Originally posted by: vishakha
Peaches, I still fail to understand your definition of perfect lover. Can you please elaborate?
I completely agree with you Rumi.
Well, let be first begin with saying that "perfect" is a very subjective thing. There is no such thing as the "perfect lover" because there is nothing to define what that is.
So having said that....I'm not saying that I'm a Purab fan or an Armaan fan, but I turly believe that Armaan is not totally deserving of so much credit just because of the way he's protrayed in JJKN.
The reason why i do believe that Jassi and Armaan should be together is because she loves him and he loves her. If she wants to be with them than fine, but that doesn't mean that he's the best person for her. Sometime we're so blind in our love that we dont' know what's right or wrong. People in love sometimes do make wrong decisions.
The reason why I don't give Armaan the status of being close to a "perfect lover" is because of many factors.
Just becase someone is shown to be "madly" in love with you doens't mean everything. It just shows that you have a weak mind. People get obsessed and depressed because they don't have the will power to deal with a broke heart or the situation at hand. These are the people that end up going to conunceling and mental therapy. Armaan eats, drinks, sleeps, thinks only about Jassi ....nothing else. It's almost as if he doens't realize who he is.
I'm almost certain that if it was the other way around, and Armaan was in Purab's shoes, he would try and force Jassi to be his and force her to accept his love.
I also believe that to be anything close to a pefect lover one has to start being a perfect human being. If you neglect the love by not showing your father how much you care about him and his feelings, how can your love towards your partner be genuin??
It's a totally turn-off to see Armaan act this way. If I was Jassi, I would more attracted at the way Purab carries himself and portrays himself. I don't agree that Armaan loves Jassi more than Purab. They equally have the same amount of love for her. Armaan is just weeker that's all.
Purab is suffering from a heart break as well, but he controls his emotions to some extent becuase that's a sign of a person with a strong mind which Armaan does not have. He's allwoing his emotions to take over his whole life and that's not normal.
Again these are just my views!!
Thanks
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