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Is marriage a child's play??

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:26am | IP Logged
Honestly what are CVs trying to show??? Be Mahaan and spoil your whole life...?? Is seriously marriage such a fickle thing to portray it like this...

I will begin with ArMan...a beautiful couple madly in love but lacks understanding...
1) the Shravani track - Arman who were a legally bound couple and madly in love with each other  decided to sacrifice their love for Shravani who was Manav's dead brother's girlfriend and was pregnant...Arman's marriage wasn't an issue at all...Shravani's dad just went to Manav and told him to marry Shravani despite knowing Archana-Manav were not divorced...and ArMan agreed to it in the quest of becoming Mahaan...

2) the court issue, Soham's death and after leap storyline - we all know about the court issue...how Archu decided to go against Manav for no reason at all...she went against Manav even when Manav was right...that was a differing opinion which every husband-wife face but due to their lack of understanding they stretched the problem to such an extent that Manav started ignoring Archu when she was pregnant with his twins! Slowly their problems started wrapping up...but Varsha ran away with Soham on the birthday of the twins because of Archu's mistake and due to this Soham died...I could understand Manav's feelings...his anger on Archu but how could he just took away her twins and go and settle in Canada...I know he send the tickets for Archu but he sent them through Savita who he knows hates Archu...where was his common sense and due to their lack of understanding they neither phoned  or tried to find out anything about themselves in 18 years!! And then after the leap they come face to face, get a chance to get back together but Archu throws it away for 'Sachu's' sake!!

Next in the line comes ArVi...

They met, fought, fell in love, got viewers addicted to them and then problems started surfacing in their life...

1) Arjun's shift to Chawl - Arjun took everyone's insults, everyone's hatred, gave up his father's name, the luxury and settled in a chawl just to prove he loves Purvi...he worked as a mechanic, made ends meet, and somehow completed Archu's challenge...but then in order to save Churan, he had to spend all his money...yet he decided not to tell this to Archu and work again...all these just for the girl he loves...Arjun had everything...he was a successful businessman but he threw it all away for Purvi...

2) Purvi's kidnap - When Arjun realized Purvi was kidnapped, he went ahead to save her, got shot, got himself to the hospital and yet decided not to go ahead with DK in his home but to settle in Chawl again...all these for Purvi...

3) Marriage with Ovi - after all these, when they are finally getting married, Purvi comes to him on their wedding night and tells him to marry Ovi for her mother...despite the previous night they had a heartfelt conversation where Arjun confessed she and Ashna were the most important people in his life...Purvi tells him 'prove your love'...so the Chawl drama, kidnapping drama were what??? and Arjun agrees...goes ahead and marries Ovi...

So what exactly does it lead both the couples to??? they all are in love but just due to some problems created by them in the first place they have to sacrifice their love...what does CVs portray by this?? that Manav can marry Shravani any day of the week without getting divorced with his first wife and Purvi can go and tell Arjun to marry someone else on the day of their wedding and Arjun agrees??? What is this?? a joke in the name of marriage?? is marriage so easy???

I have been closely connected to both ArMan and ArVi...i still watched the show even after ArMan's separation because they weren't married to someone else at least but Ekta destroyed ArVi to such an extent...and that's why i am quitting the show...shame on CVs for showing marriage to be so cheap!! Thumbs Down

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:46am | IP Logged
Good post...but unfortunately creatives sell anything for the sake of drama...then y spare marriage...I have always been asking why is Archu hurting 4 people including herself to get Manav married to Shravani...had he to marry her he would have done in this 18 years...that was the worst reason ever that CVs came up with to keep these two separated...

And marriages are always a toy to play with in serials...Take the example of Uttaran, where Ichcha sends her friend Tapasya in her place and plays with Veer's life by making decision for him even without consulting him..if Purvi had wanted to make her mothers life happy, she should have talked to her father and let him know the conditions on which Archana is doing this mahaanta...Purvi had no right whatsoever to play with Arjun's life...to command him to get married to Ovi and prove his love was like the worst thing that could happen to any person...i feel bad for that guy...but cant Purvi think that love cannot come as part of a condition...if Ovi is shrewd enough to sell love to her mother in return for Arjun, cant Purvi deduce that its not love but its just trade...

