This discussion has really got me thinking...Very interesting views by all...
First - Jackie - yes you may feel that they lack common sense but maybe they are too caring about their family for their behaviour which surprises or even shocks many.
Pintu loves his family and respects his mother, brother and TTS that he though very capable of going all out against them chooses to listen. If you may remember, there was one episode where TTS had asked Pintu to leave to TTS mansion and Pintu had agreed to it too...but it has not happened...words uttered in a gush of anger has no meaning and both knew that...
Krishna as Moni rightly said is a well balanced person and will think before she talks or acts...So one has to wait and see where these two want to take their relationship from here...
Second Moni - I do agree that Pintu is a family man and breathes for them as you said...but wait a minute - we seem to be forgetting that after marriage Krishna too is a part of his family and the MOST IMPORTANT one! He should breathe for her too which he is doing exceptionally well though not living with her - thanks to the circumstances - but considering all the factors - it is my opinion - that a new relationship requires more investment of time than a 20 -24 year old one...After all, these formative years of togetherness will be the key for their bond to blossom and endure through life!
As long as Saraswati was against this it was fine that each stayed away - but after Saraswati's realisation I don't see any reason for them to continue to live separately only because TTS wants her to be a bahu only and not a BDO...Pinky is a BDO too...so they can always argue that out and bring back Krishna into the family OR move out of all this mess as Babloo too wants it that way in the last episode...
Rachna - I agree with you - that they have raised their voice whenever possible and one needs to wait and see how they are able to gather the proof - so that TTS and Babloo can see reality as it is and not through tinted glasses!
Sandia - you are right in that he gets caught up between his emotions and his dabang attitude when it comes to his family...he is torn and hence unable to get aggressive with them - though I will will still give him full marks of raising his voice even against his Dad when something is spoken against Krishna.
My views...Pintu and Krishna are married by choice and no matter what - I don't think a couple staying away from each other for their respective families is any good for any one in the long run - not to talk of their marriage itself to sustain.
Second - After marriage, the spouse is in the first circle of relationships - the in laws in the second and I don't understand why each one wants to please their parent's wishes after the matrimony - more so when the parents are not wishing for them - what true parents would indeed wish for their kids.!!!
Third - TTS was always known to praise people who listened to him like a puppet - first VP, then Pintu when he forced him to marry Pinky(the first time by blackmailing him...), then Bihari ( whom he slapped too...and now he same person wants to be his samandi...) and I can go on...So trying to please a family with such a head is only disastrous for his own future...So the choice is entirely his...
Lastly - I think one needs to be happy with oneself first before one can share it with others - in the current track none of the characters are happy in what they are doing so each one trying to make the other happy is an impossible feat!
Sorry for this long post - but this post and the comments really got me thinking...😊
Edited by kmfan_2 - 11 years ago
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