Originally posted by bhach
Regarding CM..she is right...she talks about practicability...not theoretical..Hats off to her...I liked her because she knows her boundaries and wants to make sure that her son Shiv does not suffer in future...Why people hate CM...she raised shiv and for the last thirty years she is with Shiv...Anandi just came into the life of Shiv so far from few months..I totally agree with CM..she should have concerns for Shiv and she needs to get an affirmation from Anandi about Jagya..She has the right to ask Aannadi thousands of questions to see her son happy.
Being parents..they have the right and she is exercising this and it does not matter if it relates to Jagya or not...they are getting a life partener for Shiv..and it is not just a small matter..
Honestly Bhach - I was wondering if I shud respond to this as you and I have very divergent views on most issues. But I just could not let it go so easily.
CM and her concerns -
Is Shiv a baby ? Is Shiv not capable of thinking about who he wants to fall in love with ? Has anyone hidden or lied about anything to them from Anandi's family ? Is Shiv himself little bit doubtful about Anandi's or his own affections ?
Why dos CM think she has to worry when Shiv's own mom and Dad and Daddu are not even concerned ? It made sense till she spoke to Shiv about her worries, but when no one is listening to her - Mahi, Daddu, Irawati, Anuj and Shiv - then can't she try to address Anandi's folks ? Why attack a poor defenceless Anandi all alone ?
Is it Anandi's fault she got dumped by her husband ? Bcoz she has a so-called 'past' - shud she give up her right to anything she may be able to do in her present or future ? What is this constant memories she keeps harping about ? Yes - I have memories of most things since I was 3, Does that mean I have no right to make newer memories ?
CM was WRONG in being as harsh with Anandi as she was. Telling her J is in the village is one thing. Accusing her that she is lying about not knowing he is there is entirely another.
CM is getting out of control and her sneakiness needs to get checked soon. Hope Shiv - the one she claims to have so much concern for - is the one to tell her to butt out and stay out.
Shiv has told her nicely to have faith in him and his choice, but she refused. Now she just has to be told firmly and she shud also understand that she risks alienating Shiv with this kind of nastiness.
In Jodha-Akbar, do u remember how Akbar's nurse claimed she was doing everything for his own good ? And do you remember what happened when Akbar found out about her schemes ? Hope the same happens to CM. Hope Shiv just blasts her out.
Edited by hooked - 15 September 2012 at 11:21pm