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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 6:59pm | IP Logged
every one is saying that the same way archana accepted purvi-arjun wedding, manav accepted ovi-arjun wedding and that is fine...there is something clearly wrong with this set-up:

first of all archana accepted arjun and ovi's wedding after understanding and seeing how much arjun loved purvi and vice versa...so it is natural for a mother to accept this and think that if they both love each other, they should get married s o that they can be happy. Anyone of us would do this. Even though Ovi is archus daughter, you cannot fuel your daughter's obsessive desire to have A MAN  who does not love her at all. So in all circumstances she had to accept Purvi-arjun because atleast two people who love each other would be happy. 

Also I think that Archu was rubbing the wedding and cards in Ovi's face fr her to realize harshly that Arjun was not meant for her...She knew pyaar se samjhane pe Ovi will never listen to Archu..so best is to show her the reality which she did. Although, yes...asking Manav to forecefully come and do kanyadaan of a daughter who he has never really known or loved is pushing it a little too far. Why would you ask Manav to do it when technically he is not her father at all. In 18 years never knew Purvi existed, has not seen her grow up, has no attachment whatsoever and plus choosing her kanyadaan over his own beloved daughter's sorrow, is stupid of Archu to push for. 

As far as manav is concerned, accepting Ovi-Arjun marriage is like being a blind horse and a headless father who aobviously does not seem to have any sense left in him after his own shattered marriage. He knows the reason why Arjun married Ovi and in this circumstance Arjun can never really love Ovi or give her the love of a husband that she probably deserves ( if she wasn't a psycho mad child) He will marry her, keep her, and give her all materialistic needs but will he ever be able to rise above his love for Purvi to love Ovi in the same way? Won't this be a one-sided marriage for life? IF Arjun can sacrifice his wedding and marry a girl he does not love at all, just because the girl he loves (Purvi) told him to do it for her one hour before the wedding, does Manav think that Arjun will ever stop loving Purvi after proving his love in front of everyone 100 times already, this wedding to Ovi being the final proof of his love for Purvi. 

MAnav has gone through the same track in his life before where he and Archu decided to sacrifice their love for Shravani. Was Manav ever able to keep Shravani happy? Was Manav ever able to get over Archana? Was he ever able to forget Archu and her love and fall in love with Shravani? No! He finally left Shravani mid-alter and ran to Archu. When Manav has gone through same situation, how can he think his daughter is going to be happy with a husband in the same situation who loves another woman more than anything else in the world ? How can Manav be alright about subjecting his daughter to the same grief that Shravani had to go through cuz Manav was madly in love with Archu and could never get over that? 

AS a father he should have slapped Ovi for agreeing to this union. He should have technically slapped Arjun also for playing with his daughter's emotions once again. just for his lady love. He should have packed up his kids and left for Canada leaving Archu and her Mahaanta and Mahaan daughter behind. As a father, that would have been the right thing to do. 

Instead, he is behaving like a brainless idiot who thinks chalo good atleast Ovi ka rona band hoga, she has got her Ken Doll that she wanted. Instead of thinking about how screwed up her future is going to be, he is hapy for the temporary relief in his and OVi's life because at least now he wont; have to pacify her day in and day out. 

But anyway, If Manav was a normal father, Ovi would never turned out like this in the frist place. He wold have given her some sanskaar and some sensibility, which obviously OVi does not seem to reflect. 

nly Teju seems to have grown up fine. I think Damu must have raised her alone while Manav was fawning over OVi and Savita was fawning over SAchu. 

