Anandi was never given a choice to decide her life ever……….In childhood she had to marry, due to her parents and now due to her mom's death wish……..somewhere in between this journey from childhood till today, she has always tried to get adjusted as per the wishes of everyone, forgetting her own needs and dreams…….She always tried to keep everyone happy, forgetting her own happiness………Until the point that she almost forgot to see herself happy and always found happiness in others happiness……..Yeah, it is no doubt a good quality, but still it is always said that a person who is happy from inside can give more to others……….So, if we see to this point, then one lesson Anandi needs to learn is to be happy for herself, to do something to make this happen and she needs to think how she can make this possible………
It is time for her now, where she should stand up and talk for herself for once……….Take her own decisions and think about herself for once and see where she wants herself to be after a few years in future……..Alone, doing social work, with Singhs or with Shiv………..
It is not necessary for a girl or a boy to marry someone in order to find happiness……….Happiness can be found in one's heart……….No one can make you cry, unless you yourself want to do so………No one can make you smile, unless you yourself want to do so………And this is the key to happiness………We should not let our past affect our future……….If we want to find happiness for our self, no one will be able to stop us……….That is the reason I love this song from movie Prahar………It touches your heart and gives you a new found courage, which Anandi and many girls who in real life suffer like her, need it very badly………
Humaaree hee muthhthhee mein aakaash saaraa, jab bhee khulegee
chamakegaa taaraa
kabhee naa dhale jo, wo hee sitaaraa, dishaa jis se pahachaane sansaar saaraa
hathelee pe rekhaayen hain sab adhooree, kis ne likhee hain naheen jaananaa
hain
sulazaane un ko n aayegaa koee, samazanaa hain unako ye apanaa karam hain
apane karam se dikhaanaa hain sab ko, khud kaa panapanaa, ubharanaa hain khud
ko
andheraa mitaye jo nanhaa sharaaraa, dishaa jis se ...
humaare peechhe koee aaye naa aaye, humei hee to pahale pahuchanaa wahaa hain
jin par hain chalanaa naee peedheeyon ko, un hee raaston ko banaanaa humei hain
jo bhee saath aaye unhe saath le le, agar naa koee saath de to akele
sulagaa ke khud ko mitaa le andheraa, dishaa jis se ...
I really hope that CVs instead of this negative track of Jagya, show some positive track, and show the people like Anandi, the path to their own happiness……..Give them courage to go forward and do something for themselves, show them that they don't need anyone to reach where they want to be, because they can find the courage they are lacking within themselves………
Anandi is genuinely trying to move forward, but her past is not letting her and she alone is giving this power to her past to shadow her future……..! Yeah, she is helping out, being respectful to the elders, but at the cost of her own happiness……….But she needs to see that her happiness alone can bring happiness to many others including her parents, Shiv as well as her ex- father and mother in law……….She needs to know that she has to draw a line to the extent for her sacrifice, when she knows that many could be unhappy due to her goodness……….And if she is so ready to do this goodness, she needs to let others know that she is happy doing that, so others won't feel the burden of it………She needs to keep a balance between, what is good for her, what is good thing to do and what is ethically right……..
Anandi need not marry, if she really doesn't want to……….But she could be a guide to people who have gone through the pain she has gone through………But she can do so, only if she finds her own happiness amongst it all………This will give girls courage to really stand up on their own accord, and try to fulfill their dreams and be happy for themselves…………That will in return spread smiles through millions of people around and bring a positive change in everyone's life……….!
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