collage to teach you not cradle snatch. first grow up baby's
learn to take decisions for your selves if you want to study and have a carrier, make your parents understand that you want to make something of your life, and your self. do not get pressurized into getting married because you parents do not want to take the responsibility of an child who is on the brink of adulthood. and once you make that decision stick to it. this will make your parents trust and believe in you to not make stupid mistakes in life.
think a 100 times what is at stake before taking any wrong step. your entire future and happiness depends on it.
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