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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 8:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ShaunSA

Qualities of an ideal bahu... actually we can point and laugh at saas/bahu serials but they do have some sense in them Tongue

From my own experiences with my mil...

Treat her like your own mother. Never ever differentiate between the two. She may seem like a witch to you but this is the same woman who raised the man that you love. How bad can she actually be?

If her son is happy she will be happy. Make him happy and half the battle is won. 

Making him happy involves being able to prepare a fairly decent meal that includes all his favorites. Learn her favorites too and make them without her asking.

Be able to handle a household. That includes cooking, cleaning, washing, scrubbing. Hired help and the washing machine and dishwasher are fine but they are not always there.

Know how to manage finances. Don't be lavish. Be frugal and make wise economic decisions. You won't earn her admiration by frittering away hard-earned money irrespective of whether it is yours or his! 

Always ensure that your family progresses. That's all she wants to see. She wants to know that one day when she is gone her son and his family are in great hands.

Remember that one day you will be in her position. Treat her the way you want your future dil to treat you!

And last but not least... love her son... and make sure it shows!




Thanks, man! Tongue I can do the cleaning, but forget about the cooking! Dead




Edited by RachP - 06 September 2012 at 8:43am

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