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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 9:59pm | IP Logged
Urmi daughter's marriage may still be two sided as she is not in love with Shiv having never even met him.  As for their rishta... Shiv before DS asked him...and he started realizing even before Ashi left.  So any rishta btwn Urmi's daughter and Shiv would also at best have been one-sided.

As for J's rishta with A...its again zero sided.  A has no respect left for J and J obviously does not love A else he would not be plotting revenge.

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 10:01pm | IP Logged
One more thing I forgot to mention. Despite Dadu and Alok saying let us forget this incident,CM was not willing to forget and went on saying"kaise bhul jaaoon" she repeated this so many times that I was about to suggest "Aap wohin pe baith ke bhajan hi shuru kijiye,Kaise mein bhul jaaon"  LOL

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 10:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mocking_bird

One thing I did not follow in last night's epi. How did Anandi know that it was Dadisa who told these things to the lady(Urmi Devi) Except putting two and two together there was no other concrete evidence with her to arrive at this conclusion. Urmi devi could not even describe the lady except saying time and again that it is an old lady. There can be number of old ladies living in Jaitser and there is no guarantee that Dadisa is the one! We know she is the one,because we were the witness to this saga but, Anandi does not have this knowledge!Wink

So based on speculation,how can she threaten to call off a marriage?

She put two and two together.When the lady said puran maasi and Irawati 's saying that it was Shiv's b'day.She remembered that DS paid a visit to this temple that day.That's how she came to that conclusion.
Her threat to call off the marriage is to make DS confess.Anandi's method of interrogationLOL

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 10:06pm | IP Logged
Sukanya - A is not threatening... she is tricking DS into telling her the truth by threatening to break of the rishta with Shiv because he is loose character.  

She added  1+1+1 and got 3 or rather Daadisa: 1) DS visited temple on Shiv's bday  2) She's old - dokri who knows Shiv  3)DS immediately proposed to Shiv after returning from Temple

Now by threatening A is trying to test her assumption 

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 10:11pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

Urmi daughter's marriage may still be two sided as she is not in love with Shiv having never even met him.  As for their rishta... Shiv before DS asked him...and he started realizing even before Ashi left.  So any rishta btwn Urmi's daughter and Shiv would also at best have been one-sided.

As for J's rishta with A...its again zero sided.  A has no respect left for J and J obviously does not love A else he would not be plotting revenge.
Why J is dragged between Shiv and Anandi...I do not think there will be any specific story line between A and J ...Jagya s frustation is against everyone...J wants a revenge from Anandi..he never said that he loves Aanandi now..he was only looking for maafi...It s Aanadi who still thinks about Jagya that is misinterpreted as love but Jagya does not love Ananadi anymore..I doubt if Anandi wants to remarry with Jagya, he will be ready to marry or accept her ...because he has seen Aannadi with Shiv and I do not think that he is so braod minded that he will accept Anandi back..

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Posted: 27 September 2012 at 10:51pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

The only girl brokenhearted about AnSh rishta is Ashi..who's love for Shiv was one-sided and therefore doomed from start.   Jugya's extramarital raas-leela with Gawarimata was 2 sided so, the Chapati Chor needs to return to her.  JaAn marriage btw was zero-sided at inception.. Neither knew what they were doing and Anandi definitely didn't know what the heck she signed up for...she thought it was a game!Dead

Here Shiv knows full truth about A ka past and loves her anyway...moreover as was apparent he's happy to be with Anandi over Urmi Devi's daughter, who he never even met.  As for Anandi - her defense of Shiv was absolute.  She is upset for him and is willing to take panga with DS.  That says a LOT for how far she has come along.  She is defending a man and his good character.  After what all J did to her - that's a MIRACLE.  
If Ashi s love was one sided or is one  sided , then I have no hesitation to state that Shiv s love for Anandi was and is also one sided and it is Anandi s promise to her mom courtsey smart DS that she wants to marry Shiv.
Agreeed that JagyaGauri s love was two sided but it was cracked because of loss and lack of mutual trust and respect.
 
Yes, Shiv is being saved from this harassment...if you say that it is Anandi s love , then you are proving that Anandi is selfish and all she is doing because of love. BUt truely speaking Anandi should have and will fight for any one irrespective of who he or she  is if a good person is blamed by anyone. My apologies if you say that it s because of Anandis growingsign of  love to Shiv that she is persuading this case, but  Anandi is never so selfish.
 
Let's all wait till evening, till the show is aired...
We'll get to know, if A is SERIOUS in her threat to DS...that will explain all...WinkLOL
 
OR
 
for all I Foresee., this threat from A will be the last scene today...and our POV's will go on and on over this weekend...ConfusedOuchD'oh
 
CV's sure know how to raise our BP's...LOLLOL
 

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Posted: 28 September 2012 at 3:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ

Sukanya - A is not threatening... she is tricking DS into telling her the truth by threatening to break of the rishta with Shiv because he is loose character.  

She added  1+1+1 and got 3 or rather Daadisa: 1) DS visited temple on Shiv's bday  2) She's old - dokri who knows Shiv  3)DS immediately proposed to Shiv after returning from Temple

Now by threatening A is trying to test her assumption 
Yup. but, she should also think why would Dadisa bad mouth Shiv,when she loves him so much. I do not think ,Anandi would think tha tin order to fix her marriage with Shiv,she would have done all these. That will be too far fetched for her.LOL

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Posted: 28 September 2012 at 4:58am | IP Logged
 
Urmi's daughter's and shiv's rishta if at all had happened would have been an arranged rishta in which there is no one-side or two-side. However, since it is done with the consent of both the parties, it is acceptable. jagya-anandi's marriage was also an arranged one but it was wrong because they both were not of marriageable age and because children's consent is never taken into consideration in child marriages.

Before dadisa put forward the proposal, shiv had started liking her and was attracted to her kind-hearted nature. That does not give him the authority to accept the proposal without finding out if anandi wanted to marry him or not. However, he was mature enough to say that no force should be applied to marry anandi to him.

What is wrong in this rishta is the way anandi was tricked into agreeing to marry shiv. It was dadisa who controlled her in her childhood and is still controlling her though she is an adult. To get her way, dadisa will lie, badmouth people, make use of others; but she will make sure that she wins by hook or by crook which is wrong according to me.

If dadisa wins and this marriage happens, then it will mean that it is okay to lie, manipulate and make use of others for your own selfish reasons. How much did bhago know about shiv that she took vachan from anandi to marry him? Bhago simply believed dadisa. The whole concept is wrong and for this reason alone this marriage should not happen. These are my views.

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