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Kool…..I totally agree with what you said about the invalid wife. I remember seeing a Tamil movie (I think) long time back that showed that that the hubby got the invalid wife's sister to help out. In time, the sister became the wife in all aspects. The invalid wife just watched while the hubby and sister just prayed for her to die….Is this love….I can only say, I am glad I don't have a sister….if I am invalid, I could rather my hubby dropped me off or killed me somehow, before he does what his able man this….
Let me share another true story that actually happed between 2 friends of mine in collage….The girl in this story comes from my school which was only for girls. So, I knew her from school. We came to do graduate studies (equivalent to the undergraduate studies in USA) in a premier Indian institution. This girl fell in 'love' with a boy who also came from a only boys school. They were going steady for about 2 + yrs, when the boy's parent came to know of the affair. The parents didn't like the girl for some reason. Since the boy was the only child of the parent, he told the girl one day that he can't leave them to marry her. So, the alternative was, let us carry on as we are doing. And when the time comes, I will put you up in a nice flat and provide for you, but will never marry you, I will have to marry the girl my parents choses, but my love will only be yours. I will do my 'duty' to both,- to my wife as a duty to this girl for 'love"……man, I remember even to this day when this girl came crying to me and told all this. I am glad she could move on without her 'love'. To me, if loves equates only in a physical sense, then, I am better off without this love……
Yes, I don't believe that love is so vital that anything can be allowed under its pretext. If anyone willingly married someone else, it comes with its set of obligations that needs to be fulfilled. If a wife get invalid for some reason, the husband can't take undue advantage to the situation….yes, lot of things happens in reality, but if we say being in love gives us the passport to living a immortal life….I will, willingly live a loveless life….and to conclude, I must also say, not always ethics and mortality cannot be defined on set of SOP, rather it is a personal choice…and I am amply stated my personal preference here….
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