Feeling shattered by the negative comments! - Page 4

@Thread Maker

@ TM , When you have non-biased veteran non-illiterate post makers like -sush- , and momma1128  agr😊eeing to disagree with you  you should know you have a problem. 

TMs Comments are in Blue. Mine are in red.

"It has to be understood that the "love", which the writer has stated on the heading does NOT have to connote, to the 'romantic love'. I understand that this is so typical of the audience to percieve it in this way. There is so much of 'love' in this serial! Love between Arnav and Khushi, love between Arnav and Anjali ( siblings love) love between Naniji and her grandchildren ( bond love) khushi's love for Jalebis! Anjali loves shyam! So much of love isn't it? This is what we have been watching, ever since the show began to this moment"

I disagree. The 'love' the writers had implied in the story had always been about two lovers without any platonic feelings for each other, their inability to put a clear cut definition to what they feel for each other. Love between Anjali and Arnav, love between Arnav and Nani etc has already been given a name. There's nothing puzzling about it. The story was sold as "Iss Pyar Ko Kya Naam doon" for Khushi and Arnav's relationship. Had the writers implied this name for all relations portrayed in the show, they didn't do a good job showing it in the beginning of the show and they cannot suddenly change the premise of the story after nearly one and a half years time.

Viewers tune in to watch Arnav and Khushi's love story, their evolving relationship and their dynamics between each other. The story must not lose focus on this aspect. Maybe the writers have suddenly changed their mind and want to convert it into what they are showing right now but the loss will be all theirs because none of us would want to watch it. They want to sell the product? Then they need to stick to what they showed us initially. Simple. No amount of justification posts like this will make the viewers change their minds regarding the show because at the end of the day people watch it for entertainment. It's a personal opinion. If you don't like it, you don't watch it. And you will come to the forum to complain about it. What's so wrong in it? That's what the forum is for.

So no I highly disagree on your words "This is what we have been watching, ever since the show began to this moment!" at least I (and almost all the forum judging by their comments) didn't sign into watch what they are showing right now.

 

"It is so selfish to be imagining that Arnav and Khushi will lead a life like Princess and Prince Charming! We need to move away from fairy tales and look at the reality! That is, ' Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon"

 

Oh exactly! We never tuned into watch a perfect love story. That was never the intension and it never will be. We WANT that star crossed love story back but the problem is they are NOT showing it right now. Have you seen any serious relationship dynamics explored between the lead pair for the past few weeks? NO! the focus has shifted from their story to some kind of twisted illogical family drama with a mentally deranged psychotic murderer and his equally brain addled wife.  

"Those of you who are putting bad remarks on the show, are putting bad remarks on the reality too!"

Haha sorry to be sarcastic but that's the joke of the century! You call this realistic? A man who dressed in fancy costumes slips inside a rich household, get past security, fix CCTV cameras, sabotage the electricity system, spew glass pieces on the carpet while there is no logical explaination as to how he got away with any of this is realistic?

A woman who has just miscarried at her 7 month pregnancy is hell bent on getting her psychotic husband back while not even giving a tupence notice to the fact that she just lost her child is realistic?

A woman claiming to love her husband more than anyone else on earth still stays at her brother's house while crib like a 3 year old is realistic?

Please don't get me started on the unrealistic aspects of this show. I will write several books by the end of the night.

At the end of the day we want to watch the show for entertainment. Enough patience has been bestowed on the show, hoping against hope that it would get back to normalcy, a logical plot line with better execution. But all is in vain. This trend of half hearted story telling had been seen for quite a few months now and people are no longer going to make excuses for not being able to enjoy the story. You can't make someone like the story if they don't like what they are seeing. The CVs need to pull up their socks and get their act together and produce episodes that can be enjoyed. Edited by CDlove - 11 years ago

Thread Maker, sorry.  Respectfully disagree with all your points. The story has lost its way and there is no denying that at least from the perspective of many viewers.  This is not to deny that everyone works very hard and so on, but things have gone seriously offtrack, and what is being shown is simply not resonating with a lot of viewers these days.  I have ff'd shyam anjali scenes throughout this last week.  it is not because I don't sympathise with a woman who has just lost her child, but I cannot relate at all with the way in which she and her situation have been portrayed.  Apart from how unrealistic it is to not have any signs of carrying a child for 7 months, and to have lacerations on your feet disappear overnight, I simply cannot relate to her manipulations and her lies and her outright deception to her family for a husband whom she knows tried to kill her brother.  If she is so pious and so on, where does all this lying come from?

And in any case for me it was, is and always will be a story of arnav and khushi's love and their amazing journey together.  That is the core of the story that first got me hooked, and, even when strong side actors are being shown, I as a viewer need to feel that it is still their story that this is all about.  but unfortunately it is less and less that by the day.  all this apart from the lacklustre execution on most days Edited by Dazee - 11 years ago

Sorry but I disagree with you. Edited by lazylad8 - 11 years ago

Awesum post!!! but unfortunately..totally disagree with u...

okay firstly i must say, i loved your way of writing though i dont agree with it. Edited by Lyraa99 - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Lyraa99

To be direct, anjali is being portrayed as a weak clingy selfish woman who only cares about her happiness... her brother was kidnapped and she didnt even bother giving that a second thought when it came to her happiness..

Where is the love here?

Arnav treated khushi wrongly-- in a way no girl should be treated even reaching to a point that can be categorized under domestic abuse. he might have been mislead. But when he got his facts right, there was no proper redemption. his eyes and attention was on his precious di..

where is the Love?

Payal and Khushi's relationship is also shown close knit. When khushi was depressed when Arnav was kidnapped, NK saw it in her eyes but Payal didnt..

Where is the love?

Shyam is supposed to "love" but that love went to the expent of killing everyone who came his way and even khushi when she said she didnt love him..

Where is the love?

Anjali loved Shyam but neither she could stand up to her husband nor try to prove him innocent by finding out the facts..

where is the love?

if love is such an unhealthy , fickle emotion.. then in this case they got the title right

iss pyaar ko kya naam doon??

Loved your post...you say it really well.

Daljeet acted incredibly mindblowing...😕 Edited by Siri22 - 11 years ago