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 7:17pm | IP Logged
Bullseye pari87 u spoke wat was in my mind.Excellent post Clap!
U said it all .Manav was in a similar situation before so i dnt know why he would be happy abt this union.Well that Ovi knows how to make everyone dance to her tunes.She cries like u said a psycho mad child and all those cold hearted Deshmuck clan so called hearts meltDead.She just needs to throw tantrums and everyone sympathise with her while behind their backs is scheming with Punni.
Well she was raised by Savita(her carbon copy) and Manav who spent his entire life grieving that Archana doesnt love him and his daughters.
PR =Bullshi%t
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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 7:20pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by pari87

every one is saying that the same way archana accepted purvi-arjun wedding, manav accepted ovi-arjun wedding and that is fine...there is something clearly wrong with this set-up:

first of all archana accepted arjun and ovi's wedding after understanding and seeing how much arjun loved purvi and vice versa...so it is natural for a mother to accept this and think that if they both love each other, they should get married s o that they can be happy. Anyone of us would do this. Even though Ovi is archus daughter, you cannot fuel your daughter's obsessive desire to have A MAN  who does not love her at all. So in all circumstances she had to accept Purvi-arjun because atleast two people who love each other would be happy. 

Also I think that Archu was rubbing the wedding and cards in Ovi's face fr her to realize harshly that Arjun was not meant for her...She knew pyaar se samjhane pe Ovi will never listen to Archu..so best is to show her the reality which she did. Although, yes...asking Manav to forecefully come and do kanyadaan of a daughter who he has never really known or loved is pushing it a little too far. Why would you ask Manav to do it when technically he is not her father at all. In 18 years never knew Purvi existed, has not seen her grow up, has no attachment whatsoever and plus choosing her kanyadaan over his own beloved daughter's sorrow, is stupid of Archu to push for. 

As far as manav is concerned, accepting Ovi-Arjun marriage is like being a blind horse and a headless father who aobviously does not seem to have any sense left in him after his own shattered marriage. He knows the reason why Arjun married Ovi and in this circumstance Arjun can never really love Ovi or give her the love of a husband that she probably deserves ( if she wasn't a psycho mad child) He will marry her, keep her, and give her all materialistic needs but will he ever be able to rise above his love for Purvi to love Ovi in the same way? Won't this be a one-sided marriage for life? IF Arjun can sacrifice his wedding and marry a girl he does not love at all, just because the girl he loves (Purvi) told him to do it for her one hour before the wedding, does Manav think that Arjun will ever stop loving Purvi after proving his love in front of everyone 100 times already, this wedding to Ovi being the final proof of his love for Purvi. 

MAnav has gone through the same track in his life before where he and Archu decided to sacrifice their love for Shravani. Was Manav ever able to keep Shravani happy? Was Manav ever able to get over Archana? Was he ever able to forget Archu and her love and fall in love with Shravani? No! He finally left Shravani mid-alter and ran to Archu. When Manav has gone through same situation, how can he think his daughter is going to be happy with a husband in the same situation who loves another woman more than anything else in the world ? How can Manav be alright about subjecting his daughter to the same grief that Shravani had to go through cuz Manav was madly in love with Archu and could never get over that? 

AS a father he should have slapped Ovi for agreeing to this union. He should have technically slapped Arjun also for playing with his daughter's emotions once again. just for his lady love. He should have packed up his kids and left for Canada leaving Archu and her Mahaanta and Mahaan daughter behind. As a father, that would have been the right thing to do. 

Instead, he is behaving like a brainless idiot who thinks chalo good atleast Ovi ka rona band hoga, she has got her Ken Doll that she wanted. Instead of thinking about how screwed up her future is going to be, he is hapy for the temporary relief in his and OVi's life because at least now he wont; have to pacify her day in and day out. 


But anyway, If Manav was a normal father, Ovi would never turned out like this in the frist place. He wold have given her some sanskaar and some sensibility, which obviously OVi does not seem to reflect. 

nly Teju seems to have grown up fine. I think Damu must have raised her alone while Manav was fawning over OVi and Savita was fawning over SAchu. 

