Originally posted by bhach
What a way to say...if i do, iam good, and if othersdo..they are bad..you yourself mentioned so much about DS ..thanks and clearly states what ds did and if she can be pardoned Jagya too...you just dragged gauri to make your point strong...i do not think anyone talked about Gauri and her sorry..she never said,asked so far..no one talksed about Gauri...we are talikng about only JAGYA...WHAT A WAY TO DEGRADE JAGYA FURTHER BY PUTTING GAURI S SIN ALSO ON JAGYA..when Jagya came to know the truth it was he who slaped gauri and left him..
Yeah. Your own words show that what a coward Jagiya is. First he left Anandi saying that she is bot worthy of him coz she is uneducated and ganwar. Now he left Gauri saying that she is a liar and selfish. In both the cases he escaped from the situation. If he ever loved Anandi then instead of leaving her he should have helped her in pursuing her studies further and acted as a strong support for her. If he ever loved Gauri he would have realised his mistakes first and then made her realise her mistakes, gone to Singhs together and ask for forgiveness. But he left her too.
You will say that he always supported Gauri and was with her even after she did his insults. Why ? Coz he loved her ?? No !! Coz he was degree less, jobless and hence money less at that time. He knew it that he has nothing and had to be dependent on her for everything !! If he'd have had a job and mobey he'd have left Gauri after first insult and have never given a damn to her !!
Same applies to Gauri. She was not with Jugs coz she loved him but coz of the Sumi's challenge to her, ''tumhaari shaadi jyaada din tak nahi chalegi''.
Its clear that both of them never loved each ither. They were each other for selfish reasons. LOVE is not at all the reason for them staying together !!
Now, dont take it wrong but i understand what makes you sympathise with Jagiya.
I never knew that with the people i am arguing are MALES. Their comments/ posts are now justified !!
Its an old habit of man to blame woman for everything.
''You are selfish, you are characterless. You did magic on me through your fake love and made me do things your way !!''
As if he was a doodh peeta munna who can be behlao phuslaoed by anyone !!
In the way Prerna has justified DS actions is AWESUM !
Whatever she did was coz of the stupid norms that were stuffed in her mind by some people. ( her parents ofcourse ! )
Moreover she is trying hard to rectify her mistakes. But what is Jagiya doing ?!! Except drinking hard, crying and falling here and there to gain sympathy ! If he is guilty then he should prove himself !! Show his parents that he has changed ! Parents know their child. They will notice if any positive change will take place in him. But a change wont come by drinking and crying. It will come by doing something !!
Everyone was angry when Anandi used to remember Jugs insults and cry. They said she should stand up and make her career instead of doing all rona dhona ! She DID STOOD UP ! As a result she is sarpanch of her village ! Same applies for Jagat ! He should make a place in his family's heart through his good actions not by making himself a phatehaal and getting sympathy as a bheekh !!