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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 12:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tia.o

[QUOTE=nina5]What a wonderful analysis Tia! You have preciously summarized our opinions and feelings. Agree with you

I have pretty much said quite a lot on this topic already and on the recent events that are shown lately. I have one thing to say, though. I can not seem to understand Arnav-Anjali's relationship. I can relate to the fact that if your sibling is upset or is going through a rough patch, then you as their family will try to make them feel better, to care for them and help sort things out for them to the best of your ability and even feel bad for them, right? But, its unrealistic to show that just because one person is sad or a little upset (the miscarriage track aside) their brother(s) or sister(s) will experience the exact same emotion - that does not happen - you can certainly feel sad, or even cry at times - but to show that it Anjali is unhappy then Arnav is unhappy and same goes for happiness and other emotions. Even twins do not have this connection. If this is how things ought to be, then how come the family did not feel the pain and sadness for all the mental and physical torture Arnav went through during his captivation for weeks? Confused - BINGO... I was saying it from the very start. But now what I was saying is making sense. It's almost as if everyone's life is secondary to Anjali's life. That is creepy and weird.

I am not speaking about Miscarriage as it's a hugely upsetting circumstance and your family are bound to feel sad and might even be alright to cry for you but at other times your emotions can not be in perfect sync. - However, where the hell those glass pieces go? How come she can walk just fine now? Why does not the doctor discuss that with the patient's family?

Please correct me if I am wrong here. I am trying to understand but with no success. To me it seems such a silly cycle of happiness and sadness between the 4 characters: Khushi - Arnav - Anjali - Shyaam

I want to mention this quote to mostly Dadi and Anjali with regards to the Shyaam 's past behaviour:

"Everything will line up perfectly when knowing and living the truth becomes more important than looking good" - Alan Cohen




Originally posted by tia.o

BINGO... I was saying it from the very start. But now what I was saying is making sense. It's almost as if everyone's life is secondary to Anjali's life. That is creepy and weird.


my reply: Hmmm, it indeed is creepy and weird. Personally, I have never had a concern with Anjali because I liked her as Arnav's sister but now its just...I am afraid to say this but I am not liking what they have turned her into these days (of course i am saying nothing against Daljeet (or any other actors here)


Originally posted by tia.o

However, where the hell those glass pieces go? How come she can walk just fine now? Why does not the doctor discuss that with the patient's family?


my reply: The glass pieces part just slipped my mind. You are absolutely correct. The doctors most certainly should have said something about her feet bleeding. And this would have been another pointer about Shyaam. This was not an slip-and-fall-off-stairs kind of bleeding wound and not just her feet but also all the areas of the house that were stained due to her walking around with the glasses stuck to her feet. How come no one found the glass pieces as well as the blood stains? Guess it just magically disappeared in thin air.

I would have loved to see Arnav solve this part of the mystery as well as the credit card bill, the will, the wire and camera and other electrical equipments installed in the house besides just suspecting Dadi and Shyaam's meetings and their talks.

Moving forward, I hope Arnav better puts all the pieces together and solves this mystery of Shyaam once and for all and present solid evidence to both Dadi and Anjali along with all the cast (including the Guptas)



Edited by nina5 - 08 September 2012 at 2:00pm

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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -sweetgal19-

Originally posted by tia.o

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Tia !! Wonderful analysis sweetieHugYes Anjali has always been treated with "Oooh she is such a darling ,she should be taken care of,she is our princess"that kind of attitude ! In short she has always been the Rani Sahiba of everybody and has lived life with a silver spoon in her mouth maybe gold too ! Hence because of this attitude,their lives have become interwined with hers ! That is why her being happy or sad matters to them so much,I'm not saying its a bad thing but there is a limit to it ! Thus taking full advantage of being the laadli beti in her family,Anjali knows she will get what she wants in the end which as you said is her boy toy LOL So the very sad fact which you well stated is that ASR wont get his life back without her being happy ! And Khushi too because of always placing others' happiness before her's (which is fine but not to this extent) has not thought about the consequences of bringing Shyam back to the family and will unfortunately have to suffer the consequences even though its not her fault directly Ouch

Yes, because Khushi is the scapegoat everytime. Angry

Thats the problem there Tia !!Ouch I dont know what problems the writers have with Khushi's character !! Iss Na-Insaafi Ko Kya Naam Doon ?Angry TRP
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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:02pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by freya2

Great post. But I don't agree with it fully.

Khushi might want to see Arnav happy, and therefore she needs to make Anjali happy.. But by getting Shyam back into the house, Khushi should know that she won't see Arnav happy or sad, she will find him dead!LOL

Come on if we wanted to see our husband happy we wouldn't bring a man into the house who is a threat to his life and everyone else's, regardless of the situation.

