Ever
thought what does it take to be a doting bahu? Well, you don't always
have to rely on what you see but follow your heart. Whether its Akshara,
Sandhya, Jeevika, Gopi or Sushila all of them share an amazing
chemistry with their sasumaas. Today, these ladies are going to share
some simple secrets that go into making an ideal bahu. Let's hear them
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Don't try to change yourself", says Khushi
The
most important ingredient that goes into making an ideal bahu is to
just be yourself. Don't try to change yourself for others. The perfect
example in this case would be Khushi. Have you ever thought what would
happen if our bubbly and vibrant Khushi suddenly starts behaving
seriously? We all love her for what she is and she has also managed to
win the heart of the Raizadas with her qualities.
"You don't demand respect, it's mutual", says Jeevika
Treat
you in-laws just the way you would treat your own parents. Show that
you respect them and you will receive the same in return. Jeevika for
example has settled in well with Viren's family. They love her more than
anything else. In a very small period of time she has mingled with them
efficiently, don't you think so?
"Treat your mother-in law as a good friend", says Gopi
You
always ensure to clear the air about any doubt with your mother, then
why behave differently with your mother-in-law? Just follow the same
thing at your in-laws place too. Treat your mother-in-law as your own
mother and let her realize that she holds a very important position in
your life. Gopi shares everything with Kokila and this has worked
wonders in their relationship.
"Be affectionate", says SUSHILA
Clashes
are ought to happen if you are staying in a family. But the golden rule
is to ignore everything and tackle things easily. Handle things
lovingly rather than make it worse. Sushila and Sandhya too follow this
and have emerged as winners when it comes to gaining their in-laws' love
and affection.
What kind of relationship do you
share with your in-laws? Do share any other points which you think may
help. Also, let us know which bahu and in-law relationship you like the
most.