Perfectly put especially in Bold.Clap..CV's have destructed Manav's character in such a way that his blind love for his daughter Ovi has clouded his judgement that the man whom she is married now is never going to love her again.She should slapped both Ovi and Arjun and taken Ovi with him seriously pissed.He should blasted the crap out of Arjun for thinking Ovi as some use and throw policy ,first reject her and then just coz his lady love asked him he married her.
Men in PR are spineless fools who would do anything their lady love asked.Manav deciding to come to Kanyadhaan leaving Ovi alone ,knowing her state was such a farce.Again he went there for Archu.On the other side we have Mr Arjun who is emotionally black-mailed few hours before his marriage from his lady love to marry the same girl who he dumped before for his lady love.
Men in PR are spineless goats whose only work is move their head their lady love ask them to move.Guess Ekta is hell bent showing men to be suckers in this show.Ouch

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 7:32pm | IP Logged
Exactly like you both said - all this I am guessing from the SBS segment...I can only hope that they show him atleast being angry for a bit instead of showing his confused expression that has become his trademark for every shocking scene in the show. It's like Manav has lost all personality post the leap. The strong, passionate, confident Manav is reduced to a self-pity wallowing father and husband who has never had control over his life nor his children's life. It is such a pity that the role of MAnav that Sushant Singh Rajput made so popular with his brilliant acting is being shown to tatter under all the women in his life ( Savita, Archu, and now the daughters), with no head, thought or spine of his own. Hiten Tejwani is such a brilliant actor esp since his Kutumb days that I feel bad that he has been given the most lallu role in this BS serial, with no scope of emotion acting or personality. Just a puppet and now Arjun is on his way to follow Father-in-law's footsteps, instead of becoming more like DK, his father who after all these years has still kept the pre-generation leap personality intact. 

I won't be watching the track here on but I will keep checking the forum to see how much more deterioted can the show get. Reading is better than watching and boiling blood and raising BP over Ekta and her schemes. 

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 7:44pm | IP Logged
Deepika, well said.  I was wondering not a word of recrimination against Ovi?  Arjun tells them why he had to marry Ovi and the adults accept this like dummies?  Have they all lost their senses/
 
Is Manav so ecstatic that his idiot child has finally gotten what she wanted, her Ken doll that he as a father could not provide, that he is prepared to overlook all?  or is he beside himself with joy that his beautiful doll of a wife has been returned to him and who cares for the hungama so long as he doesn't have to gather up the courage to go through with the divorce?
 
Spineless, shameless, excuse of a father. 

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 8:19pm | IP Logged
Exactly Deepika yaar feel so bad for Hiten..Sush left the show rightly before the court case fiasco began which lead to the long 18 year leap..
Guess Ekta coaxed Hiten in believing that his role is going to like the current confident Manav role that Sush left..Hell did Hiten imagine what's coming his way..Feel so bad for Hiten..Poor guy..Such a awesome actor been a fan of his from Kutumb days and now his role of Manav has become so degraded.Sush would be such a relieved man ,to quit a show in its peak takes guts and he wisely choose it.
Even Sush would be wondering what has Manav's character become..
Feel really sad that Ekta can treat her to go man Hiten for so many years like this.
I am hoping at least at least Manav is shown to be angry on them..let him accept them or do whatever he wants but at least show some anger towards Ovi and Arjun..
Another spineless goat is DK..How about DK all eager and excited about Purvi being his daughter in law and singing praises about the Devi's - Archu n Sulo show some anger..Guess not..He seems to be equally happy about Arjun - Ovi marriage .His son has married first secretly heeding to a senseless request from his lady love and that to the same girl he dumped.Wont DK even bother to ask questions that he is ready to come to the reception of Arjun - Ovi and is gaga and happy over it.so is DK reaction going to be let it go now ,that's it..Well when has DK ever reacted..The guy has been recently been a silent admirer of his Devi's (Archu,Sulo) especially Archu .
Manav - DK - Arjun duo are classic examples of spineless men goats who will do anything their lady love ask them to do.
One can give a hoots about his own daughter and come n do kanyadaan leaving her all alone knowing her state just coz his lady love requested him to do so senselessly
Another agrees to marries a girl he dumped before for his lady love just coz his lady love requested him for a senseless happiness that she thinks she is giving her Aai.
Another least bothered about anything ,all excited to have Purvi his daughter in law and being a silent admirer of his devi's comes to know that his son has married the girl he dumped in the name of senseless sacrifice is ready to just move on without asking questions and is all gaga and happy to have their reception and comes n inquires to Manav "IS there any issue"...
Men in PR unfortunately are the real suckers in this show thanks to Ekta 

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