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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RickyBahl

Originally posted by IshqSufiyana

Bang on post, Member are always like "Reported" Mods are Topic closed for just giving your POV! I mean not everyone is going to have the same opinions as you so learn to respect others opinions and feelings.  

the problem is jealousy.

some ppl cant tolerate any TM scoring well with a proper point in the forum.

so what s the easiest way
pull down that post, REPORTED.

this act is so childish

Hug

The problem is that when you make an admirable argument with those TM's and they have no bloody answers to them, then they just go and cry Mommy to the MODS.
It is such a shame when the TM cant even defend her own posts and come up with a counter point.

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RickyBahl

Originally posted by rushshri

Originally posted by priya_86




Rishu I completely agree with you when you say ppl have their own choices for being negative and positive. We all are ladies facing so much real life tensions, i am sure even u must have, just to get refresh our brains and mood we watch what we like the most and want to share our own ideas and feelings here.

What u find positive, i may find negative. The answer is in your thoughts which we pen down marvelously. i don't want to add anythg nor deduct. It's just that ppl in the name of positive criticism comes to a discussion of personal lives of actors, bashing characters with unnecessary words , that's what I call negativity which I try to avoid in my post. I can paste here many links which runs pgs discussing the same and sometimes attacking members too.

Liberty of sharing thoughts is another thg and liberty of sharing thoughts which can hurt someone is another. I never make a post except 2 where I hurt someone's feeling. For those 2 I regret and felt sorry. even i feel sometimes the negativity of show but I prefer not to discuss. That's it.

p.s I think ur post is related to my discussion thread where I mention to be positive just to avoid the comments which i mentioned above. Here's is the link. inviting u to share ur own ideas with all positivity.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3181324
Thnks Rushshri for ur POV. i have no problem with ur thoughts.Its ur opinion entirely .
My post was not directed at u at all. There was another post that called the forum as kind of  negativity lab. I will read ur post properly in peace .

Let me elaborate ur  stance
yes we  all hav eour daily problems and if somebody doesnt like the post he/she can click the close button and move out but not give commentary on posts being made.

let me clear u ..By gyaan  i mean- nobody shud  advise what kind of posts TM's shud make.
Every TM's can write negative, positive whatever he/she feels till the extent of being rude the forum allows. OK. The post i talked was not about the show in general but about what me  n my bunch of frends write. Thats completely against IF  to write a post targetting a group of people. thats why my post is a reaction to that. Clear. I have no problem if someone like sthe show , or track. or writes drooling posts. 
I  have problem wen someone questions the content me and many write.
Firstly again i wud say i write for majority and the majority out here is totally dissapointed.
I have no problem if u are liking this track.Its ur wish..its ur life..who am i to say u..dislike or agitate?similarly i expect none to give bhashans on my content.

In India Forums the general ethics is if we dont like a post we dont enter that thread unless that is pointing fingres to ppl personally . That post was pointing fingers at ppl directly thats why this Post being made..or else i wudnt have made if it was a  apprcialtion post of daljeet who is being hated like hell these days in forum.  So  hope ur doubt is clear..

Next point is
suppose an example-  u r  a big khushi fan and i am hating her presently and i write a post crticising her.
But if u come and quarrel with me in my thread thats inappropraite bcoz
No doubt u are her big fan and cant  tolerate  posts against her. But neither my post is about u directly, neither u r  khushi urself that u have to cme to my post and speak expletives. U cant be the spokesperson for Khushi. The forum allows crticism of actors, characters within a limited frame work.  The  moment the moderator find the content offensive to huge extreme they wont close the thread they will remove it directly.
My point is if u r a khushi fan..u shud not care what others write..u write a separate post writing 100 qualities of Khushi.. Not by coming to my thread and teaching me that u r affceted by my post..

thats what i dont want to make..If i am a salman khhan fan and if SRK fans say that salman makes just remakes..why shud i be offended??his saying will not change my love for  my fav actor.
My question is somebody writes against ur fav star ..why to get agitated. i dont get agitated.
Bcoz forum is allowing that till a huge extent..u cant challenge the working of forum coz u dont like ur fav actor being criticised. 
Go and attack that thread if that thread is pointing out you and writing bad about you.
No one had to be the Publicist of stars, characters here in the forum
the moderators are there to see over it.

Why love for a fav star is limited to a post and some person saying that.
Can u go n stop 10000 ppl outside saying wrong about Khushi.No na??? so why policing and acting as bharat mata on the forum.
Get hurt if somebody is insulting u.
Not get offended if a TM doersnt like ur fav star or acror or serial..
every one has freedom to express within IF guidelines

I used a example ..didnt mean u direct. hope u understand my POV..










thnx for clearing the doubts rishu, waiting for u in my post to know ur take for yesterday's post.Smile

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:54am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RickyBahl

Originally posted by rushshri

Originally posted by priya_86




Rishu I completely agree with you when you say ppl have their own choices for being negative and positive. We all are ladies facing so much real life tensions, i am sure even u must have, just to get refresh our brains and mood we watch what we like the most and want to share our own ideas and feelings here.

