Posted: 06 September 2012 at 6:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000American audience applaud when a girl goes after Her man . They believe that all is fair in love and war . In American soaps the girl goes after even a married man . She simply follows her heart as she believes she has one life to live . Americans believe that if the man files for divorce its his burden not the girl's fault ...he is answerable to his wife not the girl .
But this is India and an Indian soap .
Here Arjun is unmarried .
Here Arjun was engaged to Ovi [ without a party thrown in as befitting their status but nevertheless with the blessings of the elders and it was he who proposed without any kind of force].
Here Ovi loved him since puberty and she never was interested in boyfriends although it was a developed country .
Her fiancee comes for a project tp another country and falls for another girl and what should she do ?
Quietly , chupchap move out of his way and not question him or the girl . In short , she should just roll over . Then she will be 'good Ovi.'
She should accept her mother 's decision who is divorcing her father yet again ...her decision ...her atrocious decision if i may add ...[one among the many she has taken in her life] quietly like a 'good' ' obedient' child and cling to her and even weave the flower garlands for the Arjun Purvi wedding .
If people tell me Kools you are going too far , all we are asking is that she ' respect' others feelings may I ask
Why should there be a control button on Ovi's feelings while the feelings of Arjun Purvi should be uncontrollable ?
Infact so uncontrollable are they that he renounced is dad , business everything and lived in poverty for her ...he had got it that badly . But Ovi should not get it that badly ...only he . Why ? Am puzzled . Who makes these rules ?
What is underhanded about that deal ? She offered the deal to her mother , then to her adopted daughter who had created a havoc in her peaceful life .
Had she told Purvi to hide the deal from Archana or Arjun ?
Had she told Purvi to hide from Archana that it was she who had postponed the divorce for 10 days ? Later she was smart enough to heave a sigh of relief that Purvi did not tell her name but the decion was Purvi's alone right ?
The truth is Purvi , who was smart enough to smell deals as she was a smart working girl grabbed the deal out of her own wish the moment it was offered to her by constantly thinking and mulling over it . This deal would give her Aai everything ...Aai was personally foolish and stubborn and going about it the wrong way .
Arjun was totally under her thumb [ many are gonna hate me for spelling it out so bluntly] and making Arjun listen was her job .
Purvi realised quickly that it was a good deal and sold Arjun for her Aai's happiness .
But Purvi is noble . So is Arjun who has been cracking deals with DK all his life . Ah i forgot . One makes deals in business not in life .
Says who ? This entire life we get is a deal with God if u believe in him and if you are smart enough to know what you want you win . Purvi wanted Archana's happiness and Ovi wanted only Arjun .
And Arjun? Trust me , he is better off without Purvi . I would hate to be sold like that ...and be eternally grateful to the deal maker for exposing the real face .
Kool..absolutely correct.. but it;s a harsh & blunt truth..I am very sure that these things(Arjun-Purvi-Ovi) do happen in real life but what is fair for everybody involved?
If I step aside and look at it.. Arjun and Ovi are the most selfish ones.. Arjun went after what he wanted and Ovi went after what she wanted.. The indian Sankaari girl, adoped kid is the one got affected in this whole situation in every step of her way. How she handled it is a different story.
She can not force Arjun to marry Ovi. By doing so, she has portrayed herself as a selfish person.
Ovi asked her to leave Arjun, she never asked Purvi to convince Arjun to marry her. Why she has to do that step on her own. Arjun was very upset and AKish when he agreed to marry Ovi..
I want to see whether the marriage is going to work or what he is planning to do..
Besides..Purvi is very gentle in our hearts, so I am not able to take your version..Kool, I always love your sarcasm but not able to do that today. We are emotionally hurt..
The current gen kids (American or Indian kids) are very very practical (mostly) and less emotional. They get over things very fast and take care of their needs before others' need.
Whereas I am (an FOB, not fresh..15 years in US) the one who fall for this emotional blackmail and expect a fair deal.
Let me do a different post about your Americans and American soap..