Posted: 08 September 2012 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Siri22
Originally posted by freya2
Great post. But I don't agree with it fully.
Khushi might want to see Arnav happy, and therefore she needs to make Anjali happy.. But by getting Shyam back into the house, Khushi should know that she won't see Arnav happy or sad, she will find him dead!
Come on if we wanted to see our husband happy we wouldn't bring a man into the house who is a threat to his life and everyone else's, regardless of the situation.
I understand Khushi's plight, but unfortunately I can't agree with her actions, no matter what the reasons are. This man sexually harassed her, tried to kill her and she knows he didn't care about Anjali or the baby's safety one bit, he tried to force himself on her, then he kidnapped her husband, got her husband beaten up, tried to burn her husband to death, tied her up and left her for dead on a road, insulted her in front of everyone, tried to ruin her marriage, and even then we're meant to think, oh how sweet Khushi is for bringing back Shyam into the house because she wants to see Arnav happy??
More like dead.
She knows he is a threat to everyone, yet we're meant to believe she is bringing him into the house for everyone's happiness?
I'm sorry but to me it just seems stupid. No woman in her right mind, having the knowledge Khushi does, would want such a man in her house. All the reasons behind it are invalid in relation to how much she knows.
I don't hate Khushi, but I hate the writers. All this time I've been watching IPKKND, I thought Khushi was different to all the heroines I see in other shows. She was intelligent, and not shown to be stupid like most female leads are shown to be in other shows. Women are always shown to be the ones who need rescuing, who lack brains and mental strength, but Khushi was different. She's the one who had the mental strength to fight Shyam and had the brains to find out Shyam's plans, and she rescued Arnav, and I absolutely loved it! I know I sound so emotional about it, but it felt good seeing a woman who was capable of actually being the heroine, rather than a damsel in distress. Finally a woman was shown to be independent and capable of doing things by herself, but at the same time she had all the traditional traits of a woman, someone who is loving and caring.
But now they are ruining it. They are making her typical, and instead of finding reasons behind Khushi's actions, we should be opposing it.. That's why I signed Rima's petition.
Totally agree with you.
It's ok that first time she wanted to give shyam a chance. But only khushi knows the extent to which Shyam can go. Hasn't she learned anything? ANYTHING at all? Even if she was thinking of ASR there is a limit na. Maybe that's why I was never able to connect with her. Because I think she's just plain dumb. I don't see the difference between her and Anji in terms of trusting shyam.
I don't understand why everyone thinks Khushi has a heart of Gold,so forgiving,selfless, sacrificing blah blah blah but calls Anji dumb for trusting her husband. In Anji's defense ( can't believe I'm writing this but) atleast Anji doesn't know shyam's true colors right?
Khushi should really need to get a spine and stand up for herself.
Btw Tia loved your tampoon comment. I wish Khushi would say that and never look back at the Zoo.
Siri, even I thought the same thing at first. How can Khushi trust Shyam after everything? But how can she put up with Anjali's melodrama day after day ruining her hope for her future? This family will never let anyone be happy until Anjali is happy. Because Arnav won't be happy unless Anjali is happy. Imagine one moment dancing with happiness and seeing your dreams are coming true and another moment, someone snatches it away what looks like forever. How does it feel?
All Khushi wanted was a happy life with Anjali. But everytime she gets the limelight, Anjali does something to snatch it away from her. She could not celebrate her birthday properly because of her, she did not get the wedding she wanted because of her, she did not get a proper Mehendi because of her... How many times can a woman take it?
And now, all these melodrama... Yes, Arnav is refusing to bring Shyam back. But what is he doing to clear her name? Did he tell the family what he knows about Shyam? Did he say that Shyam himself told him that there is only one person standing between him and Khushi and that is Anjali? No. He told everyone what is his decision. But did nothing to fix the situation.
If he does not care about anyone and he wants to make decisions without giving explanation, then fine. Proceed with the celebration and have the grand wedding Khushi always dreamed about. Why is he compromising Khushi's happiness because of his Di then?
He is breaking Khushi's heart, ruining her happiness at the cost of his Di. He is starving himself when his Di is not eating, he is mourning the loss of the child even his Di is not mourning... How does make Khushi feel?
I never said Khushi is selfless. In fact, she is selfish. She is looking out for her best interests, and it lies with her husband. So if her husband's mood swings are connected to Anjali, then that's the best way to fix it. Because until Anjali is happy, she won't let anyone live in peace.