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Forgiving will kill me- rajlaxmi

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 12:31pm | IP Logged

People find it far easier to forgive others for being wrong than being right." ? J.K. Rowling

 This is what Rajlaxmi is! Had anoop been really responsible for her husband's death, she might have thought of  forgiving him. But here the irony is Rajlaxmi very well knows that anoop is innocent, wont a 55 years old lady have that much sense that anoop was and will be always innocent.Then what is it that hold Rajlaxmi from accepting this fact and forgiving Anoop.It is her ego.Her choice to blame anoop and not accept her destiny.

"All works are being done by the energy and power of nature, but due to delusion of ego people assume themselves to be the doer."-Bhagvad gita

Rajlaxmi is just not ready to give up her stance for past 15 years. A false said 100 times seem to look like a true, but to seem is far baseless than being the true.

What happens if rajlaxmi gets over her fixation that anoop is responsible for her miserable and lonely life?Well then her mind will be free of her ego and she will see some crucial facts which she has ignored all these years.

Fact 1: How could a mother be so harsh and unjust to her kid?

Fact 2: When she lost her husband, she had a choice to make -progress or regress.To take control of her life  and move ahead with her sons, or to sulk in her husbands death and not go ahead in life. Did she make the right choice?

Fact 3: Was she wrong all along? 

The answer to these question/facts would cause Rajlaxmi much more excruciating pain than the pain that she is nursing and is used to for past 15 years by putting the blame on Anoop. It hurts her too, to see her child in pain but then she is used to it. She fears the truth, the change.But inst that how all of us are, we all fear change, but then we have to accept the change or else u just keep regressing.Its high time Raj aunty 

All I can say to Rajlaxmi is a beautiful quote by Mother Teresa:

"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. 
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. 
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.


Anoop and sahil were mind blowing todaySmile





Edited by chitra_rao - 10 October 2012 at 1:37pm

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 12:52pm | IP Logged
Rajlaxmi wants to erect a wall and keep it there purposely without seeing the realities of the world. She was meant to live her life alone but that is not what wants to understands. She wants to live in her fantasy that her husband's death was due to her son, it wasn't her fate or misfortune, isn't of understanding that it was something that just had to happen, she is acting regressive like herself.

Like how people used to believe widowers (the women) were the misfortune of their husband (kha gayen and all)... Rajlaxmi wants to believe Anoop did the same to her husband. She keeps on showing her regressive mentality in all walks of life.

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 12:54pm | IP Logged
Great Post Chitra
 
Rajlaxmi is wrong egostic lady i hate her poor Anoop had to go through so much coz of her dumb ego, she can forgive she just wont let it go... hope fully Sahil will help bringing Rajlaxmi and Anoop closer... if she still doesnt listen then we are here... Sasuma ki shaadi it high time she gets married then Sasurji Sajaan Singh will set her straight and tc good care of herROFL Anoop and Mansi can be happy and so can Sahil and Shivi, me and Arhaina can be happy finally Sasuma ka the end hojaygha

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 1:02pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahi0809

Rajlaxmi wants to erect a wall and keep it there purposely without seeing the realities of the world. She was meant to live her life alone but that is not what wants to understands. She wants to live in her fantasy that her husband's death was due to her son, it wasn't her fate or misfortune, isn't of understanding that it was something that just had to happen, she is acting regressive like herself.

Like how people used to believe widowers (the women) were the misfortune of their husband (kha gayen and all)... Rajlaxmi wants to believe Anoop did the same to her husband. She keeps on showing her regressive mentality in all walks of life.

so true, she is just scared of forgiving Anoop, coz if she does forgive anoop then teh next question that her own mind will raise is was she unjust and wrong all along? She chooses to blame and keep doing wrong rather than doing what is right and bring more pain to herselfAngry

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 1:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Anam Ali

Great Post Chitra
 
Rajlaxmi is wrong egostic lady i hate her poor Anoop had to go through so much coz of her dumb ego, she can forgive she just wont let it go... hope fully Sahil will help bringing Rajlaxmi and Anoop closer... if she still doesnt listen then we are here... Sasuma ki shaadi it high time she gets married then Sasurji Sajaan Singh will set her straight and tc good care of herROFL Anoop and Mansi can be happy and so can Sahil and Shivi, me and Arhaina can be happy finally Sasuma ka the end hojaygha

ROFLROFL hailaa anam tune tho Raj aunty ki dusri shaadi ki planning kar di ROFL,nice I like this ideaThumbs Up, I'm with u LOL. And then we will rename this serial "Kunki sass bhi kabhi bahu thi"

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 1:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by chitra_rao

Originally posted by Anam Ali

Great Post Chitra
 
Rajlaxmi is wrong egostic lady i hate her poor Anoop had to go through so much coz of her dumb ego, she can forgive she just wont let it go... hope fully Sahil will help bringing Rajlaxmi and Anoop closer... if she still doesnt listen then we are here... Sasuma ki shaadi it high time she gets married then Sasurji Sajaan Singh will set her straight and tc good care of herROFL Anoop and Mansi can be happy and so can Sahil and Shivi, me and Arhaina can be happy finally Sasuma ka the end hojaygha

ROFLROFL hailaa anam tune tho Raj aunty ki dusri shaadi ki planning kar di ROFL,nice I like this ideaThumbs Up, I'm with u LOL. And then we will rename this serial "Kunki sass bhi kabhi bahu thi"
 
Lol yes Chitra at least she will leave all of us alone its so much torture... she can be happy and so can all of us... LOLROFL

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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 1:13pm | IP Logged
Hailla we have a satsangi baba chitra on the forum

pls deepak chopda ke baad bas aap hi ho Maiya Chitra

Kya likha hai ye shana garden garden ho gayi

Mere garden se chooney hue best floweres ka bookey sirf aapke liye

Kripya sweekar Kare Maiya Chitra






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Posted: 08 October 2012 at 1:13pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by Anam Ali

Great Post Chitra
 
Rajlaxmi is wrong egostic lady i hate her poor Anoop had to go through so much coz of her dumb ego, she can forgive she just wont let it go... hope fully Sahil will help bringing Rajlaxmi and Anoop closer... if she still doesnt listen then we are here... Sasuma ki shaadi it high time she gets married then Sasurji Sajaan Singh will set her straight and tc good care of herROFL Anoop and Mansi can be happy and so can Sahil and Shivi, me and Arhaina can be happy finally Sasuma ka the end hojaygha

ROFLROFL hailaa anam tune tho Raj aunty ki dusri shaadi ki planning kar di ROFL,nice I like this ideaThumbs Up, I'm with u LOL. And then we will rename this serial "Kunki sass bhi kabhi bahu thi"
 
Lol yes Chitra at least she will leave all of us alone its so much torture... she can be happy and so can all of us... LOLROFL

nope not all can be free from her torture, uska pati sajan singh and uski hone wali sasuma tho gaye naROFLROFL, I mean the kadus rajlaxmi weds the Daaku sajan singh ROFL, how the heck did u come up with this jodi anamLOL

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