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The fine line between sensitivity & stupidity (Page 3)

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 5:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by S.Stephy

I agree...
 
Even I thought the same. When Khushi gave chances to Shyam initially, one could excuse her for being naive. But she has seen that Shyam has proved her wrong and she has faced dire consequences because of it. She has seen that Shyam could stoop to kidnapping and attempting murder. I can't see why she would still think of giving chances; instead I would have preferred to see her getting worried about everyone's safety on hearing Anjali and daadi wanting to bring Shyam back...
 
Edit: Btw, seems more like CVs weren't paying attention to the lack of logic in Khushi's reaction...
 
 
Seriously.. I mean ideally she should suspect that Shyam might have caused the accident.. ClapClap

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 5:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aditi_arshi

Agree every1 is loosing their brains on d show
I feel the right balance of sensitivity and instict - both characteristic of Khuhi's character - should be maintained.. and they have a winner there !!
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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 5:59am | IP Logged
Same mistakes made too often are called habits. 

She made an error in judgement once - all okay. 

She made the same error in judgment again - Okay

Now she is making the same error in judgement by believing the man who lied in front of her to the whole family, called her shameless, characterless woman, made her out to be the "other woman", made her out to be someone who lusts after others' husbands, a gold digger, tried killing her husband, pretended to be single, got engaged to her, grabbed a hold of her and didn't let go, to be good and a changed man- Not Okay. 


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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 6:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Japonica

Originally posted by ipkkndholic

This is not a bashing post.. but want to make it thought provoking.. So look forward to discussing it with you all..
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After yesterday's episode, I really felt like asking this.. If there is a similar post - MODS - please close this.


I can understand that Khushi thinks by heart.

And hence it probably is quite natural for her to expect that Shyam will change.


While I give her credit that she voiced her opinion ONLY in front of ASR.. it made me feel that it was very stupid of her to expect Shyam to change - after ALL that she has gone through or witnessed.


There is a fine line between being sensitive and being stupid.


When she expected Shyam to change - the first few times, I attributed that to her sensitive nature.. but now.. I feel they should show that she learnt the lesson and ideally should be convinced that Shyam will not change..


The reason I feel its important that CVs respect the fine line is because when Shyam is back @ home, they should show Khushi exposing Shyam's intentions.. they should not show her to be accepting / doing anything for Di's sake - even when she knows that Shyam hasn't changed..


<div>What do you feel friends?





Exactly!

The cvs are making Khushi straddle the fine line between stupidity and sensitivity. My cynical and tired soul feels this is again to focus on the sister and the woman playing the role.

Nevertheless, I in a sense agree with Khushi and that is because Anjali should be allowed to make her own decisions regarding her relationship with her husband. I wish the cvs would make this the reason for Khushi asking the creep to be brought back.
Instead we're given the impression the she is naive and stupid enough to believe that the creep has changed.

She should tell ASR that every woman has the right to make decisions regarding her life, ASR cannot live his sister's life, he can only be there for her when she needs him.

]And then as you say expose the truth about Shyam to everyone. Anjali will then have to learn to live with the consequences of the choices she makes in her blind love and dependency on her creep of a husband. At this point she should be allowed to make her choice.

That is the old fearless Khushi who would see the truth in every situation and would not hesitate in saying it. Instead, the cvs have once again meddled with her character.

If the cvs do this for Khushi, they would have redeemed themselves for the way they have ruined the show in the last 3 months.
 
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About Anjali making the decision - I feel that CVs are consistent with the protective trait of the characters.. Both Khushi and Arnav have protective nature.. both of them will manipulate the situation so that they can protect their loved ones..So I am still ok with them hiding the details of Shyam truth and somehow trying to convince Anjali that she need to learn to live without him.. Its just an immature way of dealing by adults in the house.. but may be they are aware of how "child-like" Anjali can be and hence they are being over-protective.
 
In principal I agree that she should be allowed to make her own decision and then learn to live with the consequences.. but I have seen this happening in many families where the girls are protected -- tooo much... Angry
 
- About Khushi exposing the truth.. they have really done injustice to her character by showing her lying at every possible opportunity.. You know.. I have now forgotten that fearless Khushi - who actually worshipped truth... I wish wish they bring her back...