What u find positive, i may find negative. The answer is in your thoughts which we pen down marvelously. i don't want to add anythg nor deduct. It's just that ppl in the name of positive criticism comes to a discussion of personal lives of actors, bashing characters with unnecessary words , that's what I call negativity which I try to avoid in my post. I can paste here many links which runs pgs discussing the same and sometimes attacking members too.

Liberty of sharing thoughts is another thg and liberty of sharing thoughts which can hurt someone is another. I never make a post except 2 where I hurt someone's feeling. For those 2 I regret and felt sorry. even i feel sometimes the negativity of show but I prefer not to discuss. That's it.

p.s I think ur post is related to my discussion thread where I mention to be positive just to avoid the comments which i mentioned above. Here's is the link. inviting u to share ur own ideas with all positivity.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3181324
Thnks Rushshri for ur POV. i have no problem with ur thoughts.Its ur opinion entirely .
My post was not directed at u at all. There was another post that called the forum as kind of  negativity lab. I will read ur post properly in peace .

Let me elaborate ur  stance
yes we  all hav eour daily problems and if somebody doesnt like the post he/she can click the close button and move out but not give commentary on posts being made.

let me clear u ..By gyaan  i mean- nobody shud  advise what kind of posts TM's shud make.
Every TM's can write negative, positive whatever he/she feels till the extent of being rude the forum allows. OK. The post i talked was not about the show in general but about what me  n my bunch of frends write. Thats completely against IF  to write a post targetting a group of people. thats why my post is a reaction to that. Clear. I have no problem if someone like sthe show , or track. or writes drooling posts. 
I  have problem wen someone questions the content me and many write.
Firstly again i wud say i write for majority and the majority out here is totally dissapointed.
I have no problem if u are liking this track.Its ur wish..its ur life..who am i to say u..dislike or agitate?similarly i expect none to give bhashans on my content.

In India Forums the general ethics is if we dont like a post we dont enter that thread unless that is pointing fingres to ppl personally . That post was pointing fingers at ppl directly thats why this Post being made..or else i wudnt have made if it was a  apprcialtion post of daljeet who is being hated like hell these days in forum.  So  hope ur doubt is clear..

Next point is
suppose an example-  u r  a big khushi fan and i am hating her presently and i write a post crticising her.
But if u come and quarrel with me in my thread thats inappropraite bcoz
No doubt u are her big fan and cant  tolerate  posts against her. But neither my post is about u directly, neither u r  khushi urself that u have to cme to my post and speak expletives. U cant be the spokesperson for Khushi. The forum allows crticism of actors, characters within a limited frame work.  The  moment the moderator find the content offensive to huge extreme they wont close the thread they will remove it directly.
My point is if u r a khushi fan..u shud not care what others write..u write a separate post writing 100 qualities of Khushi.. Not by coming to my thread and teaching me that u r affceted by my post..

thats what i dont want to make..If i am a salman khhan fan and if SRK fans say that salman makes just remakes..why shud i be offended??his saying will not change my love for  my fav actor.
My question is somebody writes against ur fav star ..why to get agitated. i dont get agitated.
Bcoz forum is allowing that till a huge extent..u cant challenge the working of forum coz u dont like ur fav actor being criticised. 
Go and attack that thread if that thread is pointing out you and writing bad about you.
No one had to be the Publicist of stars, characters here in the forum
the moderators are there to see over it.

Why love for a fav star is limited to a post and some person saying that.
Can u go n stop 10000 ppl outside saying wrong about Khushi.No na??? so why policing and acting as bharat mata on the forum.
Get hurt if somebody is insulting u.
Not get offended if a TM doersnt like ur fav star or acror or serial..
every one has freedom to express within IF guidelines

I used a example ..didnt mean u direct. hope u understand my POV..








See at the end of the day, whether we belong to "positive" group or "criticism" group (purposely quoted them), we all want IPKKND to do well. We all are upset to certain extent, some more some less, but the way of showing it is different. Smile

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 1:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rockingcouple

Originally posted by RickyBahl

Originally posted by rockingcouple

As you said positivity and negativity differ from one person to another..exactly..after watching the episode i try to see what is good in that episode..and feel myself relaxed and cheerful..rather then getting sad by thinking why it is happening like this..it should happen like that..
As i strongly believe that thinking positive will make life to live easier...so rather then thinking the glass half empty..i think the glass is half full..so this our way of looking towards life..and this is what i apply while watching this serial..and even am not asking anyone to follow this..this is just my honest opinion..

yes thst very aptly said.i UNderstand ur view
as u said about being glass being empty half n full it again depends on ur choice. I cant dictate u neither u can to me. as u said positivity will make life easier..again ur definition of positive might vary from me.  For some one crticising is for betterment and thats positive and for someone ignoring is positive. So it diffrers from person to person .

