Its hard to tell when u fall in love. Seriously, I'm married to a man who's 42 and I am 24. When I met him he was only a good friend and I always used to call him "Sir" due to respect. But later on, when I got close to him...like got to know his personal life...his career, ups, downs everything...I thought I became really close to him...I was comfortable sharing my personal life to him...so it was like he became my best friend...my mentor (guided me all the way in my career) ...then later when he divorced his wife...he was disturbed because he has 2 daughters (14 & 9) I stood by him during that time...Now let me tell u...when I was with him I started feeling for him...but I was too scared to share it with him because of this huge age difference and religion (he's hindu & I'm Muslim). I was close to his daughters..and they called me aunty...I took care of his family when his wife left him...I not only stood by his family but also his career. I encouraged him to work hard for his daughter. Then during that time...he proposed to me and I could not say no.
Ofcourse family objected..but my love and his support was too strong...I got married to him without families' consent...I'm pregnant now
...My mom, sister, sis-in-law are in touch with me...and I know sooner later my dad n brothers will accept it too.
So in short, there are no winds blowing, like in movies...it's just u have to have that 'strong' feeling for someone..and have determination that u could live ur life with him/her.
Edited by skywatcher01 - 27 September 2012 at 12:42pm