I understand Khushi's plight, but unfortunately I can't agree with her actions, no matter what the reasons are. This man sexually harassed her, tried to kill her and she knows he didn't care about Anjali or the baby's safety one bit, he tried to force himself on her, then he kidnapped her husband, got her husband beaten up, tried to burn her husband to death, tied her up and left her for dead on a road, insulted her in front of everyone, tried to ruin her marriage, and even then we're meant to think, oh how sweet Khushi is for bringing back Shyam into the house because she wants to see Arnav happy??Confused More like dead.

She knows he is a threat to everyone, yet we're meant to believe she is bringing him into the house for everyone's happiness?
I'm sorry but to me it just seems stupid. No woman in her right mind, having the knowledge Khushi does, would want such a man in her house. All the reasons behind it are invalid in relation to how much she knows.

I don't hate Khushi, but I hate the writers. All this time I've been watching IPKKND, I thought Khushi was different to all the heroines I see in other shows. She was intelligent, and not shown to be stupid like most female leads are shown to be in other shows. Women are always shown to be the ones who need rescuing, who lack brains and mental strength, but Khushi was different. She's the one who had the mental strength to fight Shyam and had the brains to find out Shyam's plans, and she rescued Arnav, and I absolutely loved it! I know I sound so emotional about it, but it felt good seeing a woman who was capable of actually being the heroine, rather than a damsel in distress. Finally a woman was shown to be independent and capable of doing things by herself, but at the same time she had all the traditional traits of a woman, someone who is loving and caring.

But now they are ruining it. They are making her typical, and instead of finding reasons behind Khushi's actions, we should be opposing it.. That's why I signed Rima's petition.Smile



Totally agree with you.


It's ok that first time she wanted to give shyam a chance. But only khushi knows the extent to which Shyam can go. Hasn't she learned anything? ANYTHING at all? Even if she was thinking of ASR there is a limit na. Maybe that's why I was never able to connect with her. Because I think she's just plain dumb. I don't see the difference between her and Anji in terms of trusting shyam.

I don't understand why everyone thinks Khushi has a heart of Gold,so forgiving,selfless, sacrificing blah blah blah but calls Anji dumb for trusting her husband. In Anji's defense ( can't believe I'm writing this but) atleast Anji doesn't know shyam's true colors right?

Khushi should really need to get a spine and stand up for herself.

Btw Tia loved your tampoon comment. I wish Khushi would say that and never look back at the Zoo. 

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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by cicilia9

hi tia .. nice post agree with most of what you ve said .. 
my only disagreement with khushi bringing back shyaam is that she seems to be willing to give shyaam another chance too easily .. now if they had showed her still doubting him but still willing to bring him back for the sake of anjali i would have felt this enraged !
i still remember the venom n disgust she had against shyaam when she discovered that he wanted to kill arnav .. all that went pffttt with one crying jag !!!??!! really ! cvs r really portraying her as way too gullible ! if they atleast show her harbouring some doubt on shyaams motives i ll be content ... let her bring him back .. but for the right reasons viz to satisfy Di the junkies habbit ... bas 

See this is like the scenario here... Say you have a mad woman in your house and she got hold of a gun. If she does not get a bomb, she will blow your or that of your family members' brains out. Now you have to think, what is more urgently required? Safety from the gun or safety from the bomb? If you don't get the bomb, she will shoot now. If you do get the bomb, then you buy time until the bomb goes off and hope that once the mad woman gives up the gun, happy to have the bomb, the member which has the quickest aim can grab the bomb and throw out before it goes off.

Now the mad woman is Anjali, the gun is this family's happiness and the trigger is their sanity/life. The bomb is Shyam. And the member who has the quickest aim is Arnav.


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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Siri22

Originally posted by freya2

Great post. But I don't agree with it fully.

Khushi might want to see Arnav happy, and therefore she needs to make Anjali happy.. But by getting Shyam back into the house, Khushi should know that she won't see Arnav happy or sad, she will find him dead!LOL

Come on if we wanted to see our husband happy we wouldn't bring a man into the house who is a threat to his life and everyone else's, regardless of the situation.

I understand Khushi's plight, but unfortunately I can't agree with her actions, no matter what the reasons are. This man sexually harassed her, tried to kill her and she knows he didn't care about Anjali or the baby's safety one bit, he tried to force himself on her, then he kidnapped her husband, got her husband beaten up, tried to burn her husband to death, tied her up and left her for dead on a road, insulted her in front of everyone, tried to ruin her marriage, and even then we're meant to think, oh how sweet Khushi is for bringing back Shyam into the house because she wants to see Arnav happy??Confused More like dead.

