Originally posted by themockingjayThank God! Even I am 100% pure, biased and loyal Damon fan. And I agree about her 18 year old hormones gone wrong with being Vampire!
When did she USE Damon in this episode? She agreed to go out to the party with him and try out his methods.
Before I actually start with my reply, let me tell you one thing and make it super clear: I am a 101% Damon stan, and I love him to death (and beyond).
Yet, I completely understand Elena right now. Do you think, right now, that if you were a vampire you would be able to enjoy it and revel in it? Would you? You might not be killing that person, but you would be in a way hurting them, right?
The guilt is killing her. Yes, she had so much of fun, yes she laughed away to glory, but the undeniable fact is that Elena is a compassionate person and she FEELS all that. She gets reminded of it each and everytime. And it doesn't help the fact that her best friends and awesome boyfriend judge her every move!
Give her a breather. She wasn't trying to HURT Damon today. She even apologized. She also admitted that she knows deep down inside that he is right. But that scares her. Just like being around Damon does "When I'm with him, it just consumes me".
You are missing out the little stuff like how Elena laughed at his snarky jokes, how they behaved in the classroom. When that professor called them out for talking, she just looked at him and smiled. His hand was around her, but she had no issue with that. When he made the 'rippered' joke she laughed. She agreed to try out his methods. She was having fun, you saw her face when she ran into his arms. I for one haven't seen Elena this happy in TVD.
I hate the way DE/SE fans put her down. She is not just a way for either of the brothers to get happiness. Delena is about Damon AND Elena, just like Stelena is about Stefan AND Elena. It's not all about pleasing the Salvatores. DE/SE won't be around without Elena. Her happiness, her life, it all matters too!
Right now she's an 18 year old who has gone through SO much crap, has ended up in a place she didn't want to end up in, feels things she doesn't want to feel (Damon). After everything that has happened to her, it'd be nice if all of you could cut her some slack. How can you ever have been true DE shippers if you jump and ship Damon with Elena the minute something goes wrong? You wouldn't do the same if it had been Damon who hurt Elena.
But I at least know one thing. I had two guyz. Feelings for both. I rejected one guy and chose to be with my original BF then I would never go back to the rejected guy, not only for my sake but for his own sake. He needs to move on. I need to move on. I am not just hurting the rejected guy but I am also hurting my so called OWN BF. And If I really can't do that then I least have to be HONEST. I can't be with my BF and take help from other. And feel guilty all the time. Either I have to be with Stefan or Damon. I can't enjoy BOTH men and become ultimate Bitch.
"Yeda Banke Peda Khane Ka Hai" This is what she is doing right now.
I am seriously sorry but she is not the only one who has gone through crap. Look at Caroline. Her life is not bed of roses, either.
And I was and I think I am...but not so sure about 'I will' be DE shipper. Coz I can't see Delena coming at all. For 3 f**king seasons, all they had given has crap in the name of Triangle. I don't know if its triangle or not, coz our Elena madam loves Stefan and cares about Damon. I can't understand Elena at all. What does she want? Stefan in bed and Damon teaching sucking blood?
At this stage, I am not at all liking Elena. Be it she's newbie Vamp or not? When she was human, she was same, wake up every morning. Hurt Damon. Say sorry to Damon. Go back to sleep. REPEAT the process next day!
No matter how much I try to sympathize with Elena. I can't like her at all. And may be coz I am so much in to Damon that I am biased for Damon. I am first Damon fan and then Delena. Hell, for me, even Dalaric comes before Delena.
And Damon has always hurt Elena. Hell, he has always hurt everyone. Its in his nature. And he never claimed to be Saint. He always said he was the bad guy. He is the bad guy and he accepts it. And he never tell anyone to expect good from him. He is THAT honest. After knowing his bad side, Elena felt for him, knowing everything about him so if Damon would have hurt Elena, I would not even get affected coz that who he is. And that is the reason I LOVE him.
All I want is that Elena to STOP being with Damon if she can't love him back or even understand him. For god sake, in 3X22, she REJECTED him. She left him ALONE to die and gone back to her friends. Then why is she trying to be OTT nice now? You did not wanted him. You wanted to LET HIM GO then now, let him go. Why even talking to him? If she was that much sure that she loves Stefan and he is the perfect for him then why did she called Damon when she puked blood? Why not Stefan? Reason. Coz Damon would understand me. So, what the hell do you want? Writers are making everyone goody goody while Damon is left with no dignity. He has to have some self respect and dignity. If Elena rejects him then ENOUGH is ENOUGH. He has to stand for himself. He is better than Stefan in so many ways, just coz he does not show it that does not mean, he should portrayed as luck sick no sorry...Elena sick puppy. Damon deserves better. So much better.
And Elena dealing with being Vampire and Caroline dealing with being Vampire. Both did not wanted this. Caroline did not even knew about anything. And still...Caroline did so good. So better. And Elena has so called BF Stefan, and then also she is acting like "Bechari"