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:46am | IP Logged
Agree with you.Thumbs Up

Marriage is not a child play and a marriage is succesful where there is love.
Arjun does not love Ovi. Now they will have to adjust in their life or they will end up divorcingOuch

There should be a mutual understanding between the two partners. Ovi is Not understanding Arjun at all. If she understood him she will never come  between Arvi at all.

If they had to show someone as mahaan why not Ovi?? Sacrificing her one-sided love.

Being mahaan is not a good thing as 3 lives have been ruined.

But here marriage is nothing mere a child playAngry arriage should not be portrayed like this as people wiil lose faith in it.Confused


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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 3:51am | IP Logged
Agree with you that marriage is all about understandingSmile

But in Ekta's serials, marriage and divorce are all fun. When you feel like it you get married and if you don't then you divorce. The message that is sent across through PR on this marriage/divorce will lead to big disaster especially to the younger generations. We already have the highest number of divorce rate and she is rubbing salt to the wound. How will she even realise it unless she has either fallen in love or married.

Arjun and Purvi's character have been butchered to the maximum by Ekta and the CVs. She just had to do it mainly because most of the fans/viewers were after ArVi. They forget that there are so many loose ends that are just left hanging in the air and her only concentration was ArVi. In this we too are to be blamed as we keep as for more and more of ArVi where she just had to break our hearts.

You must realise by now that all those who want to watch PR Should leave their brain and heart aside. If you use your brain to think, the story never made any sense and if you feel for the characters, you get hurt.

Arjun's love for Purvi is unconditional that's why he agreed to her demand and got married to Ovi. Arjun is a man who kmows LOVE so he gave Purvi the freedom. Purvi's love for Archana is unconditional but not towards Arjun. In the other hand, Ovi was never in love with Arjun, she was only obsessed with him. It was more like her possessiveness of wanting him to be hers has been blinded and termed as LOVE. She could not see beyond it and her family refused to make her 

They saddest thing here is Ekta and the CVs made Arjun dumb. He believed and trusted Purvi with all her promises to him of being with him forever only to dump hi. In the end! In fact it was her who kept telling him that,she can't stay away from him and not to leave her which he promised that he never will. Purvi was blinded with her mother's love and not Arjun's. Maybe because he was so much in love with her that she did not realise it. When the realisation hits her, she is left dumb struck as nothing can be done to overcome it.

Lastly, we all can write and write and write as much as we want on any issues, but what Ekta and the CVs like that's what we will get to see.

Continue keeping your fingers crossed if need be otherwise for those who are still interested in PR, watch it just as an entertainment without any attachment towards the characters.

Ekta and her CVs can fool all the people some of the time and some of the people all the time but she cannot fool all the people all the time!

Sorry for taking too much of your time with my long post.


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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 4:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by NadaCinta

Agree with you that marriage is all about understandingSmile

But in Ekta's serials, marriage and divorce are all fun. When you feel like it you get married and if you don't then you divorce. The message that is sent across through PR on this marriage/divorce will lead to big disaster especially to the younger generations. We already have the highest number of divorce rate and she is rubbing salt to the wound. How will she even realise it unless she has either fallen in love or married.

Arjun and Purvi's character have been butchered to the maximum by Ekta and the CVs. She just had to do it mainly because most of the fans/viewers were after ArVi. They forget that there are so many loose ends that are just left hanging in the air and her only concentration was ArVi. In this we too are to be blamed as we keep as for more and more of ArVi where she just had to break our hearts.

You must realise by now that all those who want to watch PR Should leave their brain and heart aside. If you use your brain to think, the story never made any sense and if you feel for the characters, you get hurt.

Arjun's love for Purvi is unconditional that's why he agreed to her demand and got married to Ovi. Arjun is a man who kmows LOVE so he gave Purvi the freedom. Purvi's love for Archana is unconditional but not towards Arjun. In the other hand, Ovi was never in love with Arjun, she was only obsessed with him. It was more like her possessiveness of wanting him to be hers has been blinded and termed as LOVE. She could not see beyond it and her family refused to make her 

They saddest thing here is Ekta and the CVs made Arjun dumb. He believed and trusted Purvi with all her promises to him of being with him forever only to dump hi. In the end! In fact it was her who kept telling him that,she can't stay away from him and not to leave her which he promised that he never will. Purvi was blinded with her mother's love and not Arjun's. Maybe because he was so much in love with her that she did not realise it. When the realisation hits her, she is left dumb struck as nothing can be done to overcome it.