She knows he is a threat to everyone, yet we're meant to believe she is bringing him into the house for everyone's happiness?
I'm sorry but to me it just seems stupid. No woman in her right mind, having the knowledge Khushi does, would want such a man in her house. All the reasons behind it are invalid in relation to how much she knows.

I don't hate Khushi, but I hate the writers. All this time I've been watching IPKKND, I thought Khushi was different to all the heroines I see in other shows. She was intelligent, and not shown to be stupid like most female leads are shown to be in other shows. Women are always shown to be the ones who need rescuing, who lack brains and mental strength, but Khushi was different. She's the one who had the mental strength to fight Shyam and had the brains to find out Shyam's plans, and she rescued Arnav, and I absolutely loved it! I know I sound so emotional about it, but it felt good seeing a woman who was capable of actually being the heroine, rather than a damsel in distress. Finally a woman was shown to be independent and capable of doing things by herself, but at the same time she had all the traditional traits of a woman, someone who is loving and caring.

But now they are ruining it. They are making her typical, and instead of finding reasons behind Khushi's actions, we should be opposing it.. That's why I signed Rima's petition.Smile



Totally agree with you.


It's ok that first time she wanted to give shyam a chance. But only khushi knows the extent to which Shyam can go. Hasn't she learned anything? ANYTHING at all? Even if she was thinking of ASR there is a limit na. Maybe that's why I was never able to connect with her. Because I think she's just plain dumb. I don't see the difference between her and Anji in terms of trusting shyam.

I don't understand why everyone thinks Khushi has a heart of Gold,so forgiving,selfless, sacrificing blah blah blah but calls Anji dumb for trusting her husband. In Anji's defense ( can't believe I'm writing this but) atleast Anji doesn't know shyam's true colors right?

Khushi should really need to get a spine and stand up for herself.

Btw Tia loved your tampoon comment. I wish Khushi would say that and never look back at the Zoo. 


Siri, even I thought the same thing at first. How can Khushi trust Shyam after everything? But how can she put up with Anjali's melodrama day after day ruining her hope for her future? This family will never let anyone be happy until Anjali is happy. Because Arnav won't be happy unless Anjali is happy. Imagine one moment dancing with happiness and seeing your dreams are coming true and another moment, someone snatches it away what looks like forever. How does it feel? 

All Khushi wanted was a happy life with Anjali. But everytime she gets the limelight, Anjali does something to snatch it away from her. She could not celebrate her birthday properly because of her, she did not get the wedding she wanted because of her, she did not get a proper Mehendi because of her... How many times can a woman take it?

And now, all these melodrama... Yes, Arnav is refusing to bring Shyam back. But what is he doing to clear her name? Did he tell the family what he knows about Shyam? Did he say that Shyam himself told him that there is only one person standing between him and Khushi and that is Anjali? No. He told everyone what is his decision. But did nothing to fix the situation.

If he does not care about anyone and he wants to make decisions without giving explanation, then fine. Proceed with the celebration and have the grand wedding Khushi always dreamed about. Why is he compromising Khushi's happiness because of his Di then?

He is breaking Khushi's heart, ruining her happiness at the cost of his Di. He is starving himself when his Di is not eating, he is mourning the loss of the child even his Di is not mourning... How does make Khushi feel?

I never said Khushi is selfless. In fact, she is selfish. She is looking out for her best interests, and it lies with her husband. So if her husband's mood swings are connected to Anjali, then that's the best way to fix it. Because until Anjali is happy, she won't let anyone live in peace.

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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:36pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by tia.o

[QUOTE=nina5]What a wonderful analysis Tia! You have preciously summarized our opinions and feelings. Agree with you

I have pretty much said quite a lot on this topic already and on the recent events that are shown lately. I have one thing to say, though. I can not seem to understand Arnav-Anjali's relationship. I can relate to the fact that if your sibling is upset or is going through a rough patch, then you as their family will try to make them feel better, to care for them and help sort things out for them to the best of your ability and even feel bad for them, right? But, its unrealistic to show that just because one person is sad or a little upset (the miscarriage track aside) their brother(s) or sister(s) will experience the exact same emotion - that does not happen - you can certainly feel sad, or even cry at times - but to show that it Anjali is unhappy then Arnav is unhappy and same goes for happiness and other emotions. Even twins do not have this connection. If this is how things ought to be, then how come the family did not feel the pain and sadness for all the mental and physical torture Arnav went through during his captivation for weeks? Confused - BINGO... I was saying it from the very start. But now what I was saying is making sense. It's almost as if everyone's life is secondary to Anjali's life. That is creepy and weird.

