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armaan- the perfect lover?? (Page 3)

peaches Goldie
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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 4:29am | IP Logged

Originally posted by vishakha

Majnu ne Pathar khaye Laila ke liye, Armaan ne thokare khayee Jassi ke liye. Laila diwani majnu ki, Jassi diwani Armaan ki. They are not obsessed about each other. They are just madly in love with each other.
Peaches, I disagree that a perfect lover has to be a perfect human being. Let's face it. Nobody is perfect. You have to love people the way they are. Once you accept someone in your life, you got to take the whole package, the good things and not_so_good things. That's the truth..

But then he's just a lover but not the perfect lover!

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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 4:35am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rumi

 

Well, what do you mean by a perfect lover actually?

 The definition varies from person to person.

 I think a perfect lover is:

    One who loves you not for your looks but for the person you are and he does not care how you look! One who is caring and always sympathetic for you. One who always fights with the world for you and who is ready to protect you from all sorts of troubles. One who is caring and sympathetic for your family also and who thinks your parents as his own and is ready to do everything for them. One who is ready to leave the world only because of you. Who is ready to make the whole world his enemy only to be with you. One who always misses you when you are not with him and always remembers you and prays that you should comeback to him. One who will not hide his imperfections to you.
  1. His mind will be like a mirror so that you can see yourself through his mind.

 

                                     If a person fulfills all these categories, I am sure you will love him and want to be with him in spite of his imperfections. In fact nobody is perfect in this world and two of you will cover up each other's imperfections with your love for each other.

   There is a Bengali song:

 If I have no music,

      You have it and you will give it to me

If you have a flower which has no fragrance,

        I have that fragrance and i will give it to you.

 This is called love,

           This is called love.

I think Armaan fulfills all these categories!!! Don't you?

 Armaan-Jassi forever!!!!!!!!

It's true Rumi...Armaan is everything you mentioned about.  But that's not being a perfect lover.  He only did all those things to relieve himself off the guilt he felt for doing those things to Jassi. 

You're right in saying that no one is perfect, but the reason Armaan can't snap out of this "Devdas" attitude is becasue he's so engrossed in his own feelings that he's not realizing what's going on in his world.  That's not good either, buecasue if he was the pefect lover, he would have solved this whole mess for Jassi and would have been helping her in clearing her name.  Granted he helped the family, but that was clearly out of guilt.  Everyone is selfish in this world, and Armaan felt a whole lot better after he did that.

 

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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 5:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by peaches

Originally posted by vishakha

Majnu ne Pathar khaye Laila ke liye, Armaan ne thokare khayee Jassi ke liye. Laila diwani majnu ki, Jassi diwani Armaan ki. They are not obsessed about each other. They are just madly in love with each other. Peaches, I disagree that a perfect lover has to be a perfect human being. Let's face it. Nobody is perfect. You have to love people the way they are. Once you accept someone in your life, you got to take the whole package, the good things and not_so_good things. That's the truth..


But then he's just a lover but not the perfect lover!




Peaches, I still fail to understand your definition of perfect lover. Can you please elaborate?
I completely agree with you Rumi.
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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 5:41am | IP Logged
actually when you think about it armaan and purab are botht the same when ti comes to their love for jassi, theyve loved her for her personality not looks ( again, for once)
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i think arman helping jassi's family was not out of guilt but out of love,he did it coz he couldnt bear to see his jassi's family being harassed in her absence and thus he went to any extent to protect them and even in the house selling track ,he said jassi will come back only to this house and offered to help and this again is not his guilt but his love.He did clear jassi's name by taking all blame on himself,by getting the signatures from all board of directors that they would not trouble jassi's family again or arrest jassi.his dilemma is that he is not able to express his love to jassi as he doesnt know where she is ,to tell herthat he has changed and  trying to change himself for the better.

anyway each person has a diff idea of a perfect lover.arman for me is a prefect lover in my opinion.

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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 7:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by vishakha

Originally posted by peaches

Originally posted by vishakha

Majnu ne Pathar khaye Laila ke liye, Armaan ne thokare khayee Jassi ke liye. Laila diwani majnu ki, Jassi diwani Armaan ki. They are not obsessed about each other. They are just madly in love with each other. Peaches, I disagree that a perfect lover has to be a perfect human being. Let's face it. Nobody is perfect. You have to love people the way they are. Once you accept someone in your life, you got to take the whole package, the good things and not_so_good things. That's the truth..


But then he's just a lover but not the perfect lover!




Peaches, I still fail to understand your definition of perfect lover. Can you please elaborate?
I completely agree with you Rumi.

Well, let be first begin with saying that "perfect" is a very subjective thing.  There is no such thing as the "perfect lover" because there is nothing to define what that is.

So having said that....I'm not saying that I'm a Purab fan or an Armaan fan, but I turly believe that Armaan is not totally deserving of so much credit just because of the way he's protrayed in JJKN.

The reason why i do believe that Jassi and Armaan should be together is because she loves him and he loves her.  If she wants to be with them than fine, but that doesn't mean that he's the best person for her.  Sometime we're so blind in our love that we dont' know what's right or wrong.  People in love sometimes do make wrong decisions.

The reason why I don't give Armaan the status of being close to a "perfect lover" is because of many factors.

Just becase someone is shown to be "madly" in love with you doens't mean everything.  It just shows that you have a weak mind.  People get obsessed and depressed because they don't have the will power to deal with a broke heart or the situation at hand.  These are the people that end up going to conunceling and mental therapy.  Armaan eats, drinks, sleeps, thinks only about Jassi ....nothing else.  It's almost as if he doens't realize who he is. 

I'm almost certain that if it was the other way around, and Armaan was in Purab's shoes, he would try and force Jassi to be his and force her to accept his love.

I also believe that to be anything close to a pefect lover one has to start being a perfect human being.  If you neglect the love by not showing your father how much you care about him and his feelings, how can your love towards your partner be genuin??

It's a totally turn-off to see Armaan act this way. If I was Jassi, I would more attracted at the way Purab carries himself and portrays himself.  I don't agree that Armaan loves Jassi more than Purab.  They equally have the same amount of love for her.  Armaan is just weeker that's all. 

Purab is suffering from a heart break as well, but he controls his emotions to some extent becuase that's a sign of a person with a strong mind which Armaan does not have.  He's allwoing his emotions to take over his whole life and that's not normal.

Again these are just my views!!

Thanks

 

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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 7:34am | IP Logged
Once more....i agree with peaches on most of the points.

According to me, a person who tries to touch somebody elses hand to feel his beloved and fails to realise that it's actually her whom he has touched; is not a perfect lover but obcessed lover. A person who dosen't care for his family, his company and is just lost in his own world of dreaming about his love can not be called perfect lover.

According to me, both Armaan and Purab love Jassi and just because Jassi loves Armaan back dosen't mean that his love is perfect and Purab's love is less.
KhoobsuratKhusi Senior Member
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Posted: 06 May 2005 at 7:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bollygal

wudnt armaan be like a perfect luver    heres how

fine at the begining he was an idiot but then he started really loving jassi and (for once) not for her looks but for her personality and that wot u call tru luv??

it wud b soo nice if that happened in real life naa???

girl in real life these kind of stuff don't happen, thats y v watch tv show n make r self happy.. in reailty love is crap, it does not exict..(i 4 got how to spell)n e way. love is jsut bunch of crap..........

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