Originally posted by AnjanaYYZ
Suchi - as I stated she had a point about B's guilt money...I didn't say she was right to come insult him about it. That was wrong, but not such a huge wrong that justifies J leaving her in and off itself. Her reaction was inappropriate to learning the truth about BP & the money actually coming from Bhairon.
Where Gauri was truly wrong was in opting to remain "married" to J especially after realizing A loved him and their marriage while BV was real. She learnt that during her 1st post marriage stay at haveli. Her mistreatment of BadiMassi was super wrong as was her treatment and continual taunting and accusation she flung at A.
Right right I agree to that. that that is not a good enough reason for J to leave G.
And as you said, Gauri's misdeed of telling Badi masi the truth when it could clearly effect her health and even lead to her death, if J would have left her then I would have understood... and kinda justified..but he left her , when the matter wasnot that big of a deal...
In my POV he left her, cause he was already tired of his life, living under the shadow of Gauri, her earnings, no family money (he never cared about the family), no job, no future...
So he was WAITING to get out and this 'lie' was a jackpot for him...and he thought he would go back and fling himself on DS arms and she will forgive him and then he could get back to Anandi, as she is a doormat and would love to have him-the best of man- around her arms...
He never expected the whole family to live fine without him, specially Anandi...
So it was a huge shock for him...
I do not blame Gauri now, for not talking to J , in fact for once she is showing some brains.
BUt she needs to apologize to Anandi, the entire singh family for her misbehavior..
yes what ever happened in childhood cannot be forgotten but she got their share of repentance too and if she is in SNG working successfully its cause of bhairav.. and we cannot deny that.
She is wrong on many levels... and her punishing the entire family for what Ds did and leaving her own parents out of the guilt is wrong.
So in POV she does need to apologize. But yeah i agree with you...
Def. J has NO valid reason right now to leave G.