Originally posted by Tanyaz
You are right .It is her lack of confidence , low self esteem that is the root cause of the problems she faced in life .Right from the first show it was evident how low this girl thinks of herself ..
All the time we see her immediately blaming herself for just about everything ...It was there when first Ajit's marriage did not take place and then she ridiculously even blamed herself for Sachin's death and punishedherself ..
For Varsha's inability to adopt and for so many other things ...And these who know her weakness use this to gain what they want ( like Savita wanted Manav to divorce her and varsha was after Soham ) .
The most beautiful relationship in Archana's life is with her dughter Purvi .This girl just loves her , never judges her , never blames her ...she just loves her unconditionaly .Purvi is Archana's heart .
After she split from Manav for 18 years , Purvi has become the most important person in her life ...because of Purvi , Archana got her confidence back and also her will to live ...
But Jai, I don't like Manav anymore ( after the leap ) . His obsession to please his mother all the time has just put me off him ..The damage he has done to his wife can never be corrected .The only thing now that can make me like him is if he becomes a good father to Purvi .I don't think he can do anything for Archana now that can make it up to her . The best years of her life are lost forever .
The only character that is even more unlucky than Archaan is that of Soham ..And the casting of Soham is so good .The boy is very good looking and has this innocense in him and is always this happy person .I feel so bad for him ...What will happen to this poor kid when he will find out about his painful past and the truth about his mother ...
Tanya Manav has lived a life of Zombie for the past 18 years..You can see the cry and anguish and the pain all came out..He needs to be given a break here. For the first time the guy smiled after 18 years.He is already broken when he came to know his mother betrayed him.What worse can happen to you to know your mother betrayed you.Its the worst feeling and this time he is not forgiving her quick even if Archu is asking him.At least Archu is lucky in that aspect.Archu has good good parents to support her , Manav is unlucky even in that perspective.The guy needs a break Tanya.How much more can he get punished now after knowing that his mom whom he trusted more than his life betrayed him.Even God cannot punish him further and hence Bappa has never destructed his life completely he has always made him successful financially for his children n fmaily but that gap in his heart and life was always there and hence guess God gave him his life back (Archu) coz He knows Manav is not a bad guy but a good person by heart.
Who would allow to have a surname to a adopted daughter of his wife to be divorced and risk his life to save her - that speaks volume about the man and God can never neglect that generous heart that he had and he still has. Archu case he is already punished when he came to know his mother betrayed him so no other punishment is worse than that hence God gave him back his life (Archu) and also gave Archu back her life (Manav) .
The best years of Manav's life is also lost Tanya..ITs not Archu alone who has lost.You remember how Manav pour his heart out in Savita's truth exposure epi and mentioned about the 18 years life gone.HE too has lost so much Tanya.Its unfair to say he has not lost anything here.
He is back to breathing his life after Archu has come back.And for Purvi he is trying to be a good father now and he has already risked his life for her which shows what Purvi means to him.
Manav does not have to prove his love .God knows it and ARchu knows it hence he has given them both their life back and be together and both are happy together - a simple fact.
Edited by Jaishankar - 20 September 2012 at 10:21pm