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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 11:06am | IP Logged
J got what he deserves... if i was in bhairon's place i would have done the same...

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 10:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by AnjaliAnjum

 
Tinoo,

I totally agree with every bit of your opinions.  And I know how careless he was in treating his own family members.  No words to explain those moments.

I too was so surprised that he started this come-back with yet another lie.

Somehow I felt sad seeing this guy walking away with torn clothes, etc.. It was just a pity, not the forgiveness from my side.  No one can ever forgive such a person.






You are 100% right.


@Anjali

I completely understand ur point. I m also mother of two and living this open society where ek ek pair phoonk phoonk kar rakhnee hoti hai. I am the good and bad  both because my hubby will only spoil them so I have to give them bitter treatment time to time to my preteen. In us these kids have sleep over system but my kids are only allowed to their relative's house sleep over and now my daughter started showing all the tantrums for many things and did eat dinner few nights(not in row). But my answer was still no for certain things. Even I didn't eat dinner those nights but now she is fine and knows the reasons.

So moral is some times you have to be harsh to bring them back.  Just like medicine or injections.


Edited by mmishra1 - 05 September 2012 at 10:55pm

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 10:53pm | IP Logged
Not sad, the way he treated his family was horrible ! He is getting what he did

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 11:08pm | IP Logged
but i don't feel bhairon was harsh..rather he was justified i his action jagiya disappointed him to that extent that bhairon was compelled to do so and bhairon was tensed too about anandi's future...

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 11:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by vamita

Anjali, If you see the episodes of last year, you will know, that Bhairon had tried to reason with Jagya at every point...They let him stay even when he came with Gauri...But Jagya had so dissapointed him to the point that he feels no mercy for him...He tried to insult Anandi every step of the way, same girl who saved his life...He insulted her for not being educated, even though he knew in what circumstances she grew up...He lied for 5 years and changed his name, same name which was so fondly choosen by his parents...And he changed it without a thought...Next he even sold the one locket, which he knew had fond memories of his dadaji, which his dadisa gave him with so much love...He bought other girl after marrying, not once thinking about what they would go through, or how they would face Anandi after that...He never thought of Anandi, how she would feel...Never defended her when Gauri insulted her so much...He did not even think, when he asked about the property rights, and put a condition that if he did not get his share, he would not give Anandi divorce...How low a person can get? Bhairon knows what Anandi has gone through every step of the way, how can he just forgive him...?
I am a mother of two as well...And I know one should forgive our childrens mistake...But this is no small mistake...Adultery and such behaviour never should be accepted and I am glad that there are people who support their D-I-L at the cost of their son...I feel for Sumitra and dadisa...But the tears Jagya gave are more heavier than what he is going through now...But I am sure, the day Jagya really really realizes his faul...I am saying this, because still after all this, his ego is intact and he takes few people like dadisa and Anandi as his property thinking that they will do anything for him no matter what...But dadisa has put him in his position now...I am not sure what Anandi would do now...
 
But coming back to the point, for some mistakes, the path to redemption is very hard...To think that everything will be forgiven so easily, is more egoistic issue...He has taken so long time to realize his mistakes...But did he think how many tears he has given in these years to his family and Anandi? Still he feels that they should forgive him as soon as he asks for one...Do you think, this is the person who is very very sorry talking?
 
If Jagya is really sorry, he should take up his responsibility and fulfil his parents wish and do what needs to be, instead of roaming here and there like a begger...!
 
And Anandi, I don't have much to say for her, till I see tomorrow's episode...!


I fully agree with your retrospection
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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 11:16pm | IP Logged
People make mistakes but the lame part is that we forget our own mistakes...
 
Can anyone sate that what DS did to her three beendeens...how she insulted  their parents(watch two yeras old episodes) how she misbehaved with all the three families...comparing that one Jagya did only minor mistakes...if DS is still ruling the family..no one still dares to correct her..she is forcing her decision on Anandi still now...Bhairv and Singhs including DS are biggest culprit...IF DSMAKES MISTAKE SHE IS ACCEPTED..IF TAU SA MAKE MISTAKES BY CRTICISING aNANDI..HE IS PARDONED...GEHAN MISBEHAVES WITH ALL..SHE IS PARDONED..BUT WHEN POOR  JAGYA COMES ...NO ONE EVEN LISTENS TO HIM AND HE IS A VICTIOM OF ASSUMPTIONS MADE BY HIS FATHER...HE IS A VICTIM OF BEING CHEATED BY HIS LOVE WITH GAURI...
SINGHS HAVE THEMONEY TO GIVE POOR BUT THEY DONOT WANT TO GIVETHEIR SON SOME FOOD...JAGYA S MIATAKE HE LOVED A GIRLA CALLED GAURI TO WHOM HIS PARENTS ARE PAYIONG MONEY...THEY CAN SERVE GAURI WHATEVER THEY WANT..BUT JAGYA CANNOT LOVE THAT GIRL
 
JAGYA S BIGGEST FAULT...HE RAISEDA BANNER AGAINST BALVIVAH..HE IS NOW SUFFERER...


Edited by bhach - 05 September 2012 at 11:16pm

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 11:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Suchi-Virmanian

That jerk never learns. He is still heading back to Anandi. He just told at the haveli that he will not interfere in Anandi's life and there the first chance he gets , he is running back to her.

This time Anandi will not support him. 

He will only get the SHOCK of his life when she turns him down. Before he was her husband (naam ka hi sahih) but now, they are divorced.. chapter close.

THough she will be a bit hurt, she is not going ot turn her back on Shiv .,and his family.

Anandi is NOT gauri or jagya...


I wish when Annadi speaks/ scolds Jagya, there is Shiv around, In fact she should ask/hold back Shiv to be there during discussion

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Posted: 05 September 2012 at 11:18pm | IP Logged
You only get what you give, Jughead didn't only break Anandi's heart, soul and spirit, he broke everyone in his family.

Whatever he told Anandi, was also reflected to his family. He not only broke DS heart but he also broke her trust.

Therefore he is getting exactly what's suppose to come his way.

I think everyone deserves redemption even Jughead but to start off by lying isn't a good indication.

I have been told that our 'Sins aren't as big as God's mercy' , may he find that with God and then maybe his family will forgive him.   I do think if someone repents for the better we shld accept the person.

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