Written Update : 20th September 2012 - Page 5

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

I understand Jai , He cannot leave  her in this age .Savita was always Manav's biggest obsession .He has spend most of his life trying to please this woman , even if she was wrong or right it did not  matter to him...

 

This time Savita has really crossed the line .She has totally destroyed Archana's life .18 years is a long  long time ..What was taken away from Archana  can never be given back ...

 

No matter what he does there is no way Manav can ever make it up to Archana for destroying her life .Maybe the only thing he can do for her is to at least take care of Purvi because I think Purvi is Archana's big weakness .

 

The pavitra rishta that once existed between Manav and Archana now is of Archana and Purvi .

 

Archana has done wrong to only one person ...and that is Soham ..She is such a nice kind person but she and manav have been unbelievably cruel to Soham .Only to make Savita , Sachin and Varsha happy ..Shame on them for doing this ..

 

In this story line I am 100 % behind Soham and hope that he will give his parents a very very hard time ... they both deserve to go through hell for what they did to this poor boy .

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

And jai , even mothers can do evil things ..I read a story that this woman who is 90 years old put carosine oil on her bahu and tried to burn her alive .Can you imagine .A woman in her 90's should be afraid of God and would not think of doing such evil acts ...but jealousy is something  that can destroy someone's thinking complelety

But yes  because of her age , savita cannot be  left alone now , no matter what she does .

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

I don't give the court case that much importance .Today  despite of all his money . manav is not ready to move from this house and his memories , this goes to show that Archana was right .

Even the court case was in Archana's favour and Manav has said thsi twice to Arjun and also savita that Archana was right and he was wrong there .

 

The lack of trust was their mistake but even that was because of savita .Manav , despite of everything send Archana's tickets ..It was manav's biggest fault that he immediatel y believed that Archana is after money .After all that Archana did for him , he just believed that she is a gold digger ...That was extremely unfair of him ..

 

That is why I am saying that no matter what , he can  never make it up to her now ..He is just very lucky that she is very firgiving ...

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

Jai , it is not that I don't think that Archana  has made any faults . Of course she has ..many many faults ..

her biggest fault is that she is a weak mother ...not a bad mother but a weak mother .

 

She was not able to protect her child from Varsha and savita and they both ended up hurting Soham so much ...

 

Then she just gave up on Teju and Ovi ..I know she was low on confidence but she should have fought back .She should not have given manav exactly what he wanted ...Just keeping manav happy andd giving up all her rights as a mother was wrong , very wrong of her ..

 

Teju , Soham and Ovi have suffered because of Archana's weaknesses as a mother ...

 

Archana was allowed to raise Purvi the way she wanted to and just look at what a good job she did ...She is a good mother but very weak as well and that is a very wrong ting ...

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

You are right .It is her lack of confidence , low self esteem that is the root cause of  the problems she faced in life .Right from the first show it was evident how low this girl thinks of herself ..

All the time we see her immediately blaming herself for just about everything ...It was there when first Ajit's marriage did not take place and then she ridiculously even blamed herself for Sachin's death and punishedherself ..

 

For Varsha's inability to adopt and for so many other things ...And these who know her weakness use  this to gain what they want ( like Savita wanted Manav to divorce her and varsha was after Soham ) .

 

The most beautiful relationship in Archana's life is with her dughter Purvi .This girl just loves her , never judges her , never blames her ...she just loves her unconditionaly .Purvi is Archana's heart .

 

After she split from Manav for 18 years , Purvi has become the most important person in her life ...because of Purvi , Archana  got her confidence back and also her will to live ...

 

But Jai, I don't like  Manav anymore ( after the leap )  .  His obsession to please his mother all the time has just  put me off him ..The damage he has done to his wife can never be corrected .The only thing now that can make me like him is if he becomes a good father to Purvi .I don't think he can  do anything  for Archana now that can make it up to her . The best years of her life are lost forever .

 

The only character that is even more unlucky than Archaan is that of Soham ..And the casting of Soham is so good .The boy is very good looking and has this innocense in him and is always this happy person .I feel so bad for him ...What will happen to this poor kid when he will find out about his painful past and the truth about his mother ...