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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 9:02am | IP Logged
She is just careless and annoying now. They always showed her to be a responsible person who took care of the whole house and business. All I see is a careless person who can't take of a house nor business. She has shown no such thing after her marriage.

Ok one thing that made me mad was when mansi shared her problem, she forced her to put that picture up n let mansi get all the scolding. And when mansi tried to give suggestions about the Jaipur trip, she told mansi to stay out her problem. We thought mansi won't be able to support Shivani after marriage but its the total opposite. Instead she helped her n supported her in everything. Shivani is just selfish who only cares for herself n when things don't go her way, she complains to saahil. I agree with mummiji that she picked the right bahu as in mansi n now I understand why she should be against shivani.

They need to change her character before she becomes more disliked.

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 10:32am | IP Logged
Mansi supported Shivani  Where ?????????????????

She is just showing her concern which she is very good at but is all chuuoo mantar when shivi needs her.

i feel sorry for her or say i think she got good lesson for depending on others ...she depended on Sahil for telling truth who never said it...she depended on mansi for handling situation who never did it even worsened it by being careless with her phone ...so the lesson is do your own things and never depend on others.

Shivani  has power enough to stand and get things done rather then Mansi who is all am sorry am sorry to get sympathy of others

Was she their when she was being scolded plus even saasu maa is on her side thinking shivani i using his fav. bahu.

Dont feel sorry for girl who is earning for her family day and night and when returns home her saasu maa says keep ur bloody family aside...and that they are bojh on their daughter ...can parents be ever bojh to her daughter no never???

Shivani has never lived in home and has always been an independent   bread earner  for her family ...she was never home to learn mini mensics of gharelu baate...

while Mansi's only goal in life has been to get married by her parents will and servethe in laws which she is ding very well.

So pls see the full perspectives of the characters then comment rather then going mad at something which ha no sir pair

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 11:04am | IP Logged

Honestly Mansi is not supporting Shivani

When Mansi was suppposed to call Shivani, she did not

It was Mansi's phone even knowing it would be Shivani called, she let Sandhya pick up the phone

Today's episode Shivani asked repeatedly if Mansi would help her with the cooking and it took forever for her to say yes 

Mansi does not understand Shivani's situation, Shivani was not golden spoon fed like Mansi has been so it is easier for her to put forth ideas that do not apply to the sentiment of the situation

The only friendship thing Shivani did was take the blame for the picture because it was Shivani's idea and Shivani was being silly here 

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 1:57pm | IP Logged
@heart 1 seriously today i felt very bad for Shivani when Sasu maa said Shivanis parents are the bojh on their daughter Ouch

...poor girl she must be really blaming her stars why did she ever get married in such a haste when her  own family needs her so much .

I hate MIL for saying that she is so grown up still has such narrow mind Unhappy




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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 2:42pm | IP Logged

i disagree she is not selfishDisapprove i feel bad for her iss ki sasu maa ne iss kase danta poor girl Unhappy wo sirf apni family ke liye job  karna chahti  hai basThumbs Up asi daughter pe sab ko proud hona chahiye  Thumbs Upiss ka dil saaf hai Thumbs Upand i like herSmile



i agree with heart 1 and shana didiStarClapThumbs Up



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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 3:04pm | IP Logged

@shana and mrs kapoor

I absolutely agree with both of you!! I felt so bad for Shivani too, why didn't Sahil say anything then? Mummy ji is willing to kick Sahil out too 

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 3:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by heart1

@shana and mrs kapoor

I absolutely agree with both of you!! I felt so bad for Shivani too, why didn't Sahil say anything then? Mummy ji is willing to kick Sahil out too

really yar she is heartless woman

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 3:16pm | IP Logged
First of all what kind of behaviour is she getting from MIL?
If Shivani is guilty, Sahil is equally guilty. They both did the same mistake. Then why the hell is she making only Shivani's life hell. Is this the way to talk to your DIL?? Seriously? She is someone's daughter and made of flesh and blood and has feelings too just as Sahil does. 

And what's with going out to work? Whats wrong with that? Women all over the world earn, in cities they do, in villages they work in the fields.. Its another story if you dont wish to work, like in Mansi's case. But Shivani is smart, independant and most importantly supports her family. How can she be selfish? She wend behind her parents back to get married to Sahil, how can she be selfish to him? 

I mean seriously, what is she expected to do? Stand in the kitchen all day and run all over the house serving juice all day? Is that how you define a selfless bahu?

I don't unserstand women judging other women on house-work. If one likes to do it, well and fine, do it. that does not give you a ticket to call others selfish.

And what's wrong in gifting a photograph of the whole family? Seriously, if she did it on purpose then its a fault. If she did it to genuinely make others happy, how is it her fault? Who would have known the family has a twisted nonsensical mysterious tale kept in dark.

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