Posted: 26 February 2013 at 12:30pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Purva-
Originally posted by reeha...k
Are you freaking kidding me - about females being less vocal - and you on IF since when? What is all the mania about - Sobti/Rajputs/Rahejas/D'Sena/GCs and what not all about except that numerous girls/women see a reflection of ideal mate in these toyboys? For that matter why is Ashish Kapor in your DP if you are not besotted with the guy?
It's not just men. People in general THINK about sex all the time; It's dependent on the individual on how vocal they are about it. Perhaps females are less vocal?
Yes members of both genders think about sex - in as much as both feel equally hungry/thirsty/tired/sleepy - it is a normal part of the day and biological cycle. Thinking about sex is really not the problem. My issue is that one gender uses idea to explain away every failing and simple bad upbringing.
Yep - if nobody taught a child to wash the hands after wiping the ass - it reflects bad upbringing, so does the behavior around opposite gender. Inability to control it is a reflection that no one taught the person how to conduct himself in society.
Woaaah there, calm down. Let's address you're outrage one point at a time, shall we?
i. I've been on IF since 2006 if I'm not mistaken, but mind you I'm not here 24/7; and I've aged from a 14 year old to a 20 year old.
ii. the "perhaps" is there for a reason. Keep in mind, I have no idea who the individuals (Sobti/Rajputs/Rahejas/D'Sena/GCs ) you're speaking about are.
iii. My Display picture is of the Vancouver Canucks; the Avatar, I can't recall, It's most likely Ashish as Udayveer, or him with Manyata. The Signature is for my Fanfiction which focuses on the Love Story of Manyata and Udayveer: I wouldn't call it anything near "SEX"; there is a very big categorical difference between "sex" and "romance" That is another debate/discussion for another time.
iv. "Besotted" Since you know ohhh so much about me, I guess you'd know what I'm besotted with: It isn't simply the Actor, or his appearance, its the on screen pairing of the two: Manyata and Udayveer- their story, chemistry, and reluctance with love is what brought on my fandome. Don't have any love towards his new character in another LMYAM. I wouldn't call that as black and white as being obsessed with his appearance. But since you know me so well, we'll go with your theory.
v. If you refer to my comment you'd see that I do answer the question the TM presented, "Why do men think about SEX all the time"; saying it's not just men; both genders THINK about it all the time; I do also point out it depends more so on the individual's personality as to how vocal they are about it. That being said, vocalization- which can be with a stranger, or just in general with a group of friends is a different thing which brings up various components, and God forbid one makes a guess that perhaps one gender might be a little less vocal.
Does that sooth your wounded sentiments?