I am not speaking about Miscarriage as it's a hugely upsetting circumstance and your family are bound to feel sad and might even be alright to cry for you but at other times your emotions can not be in perfect sync. - However, where the hell those glass pieces go? How come she can walk just fine now? Why does not the doctor discuss that with the patient's family?

Please correct me if I am wrong here. I am trying to understand but with no success. To me it seems such a silly cycle of happiness and sadness between the 4 characters: Khushi - Arnav - Anjali - Shyaam

I want to mention this quote to mostly Dadi and Anjali with regards to the Shyaam 's past behaviour:

"Everything will line up perfectly when knowing and living the truth becomes more important than looking good" - Alan Cohen




Originally posted by tia.o

BINGO... I was saying it from the very start. But now what I was saying is making sense. It's almost as if everyone's life is secondary to Anjali's life. That is creepy and weird.


my reply: Hmmm, it indeed is creepy and weird. Personally, I have never had a concern with Anjali because I liked her as Arnav's sister but now its just...I am afraid to say this but I am not liking what they have turned her into these days (of course i am saying nothing against Daljeet (or any other actors here)


Originally posted by tia.o

However, where the hell those glass pieces go? How come she can walk just fine now? Why does not the doctor discuss that with the patient's family?


my reply: The glass pieces part just slipped my mind. You are absolutely correct. The doctors most certainly should have said something about her feet bleeding. And this would have been another pointer about Shyaam. This was not an slip-and-fall-off-stairs kind of bleeding wound and not just her feet but also all the areas of the house that were stained due to her walking around with the glasses stuck to her feet. How come no one found the glass pieces as well as the blood stains? Guess it just magically disappeared in thin air.

I would have loved to see Arnav solve this part of the mystery as well as the credit card bill, the will, the wire and camera and other electrical equipments installed in the house besides just suspecting Dadi and Shyaam's meetings and their talks.

Moving forward, I hope Arnav better puts all the pieces together and solves this mystery of Shyaam once and for all and present solid evidence to both Dadi and Anjali along with all the cast (including the Guptas) -
Did not you know that mysteries does not get solved in RM? 

1. Does anyone know that who was the girl who fell in Arnav's arms during fashion shoot?

2. Does anyone know why or how Payal's first marriage broke?

3. Does anyone know why Khushi's family came to Delhi?

4. Does anyone know that the original "Phatti Saree" is mamiji because she tore Khushi's clothes?

5. Does anyone know Khushi sold her mother's bangles and bought the plants for Arnav when he broke up initially with Lavanya?

6. Does anyone know Arnav put silver coins in the detergent package for Khushi?

7. Does anyone know why Arnav and LA broke up?

8. Does anyone know what conversation Arnav had with Shyam before the contract marriage?

9. Does anyone know the reason of Arnav and Khushi's marriage or the fact that it was a contract?

10. Does anyone know that the contract ended or what has Khushi gone through since her marriage?

Like I said. Secrets remain secret in this family. They never come out.



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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:44pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by bong.girl

As long as she keeps her hands off Arnav. Anything for the Delicate Darling. LOL

Ecjactly. Apne snakewa ki chummi lo wa kuch bhi karo, keep your slimy paw off my hubby...
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Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:47pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Shastradhari

Originally posted by Supna9

Originally posted by cicilia9

hi tia .. nice post agree with most of what you ve said ..
my only disagreement with khushi bringing back shyaam is that she seems to be willing to give shyaam another chance too easily .. now if they had showed her still doubting him but still willing to bring him back for the sake of anjali i would have felt this enraged !
i still remember the venom n disgust she had against shyaam when she discovered that he wanted to kill arnav .. all that went pffttt with one crying jag !!!??!! really ! cvs r really portraying her as way too gullible ! if they atleast show her harbouring some doubt on shyaams motives i ll be content ... let her bring him back .. but for the right reasons viz to satisfy Di the junkies habbit ... bas

hmm cili this is da point 2. Hw can be u bring a killer in RM hmmm doesnt its like sleeve ka snake again ll sting
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I have so many times such Qs and every time i asked sathya..
she always replies me:

The story needs to move..LOL
so logic gaya tel lene

Originally posted by Supna9

Chalye doc hum bhi tel lene chaltey hain. I think tel sasta ho gaya hai. Ipk Logic tel ap k mind ko cool karey n sarey logics forgetya karwa de. Aye 2 rupey main 2 rupey main wapsi ki surat me tel ki bottle ap k headwa pe thonk dain ge.
Address: RM n GH

Logic? Wo kis chidiya ka naam hain? 

Mere angne mein tumhara kya kaam hain?
Jo hain logicwala woh IPK mein badnaam hain...

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