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Guide for a happy marriage to ARYA

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Guide for A Happy Marriage for our ARYA


1. Never both be angry at the same time.

2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.

4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.

6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

8. At least once every day try to say one kind or

complimentary thing to your life's partner.

9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to

admit it and ask for forgiveness.

10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the

wrong is the one who does the most talking.


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1. Love Comes First: Physical love is good, but there has to be genuine spiritual love also in your heart. Your immediate neighbor is your own spouse. So let charity begin at home and set an example by loving your spouse first and foremost. Follow the scripture: "Love thy neighbor as thyself".

2. Narrow the Gulf: Whether it is a love marriage, arranged marriage differences are bound to arise. Both of you come from different backgrounds, upbringings and environments. You must be ready to overlook the sharp differences, lapses or shortcomings.

3. Forgive & Forget: Remember, to forgive is divine, and keep doing it, even if you have to repeat this process for infinite times.

4. Begin the Day Cool: Early in the morning, both spouses should try to remain calm and cool. No discussions or arguments in the early morning hours.

5. Silence Can Save: When you leave home for work in the morning, be at your best behavior. If one of you is provoked or complains, silence is the best answer. Conversely, you can say, "We will discuss it in the evening".

6. Inquire & Appreciate: After you return home, inquire and take interest in one another's activity during the day: "How was your day?" You must show your genuine appreciation and sympathy. Top it with a pleasant smile.

7. Listen & Sympathize: Do listen to your spouse attentively and sympathetically. Never ignore. Even at your place of work, if you get a telephone call from your partner, be polite and courteous, in spite of your busy schedule.

8. Don't Forget to Compliment: Make use of "Thank you", "Well done", "You have done a good job", and "I am sorry", as frequently as is necessary. Be generous in your praise and compliments.

9. Don't Compare: Do not enter into comparisons. No one is 100% perfect or 100% imperfect. We all have flaws and shortcomings. Always look at the good qualities of your spouse.

10. Keep Smiling: Be cheerful and smile away your problems. Give a smile as often as you can. Only a human person is endowed with this blessing. Animals do not have this rare faculty. Did you know you use only 20 muscles for a smile but 70 muscles for a frown? So, keep smiling!




Edited by Prasadini - 07 September 2012 at 4:51pm

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Posted: 07 September 2012 at 5:34pm | IP Logged
waow very nice

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Posted: 07 September 2012 at 5:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kslovers

waow very nice
Thanks yaarTongue

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Posted: 07 September 2012 at 6:04pm | IP Logged
Great advice Prasadini Hug...Hope our AarYa follow this advice LOL
Heart ur work...

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Posted: 07 September 2012 at 9:26pm | IP Logged
wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!
lovely advise 
 try to use in our daily life


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Originally posted by luv_lvndr

Great advice Prasadini Hug...Hope our AarYa follow this advice LOL
Heart ur work...
Thanks yaar let's hope So Wink
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Originally posted by luv_lvndr

Great advice Prasadini Hug...Hope our AarYa follow this advice LOL
Heart ur work...
Exactly.. Kudos to you Clap

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thank u and so correct... i hope AarYa read thisWink

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