i knwo you are going through hard time and i can understand how much pain it must be causing u ... its hard to move you dont know how to handle this pain ... what i can suggest is
1st thing throw whatever gifts or things that she might have given you
2nd spend more time with your family and friends, tell your frns the truth and tell them that u have accepted her departure and now move on so dont talk about her
3rd if you like to dance or have any other hobby then start doing that ... like start taking classes
4 move back with ur family if you can
the last thing you may not want to do it but it has hleped me in my worst time
prayers and God
you need to have that faith that he will never do any wrong ...
listen to ramayan listen kirtans i dont know if you are religious but trust me prayers have the biggest strength i had no hope and god helped to be a better person ... you need positive energy around you ...
hope this will help and everything is not goign to change in one day ... dont ever give up on love either
god bless you
last forgive her but dont forget what she did ... dont ever accept her back in your life ... 2nd whatever she might have done could be out of pressure or what not you dont know that ... but dont hold anger towards her ... but DONT EVER TAKE HER BACK
Edited by trupat - 20 September 2012 at 2:00pm