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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:41am | IP Logged
Exactly Rima!!
Anjali is not a minor teenager whose family have forbidden her to meet her boyfriend. She is an adult and she has the right to leave her home and to go with her husband. I think the CVs should show Anjali make her decision rgarding whom she wants to be with... and not show her younger bro or an 'until now non-existent' daadi decide her life!!  

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by msin

Why should any adult be anybody responsibility...asking Shyam to be called back in ur brothers house is wrong.. But I would have supported her if she had walked out..


Dadi has seen that Shyam and ANJali love each other and are being kept apart.. Because both of them in their own have said that to her..but again it's Arnav's house... She should have told Shyam to take ANJali to his place and take care of her..
exactly
that is normal human thinking and behaviour
why are CVs abnormal
and why are we called negative for pointing out the obvious

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by vs_2706

U r right  A married women becomes husband's responsibility 

If u say Arnav should have left the responsibility of Anjali to Shyam while he thought his good for nothing jiju is a good person at start but even that time he took the responsibility of her or to say including with her he also took the responsibility of her so called husband(Arnav was the one who was fulfilling their needs, wishes etc...)If we see they r living or rather say enjoying their brother's money while Arnav was working hard for them.I mean who would want to live in their maternal house after their marriage its like questioning ur husbands dignity.Every women should live their lives with her husband in his house rather than go and live in ur parents house with ur husband and enjoying ur brother's money.
Its ok if we go to our maternal house for vacation like a guest rather than to live their permanently and here 1) I am not saying one should break every relation with their maternal house after marriage but they should know where they belong to after their marriage and 2)If the girl is having any problem having in her marriage life then she should at least try on her own to solve her problems and when she can't solve on her own she can go to her brother or to say her parents.

ARNAV'S MISTAKE:-
Here in this show from starting itself Arnav was the one who was looking after Anjali even when he thought Shyam is a good husband then how come he will give her responsibility when he knows Shyam true color.If we see Arnav should say the full truth(terrace scene etc)abt shyam to Anjali rather than hiding the fact and trying to keep Shyam away from RM will not do good to anyone.Truth should be out in open wat he did and wat he said while confrontation.He should explain to his sister rather than trying to hide from her and expect her to accept his decision when she does not know the whole truth,according to her it was just a blaming game and a big MU from RM members.

ANJALI'S FAULT:-
If we see when their parents left them Anjali should be the one to console her brother and take her responsibility as an elder rather than Arnav.From starting she portrayed her weakness as a weak character rather than to be strong,she let others to take her life's decision rather taking her own decision.The problem is she is not willing to take her responsibility on her own or nor she once tried.Once married she should have left her brothers house but no she did'nt and when her brother is trying to save her from good for nothing husband she is willingly digging her own grave by asking for Shyam.If she wants Shyam in her life she should leave her brothers house and should go and leave with that creep husband and face the reality rather than leaving in fantacy and also putiing her brothers and Khushis life in danger.

1)If she go with Shyam by leaving her brothers house she will see his true color of her husband where he will show her his true color.
2)Since according to Shyam he wants to come to RM for money or luxurious life which  he will not get if Anjali leaves RM then he will show his true nature to Anjali and she will also learn her leason



 
very well said
 
if anjali walked out
she would know what kind of a scoundrel shyam is
yes as an elder sister she has never been arnav's strength
she has always relied on him
and she is ruining his life now

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:50am | IP Logged
Arnav should ask his sister to move in with her husband and take dadi along too!!!!!!!!

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:50am | IP Logged
i also think if anjali want her shayamji she can go live with him in her Sasuraal...and btw why is she still living with her husband in her maternal home ?

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ItIsMyLife

First of all...Dadi has no right to ask Arnav to bring back Shyam.Dadi left the two orphan siblings 14 years ago.She does not know how Arnav took care of Anjali,she does not know whom Anjali needs more,she does not know how Shyam is.So she should remain quite.She has no right to interfere in Arnav's decision.

Second...Anjali is a 35 years old woman.So she is no one's responbility.Yes since she is not financially independent her broher can provide her with money.But it is not his brother's duty.It is husband's duty.So yes Dadi's POV is right.But she is not.

Third...Anjali has no right to force Arnav bring back Shyam.But she has every right to leave RM with her husband.And any woman would have left with her husband long ago if her brother insulted her husband.So it gives us a clear picture about how is Anjali.

as always i agree on all your points
dadi has no right
anjali is old enough to make choices
and yes she has every damn right and she shud walk out

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 3:04am | IP Logged

what you are saying is not true, when the show started Anjali was all ready to go to their new house with shayam. it is shayam that manipulated the situation siting the is all the time out of state due to work and that Anjali will be alone. Arnav was willing to let Anjali live in her own house at the time because the trusted Shayam to be a good husband and look after anjali. but he retirated at that time because he didnt want her to be left alone in a new house. so he sugested that Anjali live with them for the time that Shayam is out.

how can you blame Arnav later on when he realised shayam truth, now he cant very well send his sister of with a man who stated the she was a hinderance in his love life, now he knows that Shayam not only kidnapped him but also tried to murder him how can he send her to live with shayam alone, now he feels more protective towards her, he cant trust Dadi becauese she does not know the truth and has proved that she can be easily taken in by shayam;
 
 
 

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 3:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by S.Stephy

Exactly Rima!!
Anjali is not a minor teenager whose family have forbidden her to meet her boyfriend. She is an adult and she has the right to leave her home and to go with her husband. I think the CVs should show Anjali make her decision rgarding whom she wants to be with... and not show her younger bro or an 'until now non-existent' daadi decide her life!!  
that is what it eels like...that she is a teenager
this is so funny if they did not treat it seriously

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