Lastly, we all can write and write and write as much as we want on any issues, but what Ekta and the CVs like that's what we will get to see.

Continue keeping your fingers crossed if need be otherwise for those who are still interested in PR, watch it just as an entertainment without any attachment towards the characters.

Ekta and her CVs can fool all the people some of the time and some of the people all the time but she cannot fool all the people all the time!

Sorry for taking too much of your time with my long post.



Agree wit ur bold pointsClap

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 4:24am | IP Logged
In Ekta's show marriage is a mere child play which she again and again mocks to her own liking..Every heroine who is in love will always have a sister/gf who would eventually be married to her man..

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 4:38am | IP Logged
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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 7:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by NadaCinta

Agree with you that marriage is all about understandingSmile

But in Ekta's serials, marriage and divorce are all fun. When you feel like it you get married and if you don't then you divorce. The message that is sent across through PR on this marriage/divorce will lead to big disaster especially to the younger generations. We already have the highest number of divorce rate and she is rubbing salt to the wound. How will she even realise it unless she has either fallen in love or married.

Arjun and Purvi's character have been butchered to the maximum by Ekta and the CVs. She just had to do it mainly because most of the fans/viewers were after ArVi. They forget that there are so many loose ends that are just left hanging in the air and her only concentration was ArVi. In this we too are to be blamed as we keep as for more and more of ArVi where she just had to break our hearts.

You must realise by now that all those who want to watch PR Should leave their brain and heart aside. If you use your brain to think, the story never made any sense and if you feel for the characters, you get hurt.

Arjun's love for Purvi is unconditional that's why he agreed to her demand and got married to Ovi. Arjun is a man who kmows LOVE so he gave Purvi the freedom. Purvi's love for Archana is unconditional but not towards Arjun. In the other hand, Ovi was never in love with Arjun, she was only obsessed with him. It was more like her possessiveness of wanting him to be hers has been blinded and termed as LOVE. She could not see beyond it and her family refused to make her 

They saddest thing here is Ekta and the CVs made Arjun dumb. He believed and trusted Purvi with all her promises to him of being with him forever only to dump hi. In the end! In fact it was her who kept telling him that,she can't stay away from him and not to leave her which he promised that he never will. Purvi was blinded with her mother's love and not Arjun's. Maybe because he was so much in love with her that she did not realise it. When the realisation hits her, she is left dumb struck as nothing can be done to overcome it.

Lastly, we all can write and write and write as much as we want on any issues, but what Ekta and the CVs like that's what we will get to see.

Continue keeping your fingers crossed if need be otherwise for those who are still interested in PR, watch it just as an entertainment without any attachment towards the characters.

Ekta and her CVs can fool all the people some of the time and some of the people all the time but she cannot fool all the people all the time!

Sorry for taking too much of your time with my long post.


@ bold - i completely agree with you...Arjun loves Purvi unconditionally...I am certainly not supporting what he did...he went ahead and married Ovi which was really wrong of him but he loves Purvi more than Purvi ever loved him...(it's just my opinion)...moreover Purvi loves her mother very much and she just cannot see that a relationship forced on people is not successful...I think only Manav cares for Archu in that house, not even Damo or Vandu or else they would not have kept their mouth shut all these years...and Manav is so much confused that he is not able to see anything...though i don't understand why he is not trying and rack his brains...

Purvi's idiotic decision will do more harm that good...she has spoiled her own life, Arjun's life, Ovi's life and Archu's life...and as far as Ovi is concerned, Ovi had a crush on Arjun when she was 14 which later become her obsession...because i believe if she did love Arjun she wouldn't be so unhappy on Arjun's happiness...on a side not i believe that all of these three - Arjun, Purvi and Ovi have spoiled their own life...Arjun -  by marrying Ovi when he is in love with someone else...Purvi - for doing all these and Ovi - for being what she is...

CVs have totally ended the beautiful relationship of ArVi...I don't know whether they will reunite or not but whatever it is i don't want Purvi to be the second woman in Arjun's life...I will  certainly never turn to watch the show again...Balaji Telefilms always does a good job of hurting their fans...

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