Why do men think about SEX all the time? (Page 5)

Then again, like female sexuality, male sexuality is something which is often discussed by bruiting about stereotypes. Women DO think about sex, some women probably think about sex with every fit male they clap their eyes on, some fantasise about sex with acquaintances or friends or potential boyfriends, some only think about having sex in committed relationships and some after marriage. There's no one pigeonhole into which billions of people can be shoved into simply owing to their gender.  If anything, such stereotypes make it harder for those who don't fit the description to navigate through the minefield of relationships. 

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I have never been in a relationship, so I cannot say for a fact. But I would answer them as to what i think it might be. Yes, he would want or have desire to fantasize. I have never been in love so I can't say whether it can override the desire, but I doubt it because as I said before, desires can sometimes be separate from emotions. So, he will have the desire to do so, and yeah that is evolution. Now, many would not fantasize, they would try to get over the desire. But many can fail. And ye,s it can cause some great guilt. There have been many times when I have thought about girls "that way" that I did not want too and it made me feel bad as if I am an animal. So, I could stop myself from fantasizing later, but sometimes when they are in front of you, your mind can wander.

About the morality, I would let you or others decide what they are okay with themselves. I would just say that desire will still be there. Some can override, some will give in. But my personal take is that please don't punish for thoughts, because I understand how they can dominate you. If the person controls himself and does not acts on those thoughts, I think he should be forgiven. It is not easy for him too. 

See, as I said in my previous post, I don't know what the situation in love would be. I would be okay with fantasizing, as long as she doesn't indulge in it, unless it involves me. 

I have seen this comparison many times and I think this is the one that is the closest description. You can see many variety of food but can only eat one thing for your whole life.  It is not meant to demean women. I just say that just so you can understand the basic feeling behind it. Now when you can't eat, can you remember what it tasted like or is that wrong? Men will want to have sex with many women if possible. For example, if suddenly everyone was okay with multiple sexual partners, men would do it. But we can control the desire if the person we care about doesn't like it. But thoughts come some times. i personally think, I will avoid fantasizing when in a relationship as I will personally feel it is wrong and I am disrespecting her but I can't say that for sure unless I have been in a relationship.

So, you are saying you are beautiful?  

I used that term because attraction is a personal taste, and everybody likes different things. But if you are very pretty, i.e. if everyone considers you attractive, yes nearly every man that you met would have thought of having sex with you. It does not have to be so scary, as it can be separate from emotions, you see. I mean he can sometimes fantasize about you but that does not mean he is always thinking about it when he is with you. It's like it is a different part separate from emotions. Arrgh, it is difficult to explain. But yeah, no need to be scared so much. 

I have no problems with fantasies. But you should not indulge them if the other party is not willing, as it is illegal. And if you are voluntarily in a committed relationship, you should not act on it even if the person in your fantasies is willing.

That's no exclusivity to men, building relationships or false premises that is. Women can develop relationship for money. Just like not all girls are money wh**es, not all boys are out there for sex. We are capable of love also, and any decent man will go into relationship for love not sex. But yeah, I won't act as if it is all good. There are many men out there who will act the way you would like to have sex. It's a bad world and there are bad people. I am telling you I would not do such thing, but a bad person would do the same and you can never be 100% sure. So, the only practical advice I can give you is this. If the man can't control his desires, he is not worth having. If you are not comfortable in sex before marriage, a decent partner will not force you. You need to get away if he forces. And the tricks of blackmailing, the talk about proving love by having sex is just bullshit. Please, never fall for that. If a guy loves you, he can prove that by respecting your judgement. At least, I can not do forcing. Unless she is ready, I can wait.