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 6:06am | IP Logged
I agree with you.. Nice post.

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 6:07am | IP Logged
I might be in the minority...but I did not find the scene as stupid!!

All she said was we should let Shyam meet Di ONCE...She did not ask him to bring Shyam in the house forever...all she wants at this time is to bring some calmness for "DI"...for them to share the pain of their mutual loss...she has no idea that Shyam  is behind the death of his own child. 

I donno why, but I have feeling that this time, it will be Anjali, who will bring out the truth of Shyam...she needs a jolt and severe eye opener, that will happen when she herself sees Shyam's evilness...I know it is HIGH HOPES...par ummed pe duniya qayam hai!!!


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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 6:10am | IP Logged
Khushi doesn't think... no one thinks... that someone can be so low as to kill their own child! Loosing a kid causes tremendous pain that could indeed change anyone. Shaym's one act has brought his character to a whole new and disgusting level. I dont blame Khushi for thinking he might have changed! People need to stop bashing her. In the end, she agreed that he didn't change...she trusts Arnav's judgement and she will always support him. 

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 6:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ipkkndholic

Originally posted by Japonica

Originally posted by ipkkndholic

This is not a bashing post.. but want to make it thought provoking.. So look forward to discussing it with you all..

</div>

After yesterday's episode, I really felt like asking this.. If there is a similar post - MODS - please close this.




I can understand that Khushi thinks by heart.


And hence it probably is quite natural for her to expect that Shyam will change.




While I give her credit that she voiced her opinion ONLY in front of ASR.. it made me feel that it was very stupid of her to expect Shyam to change - after ALL that she has gone through or witnessed.




There is a fine line between being sensitive and being stupid.




When she expected Shyam to change - the first few times, I attributed that to her sensitive nature.. but now.. I feel they should show that she learnt the lesson and ideally should be convinced that Shyam will not change..




The reason I feel its important that CVs respect the fine line is because when Shyam is back @ home, they should show Khushi exposing Shyam's intentions.. they should not show her to be accepting / doing anything for Di's sake - even when she knows that Shyam hasn't changed..



<div>What do you feel friends?





Exactly!

The cvs are making Khushi straddle the fine line between stupidity and sensitivity. My cynical and tired soul feels this is again to focus on the sister and the woman playing the role.

Nevertheless, I in a sense agree with Khushi and that is because Anjali should be allowed to make her own decisions regarding her relationship with her husband. I wish the cvs would make this the reason for Khushi asking the creep to be brought back.
Instead we're given the impression the she is naive and stupid enough to believe that the creep has changed.

She should tell ASR that every woman has the right to make decisions regarding her life, ASR cannot live his sister's life, he can only be there for her when she needs him.

]And then as you say expose the truth about Shyam to everyone. Anjali will then have to learn to live with the consequences of the choices she makes in her blind love and dependency on her creep of a husband. At this point she should be allowed to make her choice.

That is the old fearless Khushi who would see the truth in every situation and would not hesitate in saying it. Instead, the cvs have once again meddled with her character.

If the cvs do this for Khushi, they would have redeemed themselves for the way they have ruined the show in the last 3 months.

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About Anjali making the decision - I feel that CVs are consistent with the protective trait of the characters.. Both Khushi and Arnav have protective nature.. both of them will manipulate the situation so that they can protect their loved ones..So I am still ok with them hiding the details of Shyam truth and somehow trying to convince Anjali that she need to learn to live without him.. Its just an immature way of dealing by adults in the house.. but may be they are aware of how "child-like" Anjali can be and hence they are being over-protective.


In principal I agree that she should be allowed to make her own decision and then learn to live with the consequences.. but I have seen this happening in many families where the girls are protected -- tooo much... Angry


- About Khushi exposing the truth.. they have really done injustice to her character by showing her lying at every possible opportunity.. You know.. I have now forgotten that fearless Khushi - who actually worshipped truth... I wish wish they bring her back...




I take your point about their protectiveness, though it is not doing anyone any good. In fact they are playing into the hands of the creep, who is getting away with even murder.
By the way i have still not understood why Shyam wants to come back into the house?


I so wish they would make khushi and ASR work quietly behind the scenes to expose the creep for who he is, instead of destroying Khushi's character n this way.

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