Completely respect your point of view..but i certainly feel that continous criticism will make a person paralysed..which will effect their growth also..but sometimes a single word of encouragement will also make miracles..it will be like a oasis in a desert..
So if we liked atleast 0.1 in any episode.before going for critcising if we appreciate that small thing also will make a lot of difference..and this is completely my pov.

two things out here.iam speaking from majority pOV
i wrote clearly in my post- Its since kidnap that  majority is not liking the episodes.they have lost cool and all agitating posts  are a reflection of feelings. We waited n waited,,things didnt work for better so majority have lost the patience.How do u expect if ppl to appreciate even if they  are not liking arshi scenes also. I agree some are enjoying but as i said iam speaking in behalf of majority POV.So no question of encouragement..many polite posts requesting changes have been submitted  to the Cv's but no response to that effectively.

secondly again try to understand what u mean by definition of encouragement may vary from me too. Its all about perspective. What u think is continous criciticism is not criticism..Its feedback to change to The Cv;s for many people. 
Forum members are still aprreciating 0.1 positive aspect  against negatives ..or else no one wud spend time in this portal and still watch episoded and read written updates.
this show affects us, our lives ..what can be the biggest apprciation from our side to Cv's than this fact????

So for u appraciating 0.1 may be a good thing but for me all are already appreciating n supporting by tolearting even the  bad tarck with a smile on face..what can be a bigger appreciation than this.
those 2.8 trp ppl who are still supporting..even after such a bad track..is the testimony of appreciation.

UR POV for appreciation, Making Posts, Positive, encouragement differs from me completely.
so i can neither force u to accept what i feel. iam fine with it.

But i stand to what i say and i will always
the Show has gone to doomsday

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:04am | IP Logged
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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RickyBahl

Originally posted by rockingcouple

Originally posted by RickyBahl

Originally posted by rockingcouple

As you said positivity and negativity differ from one person to another..exactly..after watching the episode i try to see what is good in that episode..and feel myself relaxed and cheerful..rather then getting sad by thinking why it is happening like this..it should happen like that..
As i strongly believe that thinking positive will make life to live easier...so rather then thinking the glass half empty..i think the glass is half full..so this our way of looking towards life..and this is what i apply while watching this serial..and even am not asking anyone to follow this..this is just my honest opinion..

yes thst very aptly said.i UNderstand ur view
as u said about being glass being empty half n full it again depends on ur choice. I cant dictate u neither u can to me. as u said positivity will make life easier..again ur definition of positive might vary from me.  For some one crticising is for betterment and thats positive and for someone ignoring is positive. So it diffrers from person to person .

Completely respect your point of view..but i certainly feel that continous criticism will make a person paralysed..which will effect their growth also..but sometimes a single word of encouragement will also make miracles..it will be like a oasis in a desert..
So if we liked atleast 0.1 in any episode.before going for critcising if we appreciate that small thing also will make a lot of difference..and this is completely my pov.

two things out here.iam speaking from majority pOV
i wrote clearly in my post- Its since kidnap that  majority is not liking the episodes.they have lost cool and all agitating posts  are a reflection of feelings. We waited n waited,,things didnt work for better so majority have lost the patience.How do u expect if ppl to appreciate even if they  are not liking arshi scenes also. I agree some are enjoying but as i said iam speaking in behalf of majority POV.So no question of encouragement..many polite posts requesting changes have been submitted  to the Cv's but no response to that effectively.

secondly again try to understand what u mean by definition of encouragement may vary from me too. Its all about perspective. What u think is continous criciticism is not criticism..Its feedback to change to The Cv;s for many people. 
Forum members are still aprreciating 0.1 positive aspect  against negatives ..or else no one wud spend time in this portal and still watch episoded and read written updates.
this show affects us, our lives ..what can be the biggest apprciation from our side to Cv's than this fact????

So for u appraciating 0.1 may be a good thing but for me all are already appreciating n supporting by tolearting even the  bad tarck with a smile on face..what can be a bigger appreciation than this.
those 2.8 trp ppl who are still supporting..even after such a bad track..is the testimony of appreciation.

UR POV for appreciation, Making Posts, Positive, encouragement differs from me completely.
so i can neither force u to accept what i feel. iam fine with it.

But i stand to what i say and i will always
the Show has gone to doomsday


I completely respect your point of opinion..and everyone have there own perspective to look at the issue..and i accept what priya said that at the end of the day we want our serial to do good..Smile












Edited by rockingcouple - 06 September 2012 at 2:11am

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Posted: 06 September 2012 at 2:07am | IP Logged
@priya_86
i agree our way of expressing diffrers
All i want is IF rules are to be maintained.
forum is allowing bashing actors, characters within a ceratin code of ethics..so if someone is offended by a actor bashing post that is folowing guidelines  so he/she must be ready for the backlash and shudnt complain and cry  if he/she is insulted for entering and interfering in that thread.

But not to that the extent that if my fav star is criticised i dont hv that much of acceptance to ignore it . How can my love for my fav star or serial depend on someone telling her or him to quit.
have to rise above posts and love stars naturally.


i believe live and let live 
why shud others hating my star bother me so much

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Have stopped watching the show.
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